What Women Really Want

The most important part of dating and seduction
has to do with being able to meet the kind of
women you want. The problem is, most guys can't
do that! They may get tongue-tied, don't know
what to say, or just simply freeze up -- paralized
with fear!

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to creating confidence within yourself so you
don't have to worry about rejection or uncertainty.

Author Joseph Matthews (aka: Thundercat) says "I
used to be completely hopeless with women. I was
too afraid of rejection to ever talk to a woman
I found attractive. But through much trial and
error, I discovered a way to overcome my fear and
meet the kind of women I enjoy. I wrote this book
to share my methods and hard work so that other
guys don't have to go through what I did to get
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Deep inside "The Art Of Approaching," Thundercat
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book is broken down into different sections.
They are:

* The Art Of Body Languge
* The Art Of Confidence
* The Art Of Approaching
* The Art Of Flirting
* The Art Of Storytelling
* The Art Of Being Social

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The eyes are the window to the soul. They will always betray what a person is thinking, if you're deft enough to pay attention to them.

I'm going to share some secrets about eye contact with you that is going to help you meet women like crazy. I hope you're ready for them, because I'm really spilling the beans here.

Are you ready for it?

Here they come

Secret #1: The Vertical Scan

This is a major body language cue, and one that is hard to pick up if you're not paying attention. Think about a woman you've seen that you found attractive. What did you do? Catch one look at her face, then looked down over her body, going from head to foot, right?

In short, you were checking her out.

Women do the same thing. When they see a man they're attracted to, their eyes will go from his face to his feet, because they want to see the whole package.

When you make eye contact with a woman, look at what her eyes do. If they flick downwards, guess what? She just checked you out!

She liked what she saw in your face, and wanted to see the rest of you. It doesn't matter if she looks away immediately afterwards, because she was attracted enough to you to check you out. That, my friends, is a major signal that she will be open to you approaching her (especially if the vertical scan is followed by a smile!).

The only problem with this great signal is that it's so easy to miss! Women you haven't noticed yet may have already done it. Also, it's such a quick action, you can easily miss it if you're not careful.

So when looking for the eye scan, always pay careful attention!

Secret #2: The Horizontal Scan

This is one of my favorite body language cues, because when this happens, you know you're in the home stretch!

This usually occurs after you've been talking to the girl for a while, you've successfully attracted her, and it's time to kiss. When you look deep into her eyes, you'll see them flicking back and forth as she looks from one eye of yours to the other, trying to get a read on you.

When you see this happen, go for the kiss right there! She's ready for it!

Secret #3: Dilated Pupils

I've mentioned this one before, but I'll reiterate it here. A woman's dilated pupils is an unconscious attraction response. The wider the pupils, the more attracted and excited the woman is getting.

You'll know what you're doing is working when you look into a woman's eyes and notice the black iris part is rather large. This is commonly referred to as the "Doggy Dinner Look," that you'll see in cartoons when a dog is silently begging for it's master to feed it.

The problem with dilated pupils is that other factors can affect its interpretation. For instance, if it's dark in the room the two of you are in, her pupils will naturally dilate to let in more light.

By the same token, if the woman is drunk or using drugs, her pupils will be dilated as well, because other stimulants are working to excite her body. So be aware of the different factors at play when reading your target's pupil dilation.

Secret #4: The Eye Contact Test

I think you're really going to like this secret, because I'm going to share a little trick with you that I've developed that really makes it easy to meet a woman.

Too often, guys are simply too nervous to approach a girl because of the extreme amount of uncertainty involved. Think about it. What runs through your head when you want to meet a woman?

"Am I her type?"
"Does she have a boyfriend?"
"Will she find me attractive?"
"Maybe she's too busy to meet anyone."
"Will she be receptive to me talking to her?"

I'm sure you can think of a 100 more things that run through your mind when you see an approach opportunity come your way.

If you get scared or nervous when this happens, it's because of one thing:

UNCERTAINTY.

You don't know how the girl you want to approach is going to respond! So your scared because the outcome MIGHT be negative!

Well, worry about this no more, because with this little trick I'm going to share with you, you'll never have to worry about a negative reaction again.

This little trick is so simple, ANYONE can do it! And it's a 100% fear free tactic.

We all know that eye contact is important, but something funny happens when we make eye contact with another person. We become COMPELLED to respond to them in some fashion. When it comes to women, you can use eye contact to find out if she's open to meeting you. In fact, in a way, she'll be opening YOU!

So here's what you do...

The next time you see a woman you want to meet, LOCK your eyes on her! Seriously, just stare at her eyes, even if she's not looking at you.

When people are out and about, they will usually look around to keep aware of their surroundings. This is an unconscious thing we all do. Eventually, the woman you're locking onto will look around to scan the area.

