Are you living in a sexless marriage?

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What is a sexless marriage

The topic of sexless marriage is one issue in some marriages that is still taboo to talk about, and many couples do not even want to admit how long it may have been since they have been intimate with their spouse. Who is the "person" that determines what is the normal amount of sex in a marriage?
Who is to say what the standard of frequency of sex is in any marriage?

This is one of the grey areas in marriage that people want to know but are too embarrassed to ask. Usually when one person in the marriage is not happy or fulfilled this is when the questioning may begin. Marriage is about two people who come together to form a union and many times a man and woman may have different views on the frequency of how much love making is expected in the marriage. This poll is also a way for a husband and wife to take it together to break the ice and allow each other a view of what they may think is a normal amount of sexual intimacy in a marriage. This may help married couples to open the lines of communication surrounding sex in a marriage.
This poll is also a way to provide answers to questions that many people want to know but will often not ask.

When you take the time to participate realize that this is also a way to help another person who may be struggling with their marriage and looking for answers or as stated above take it with your spouse and you may be surprised to see what their answers are.

How many times a week do you think married couples should have sex on the average

This is an average, not when there is illness or a child coming, but just on the average.

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What determines a sexless marriage to you?

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Have you gone over three months in your marriage without sex

"note" not if illness involved or the birth of a child....please don't answer question

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If you answered yes to the question above

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From a scale of 1-10 how important is sex in your marriage

1 being the lowest or least important and 10 being the most important.

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Do you and your spouse talk about sex in your marriage

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Will you share this poll with your spouse?

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Books on celebrating sex in your marriage

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The Happy Spouse
Couples communication and sexual counseling for individuals and married couples. Help with marriage problems including solutions for couples with sexual issues through counseling, intimate products, books, dvd's, and articles.

Comments on this poll

  • tim May 31, 2012 @ 6:44 pm | delete
    how did i go
  • akumar46 May 19, 2011 @ 9:27 pm | delete
    Very informative polls and great lens on such a taboo subject.Thanks,it reveals a lot of facts about sex in marriage life.
  • dawnmichael Jun 9, 2011 @ 8:58 am | delete
    Thank you for taking the poll and the comment
  • dawnmichael Apr 7, 2012 @ 1:21 pm | delete
    Your welcome thanks for taking the poll!
  • magicgeniewishlist Feb 9, 2011 @ 4:27 am | delete
    Haha, that was really interesting. I did these polls with my partner. I never really thought about it, but we are reeeeally different in what we think.... Great lens, a real eye opener :)
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Dawn Michael holds her B.A. in Speech Communication, M.A. in Marriage Family Therapy, and is a Certified Clinical Sexologist.

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