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Get The Right Information To Cure A Sexless Marriage
I was sick and tired of reading so much useless information on the internet about sexless marriages that I had to get my point across.
Firstly - don't ever take advice from anyone who hasn't had to deal with the problem that you're going through.
Secondly - Yes! A sexless marriage can lead to divorce, affairs and even domestic violence.
Thirdly - Do not listen to people who tell you that a sexless marriage is a small hiccup in your relationship or that sexless marriages can heal themselves over time.
I had been in a sexless marriage and managed to come out the other side a winner. By winner I mean that my marriage is saved and our sex life is back on track. This isn't something which I take lightly because it could have gone so wrong, so easily.
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Firstly - don't ever take advice from anyone who hasn't had to deal with the problem that you're going through.
Secondly - Yes! A sexless marriage can lead to divorce, affairs and even domestic violence.
Thirdly - Do not listen to people who tell you that a sexless marriage is a small hiccup in your relationship or that sexless marriages can heal themselves over time.
I had been in a sexless marriage and managed to come out the other side a winner. By winner I mean that my marriage is saved and our sex life is back on track. This isn't something which I take lightly because it could have gone so wrong, so easily.
Cure Your Sexless Marriage NOW!
What Make A Marriage Sexless?
One of the common mistakes people make is that they think a sexless marriage means absolutely no sex - this is not true at all. A sexless marriage is defined as a couple who don't have sex more than 10 times per year.
Does a sexless marriage mean that there is no love? This depends purely on the reasons behind the problem. If one of you is having an affair, there is obviously going to be a love issue. If you have fallen out of love over time that too would mean that there is no love in the relationship.
BUT! As a rule, as sexless marriage isn't about the loss of love between you both. Yes that may sound hard specially if you're the one who's not getting any sex but it is quite true.
Does a sexless marriage mean that there is no love? This depends purely on the reasons behind the problem. If one of you is having an affair, there is obviously going to be a love issue. If you have fallen out of love over time that too would mean that there is no love in the relationship.
BUT! As a rule, as sexless marriage isn't about the loss of love between you both. Yes that may sound hard specially if you're the one who's not getting any sex but it is quite true.
Reasons For A Sexless Marriage
We all know that there is a lot of pressure in a relationship just to make it work. Some people find things harder to cope with than others and in a lot of cases it ends up leading to arguments, not talking and progresses into the sexless part.
Family commitments
Work overload
Financial worries
The Global recession
Kids
All of these things can pile on the pressure.
It's all well and good seeing a list but what if your problems (or your partners) aren't on that list, there are more reasons than the few here and some of them may be deep rooted or have been building up over months.
Whatever the cause of your sexless marriage, you really need to work fast at fixing it before it's too late.
Forget $500 counseling sessions, save the money for a vacation to re-kindle the passion.
Forget sleeping on the sofa, you can't have a conversation through a wall.
Forget everyone else, as far as you are concerned - there are only 2 people on this planet right now and you need to work together to fix things.
Fix Your Sexless Marriage NOW!
Family commitments
Work overload
Financial worries
The Global recession
Kids
All of these things can pile on the pressure.
It's all well and good seeing a list but what if your problems (or your partners) aren't on that list, there are more reasons than the few here and some of them may be deep rooted or have been building up over months.
Whatever the cause of your sexless marriage, you really need to work fast at fixing it before it's too late.
Forget $500 counseling sessions, save the money for a vacation to re-kindle the passion.
Forget sleeping on the sofa, you can't have a conversation through a wall.
Forget everyone else, as far as you are concerned - there are only 2 people on this planet right now and you need to work together to fix things.
Fix Your Sexless Marriage NOW!
My Advice For Anyone In A Sexless Marriage
I lived in a sexless marriage for nearly two years, we nearly got divorced, and we both started drinking which only led to more stupid arguments. I slept on the sofa to avoid having to talk or be talked to.
We nearly broke the kid's hearts because we thought that the only way to deal with this was though a divorce.
We played the blame game, you know the one! One of you starts blaming the other and before you know it, the whole thing has grown that big that there doesn't seem any way to say sorry.
I searched the internet to find help, I found sites and articles on what to do - they were obviously written by a single person who had never been in a serious relationship let alone a sexless marriage.
But! I did find help and that's why I have written this.
If you really want to make your marriage work - Take the first step. It doesn't matter whether you're the one who has decided to stop having sex or if you are the one who isn't getting any sex.
One big problem that anyone in a sexless marriage will have to deal with is the lack of communication, once you have re-established this; you can start to make progress.
Keep reading - Sexless Marriage Cure
We nearly broke the kid's hearts because we thought that the only way to deal with this was though a divorce.
We played the blame game, you know the one! One of you starts blaming the other and before you know it, the whole thing has grown that big that there doesn't seem any way to say sorry.
I searched the internet to find help, I found sites and articles on what to do - they were obviously written by a single person who had never been in a serious relationship let alone a sexless marriage.
But! I did find help and that's why I have written this.
If you really want to make your marriage work - Take the first step. It doesn't matter whether you're the one who has decided to stop having sex or if you are the one who isn't getting any sex.
One big problem that anyone in a sexless marriage will have to deal with is the lack of communication, once you have re-established this; you can start to make progress.
Keep reading - Sexless Marriage Cure
Sexless Marriage Statistics
According to Newsweek, more than 18% of couples have sex as little as 10 times a year, making them fall into what experts call the 'sexless marriage' category.
Another survey in the Newsweek shows that most married couples have sex about once every week. By contrast, unmarried singles have sex up to three times a week!
About 20-25% of men and 30-50% of women complain about their lack of sex drive.
About 25% of Americans, mostly women, suffer from a condition called Hypoactive Sexual Desire (HSD) which is a condition in which the person feels a persistent lack of interest in sex.
Sexless Marriages Can Be Fixed
Another survey in the Newsweek shows that most married couples have sex about once every week. By contrast, unmarried singles have sex up to three times a week!
About 20-25% of men and 30-50% of women complain about their lack of sex drive.
About 25% of Americans, mostly women, suffer from a condition called Hypoactive Sexual Desire (HSD) which is a condition in which the person feels a persistent lack of interest in sex.
Sexless Marriages Can Be Fixed
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MommyMachelle
Excellent Len's! I can relate in so many ways. As a wife in a struggling marriage I realize I need tips and tools and you have provided some great resources. Thanks
Machelle at http://www.mommymachelle.info
Posted December 14, 2008
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Posted November 09, 2008
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