When she comes to you, her eyes will invariably meet yours, and you'll be locked in eye contact.

When that happens, simply SMILE at her.

If she smiles back, guess what? She's OPEN TO YOU MEETING HER. If she doesn't, then move on to someone who is.

And when she does smile back, say "Hi!" And if she responds, you're in! Go right into your opener.

I like to use this tactic in low-key situations, like grocery stores, coffee shops, book stores, etc. Even though it can work just as well in bars (as long as the light is high enough that she can actually SEE you!).

Often times, after you smile, the girl herself will say "Hi!" and then the rest is easy.

The next time you go out, do this to every woman you see. Lock your eyes onto them and see what happens. I guarantee you, you'll be surprised by the results.

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From Section 2, The Art Of Confidence, Chapter 3, page 25:

TITLE: Being Comfortable With Negative Feelings

As human beings, we all move towards that which is familiar. It's a natural instinct to seek out familiar things because we are comfortable with them - be they people, places, or things. The same is true of feelings.

Feelings that are familiar give us a sense of security. Our brain tells us "I know this feeling! This is familiar. This is safe." The feelings we are familiar with were shaped by our families when we were growing up.

If you lived in a family where the motto was "Stand up for yourself," when someone insulted you, chances are you learned to fight back, and you're familiar and comfortable doing so. However, if your family upbringing was "Don't make trouble," then it's more comfortable for you to not say anything and accept the insult.

If you want to change the way you feel, you must first understand why you feel the way you do.

Feelings can lead you to act in self-defeating ways. If you fill your head with depressing and negative thoughts, and you allow yourself to feel shameful and angry feelings, you will never be able to act confidently.

Many of us have picked up negative feelings growing up that become the normal way for us to feel. If we learned to feel ashamed to express interest in girls when we were young, it won't get any better as we get older. So whatever negative feelings you experienced growing up are considered "normal" by you, so that when good feelings come along, we may feel insecure and scared. When this happens, we actively seek out those negative feelings we've become accustomed to, even if they are painful.

Each of us naturally assumes the emotional traits of his own family. Your family is the one that sets the starting point of your development. Whenever you feel good or bad, you are basing that on the standard your family set for you.

When things go bad, we work to try and raise our feelings back to that set point. When things go good, we also work to lower those feelings back to the same point. There's an internal barometer we all have that lets us know what we're feeling, and we're always working to return to what feels normal to us.

It's the times where we feel too good that can be the most uncomfortable.

When this happens, we will actually WORK to spoil a good time for us. For instance, let's say you meet a really beautiful woman that you really like, and its a great opportunity for you to hook up with her! But based on your comfort zone, you might think:

"Wait, this girl's too wonderful, she'd never go for a guy like me."

This type of reaction reduces the good feelings you were having and brings you back down to what you're familiar with - a feeling of unreservedness - that you probably grew up feeling accustomed to.

Remember: familiar feelings = a sense of security. This is why so many people are more comfortable feeling bad about themselves than good! They've actually trained themselves to feel comfortable feeling bad! They'd rather not seek pleasure than avoid feeling pain.

When your familiar feelings are negative, they will damage your confidence.

The interesting thing about this is that we *logically* know that what we're feeling isn't right, or healthy, or even true! But for some reason, our logical brain is out of sync with our emotions, and we accept what we feel over what we think.

For many people, their feelings of shame are a form of logic. Our feelings literally shame our brain into accepting those negative and untrue thoughts, even when it knows better!

But remember that shame comes from self-criticism. Those who are self-critical imagine that everyone else is just as critical of them as they are of themselves! When you think like this, any type of confidence is almost impossible to achieve.

So what are the origins of your negative habits? What are the root causes of the feelings you experience? Chances are it can be traced back to your parents, but be careful not to blame them! It's more important to understand your parent's influence on your feelings so that you can stop blaming yourself for your current situation, rather than trying to figure out who to pass judgment on.

HOMEWORK: Sit down and think of how your parents would describe themselves. Are they using any of the five myths? Write down how your parents would describe themselves in those terms.

Would your mother consider herself "Old" and "Ugly?"
Would your father consider himself "Stupid" or a "Loser?"

Now look at how they describe you. Do any of these statements sound familiar?

"Your brother is the smart one."
"Don't be so stupid!"
"You're too fat! You need to lose weight."
"Don't miss out on life like I did."
"You're too old to start over."
"You're short, like my side of the family."
"Enjoy your hair while it lasts, because you'll be bald like me some day."
"You will never amount to anything."
"Prepare for the worst."

Some families only predict dark times in the future and discourage their children from all types of positive habits, such as ambition and success. This is especially true when it comes to your sexual development. Do these sound familiar?

"You better not have sex before you're married."
"Just settle for what you can get."
"Don't date out of your league."
"You better not let me catch you with a girl in your room."
"You'll never get a good woman looking like that."
"If you don't have a good job, you'll never be able to get married."

The list could go on. But you get the idea. Your parents, when they said those things, were instilling negative feelings about yourself and women in your head. They made your starting point one where you were never good enough, or attractive enough, or you had to feel guilty about your desires.

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STEP 1

Back when I was a kid, I was in the Boy Scouts. Now, anyone who knows anything about the Boy Scouts will know that tried and true motto: Always Be Prepared. It's simple, it's elegant, and most importantly - it's damn effective!

In life, this motto will help you achieve any goal you want. Being prepared for what you want is the best way to receive it. The universe will always give you that which you are after, but only if you are ready for it!

So the first thing you should do before you even step foot outside the house is to know what you want.

Seriously. It amazes me how few guys know what it is they want. Here's a little secret for you: If you don't know what you want, you'll never get it!

Do you want a one night stand? Do you want a girlfriend? Do you want a wife? Do you want a blonde, brunette, or redhead? Do you want a woman with big boobs? Do you want a highly educated woman? Do you want a woman who is independent? Do you want a woman who smokes? Do you want a single mom? Do you want a woman who loves giving blowjobs? Do you want a woman who is white, black, latin, or asian?

The list can go on and on. The fact is, knowing what you want will help you to get it! Why? Because you eliminate all the other distractions that could keep you from getting what you want or prolong your search.

For instance, let's say you want to settle down and you're looking for a woman to get married to. Are you going to waste your time picking up party girls who want to go out every night, dress sexy so other guys can oogle them, and never stay at home except maybe to shower and change clothes?

Of course not!

You're going to go after women who have settled down and are looking for stability. So this means you have to forget about those nightclubs all your buddies are going to, and look for venues where you can find the type of women you want.

So remember: Always know what you want! To the most minute detail. And don't be afraid to walk away should one of your requirements not be met.

STEP 2

The next step, after knowing what you want, is to ask yourself: Where can I find the type of women I want to meet?

This is really important. Different places attract different types of women. Depending on where you go, you will get a different category of women.

Notice, I'm not saying you can't meet a nice, stable girl who's ready to settle down at a nightclub. But your chances of meeting a wild party girl who's just into hooking up with a guy at such a venue is much greater. So if that's what you're looking for, a nightclub is a good bet you'll meet that type of girl there.

If you're looking for a girl who's a little less wild, maybe more intellectual, where would you meet these types of women? Figure out the places where a certain type of woman would congregate. In this instance: museums, book stores, art galleries, and libraries come to mind.

Once you know where the type of girl you want to meet will be, it will be far, FAR easier to meet them! Just think of all the time and effort you'll save by skipping the venues where the women you don't want dominate.

Of course, you should always be on the lookout for the type of women you want, so don't dismiss all women just because the venue isn't right. But typically, if you're on the prowl, the location will dictate the type of women you'll find.

STEP 3

Now that you know what you want, and where to find it, it's time to look at what you'll be presenting the world. Namely - YOU!

Let's face it, certain types of women are attracted to certain types of men. Depending on how you look, you will attract a certain type of girl.

Notice, I'm not talking about your physical looks here. We can't control how good looking or ugly we are physically. But we CAN control our appearance. This includes our hairstyle, our skin, our facial hair, our weight, and our clothing. We can groom ourselves to project a certain image that will attract the women we're after.

Let's take an example of this. Let's say I want to attract a stripper, and strippers are all I want to date for the rest of my life. Now, I know from experience that strippers are very easily attracted to "Rock and Roll" types. This doesn't mean you can't date strippers if you like to wear suits or simple t-shirts and jeans. But if you grow your hair long, have tattoos, smoke cigarettes, and like to wear a lot of black clothing with chains attached, you're going to have an advantage approaching strippers because they typically like that type of man.

So now that you know what you want, figure out what the woman you're after wants, and tailor your image to suit that. It will make your job much, much easier when it comes time to meet them.

But regardless of your image, you should always make an effort to look your best. Things like showering, brushing your teeth, and working out regularly go a long way not only in attracting women, but in your general sense of health. Always try to look your best whenever you're going out in public, because you just never know when that girl you're looking for will be there.

STEP 4

Once you know how you want to tailor your image, it's time for you to cultivate it. This means you gotta put some money forth. Now, if you're a guy like me, you HATE to go clothes shopping! Not only can it be expensive, but it can be a real pain in the butt!!!

However, putting the time and effort in now will pay off later when you got the girl of your dreams in your arms!

Now that you know what image you want to have, you'll have to pick the right store to shop at. Different stores cater to different styles, and different bank accounts. Clothing is a mix-and-match game, where sometimes you have to piece together outfit from many sources. But typically, you want a set of clothes to have a certain theme.

For instance, if you work at an office, you want to project a professional image, so all your clothes for the office might be nice, dark suits with monochrome shirts and flashy ties. But when you go out to concerts, maybe you have a bunch of ripped pants and faded vintage T-shirts.

Different environments call for different types of dress.

I believe that we all have different personas in different areas of our lives. Maybe at the workplace, you're a vicious shark who no one wants to mess with because you really know your stuff and you're an expert at what you do. That's your "work" persona. But when you go home to visit mom and dad, you're quiet and you do what you're told because you don't want to fight with your parents. That's your "son" persona.

We all do this, depending on how comfortable or confident we are in different situations. Your type of dress will determine how strong your persona is.

When you do go shopping for clothes, here's some advice for you. Take your time! Make sure you're not rushed, because you're making an investment in your future. You need to try on the clothes, see how they look, get opinions from the store clerks (don't be afraid to ask them what they think or their advice on what to get).

If you're looking for good, trendy clothes that will work in almost any situation, and won't totally drain your bank account, I suggest going to your local Banana Republic store. You can usually find these stores in the mall across America. They make great clothes, and their sales are fantastic. I never buy anything there that isn't on sale because their stuff can be expensive. But the sale items are just as good of quality as the regular items, only cheaper!

If you're looking to go for the rock and roll/gothic appearance, there are lots of routes you can go. The biggest store that caters to this look is called Hot Topic. You can find these stores in most malls. They sell all sorts of shirts and accessories that go well with this image.

In tandem with that, thrift stores, such as your local Goodwill Store, are good for that and a lot of different looks. Not only are these stores dirt cheap, but you can find hidden gems here, such as vintage t-shirts and the like. Stores like this are very popular with the more "arty" crowd.

If you're overweight, Casual Male has a great selection of clothes to fit bigger guys, and their clothes range from professional to really, really cool. Because I, myself, am overweight and find a hard time finding pants that fit well in the normal stores, I often go to Casual Male and buy jeans and other pants. Their selection of suits for big guys is really good as well.

The internet is also a great place to find really good clothes. There are tons of websites out there that feature their products and will ship them right to your home, and a lot of times they got great discounts too.

Cheaper outlets like Walmart, K-Mart, and Target have nice casual clothes, but I wouldn't recommend going there to find clothes to attract women (though going there to meet women is a different story!).

In addition to your clothes, pay attention to your grooming and hygiene too. Take care of your teeth by brushing at least twice a day and flossing. Try to shower at least once a day to stay clean and fresh (and make sure to wash your nether-regions! You never know when you might need to use them!!!). Take care of your skin and watch your diet. If you can, work out regularly. Thirty minutes a day three times a week is bare minimum for getting healthy. Remember: muscles on men are like breasts on women. The bigger they are, the more attention you'll get.

STEP 5

Okay, so far you know what you want, you know where to find it, you know what image will help you get what you want, and you've tailored your image to that. Now comes the most important step to perform before going out to meet women
Believing you can do it!

I am a big fan of the power of belief. I think that if someone believes they can accomplish something, they will. The same is true when it comes to meeting women.

Too often, guys take themselves out of the game before they even get a chance to play. They take one look at a woman and think "She's so beautiful! She must be out of my league. I could never get a girl like that"

Their belief is that they're not good enough to get what they want!

Can you imagine going through life with that belief? What if you were starving, and you saw a big, fat, juicy hamburger with a side of fries on the table before you. Would you say to yourself "That burger looks and smells soooooo good! There's no way I could eat it. I'm too hungry to eat that beautiful hamburger"

Doesn't make sense does it? But guess what: if you believe that you're too hungry to eat that big, juicy, delicious hamburger, you're not going to eat it!

That's how powerful belief is.

You need to make yourself believe that you can achieve your goal of getting a beautiful woman that will suit what you're looking for. And you have to believe that she will want you as much as you want her! Otherwise, you're in for a lonely, lonely lifetime.

One thing I will do before I go out to meet women is look in the mirror and psyche myself up. I learned to do this before sporting events, as most athletes do. The difference between a good athlete and a great athlete is his belief in his ability to win. So I'll look in the mirror and say things like:

You're going to meet a girl you like today.
She's going to be into you.
You're an attractive man.
You know what women want.
You're going to get her, it's just a matter of time.
You're going to have fun.

And various other things. Just say each affirmation for twenty seconds, looking yourself in the eye, in the mirror. Imagine meeting beautiful women, having good times with them, and getting what you set out to get - sex, love, romance, relationships - whatever!

This is what's called "Practicing Success."

If you practice success, you will succeed! Because you're training yourself to receive exactly what it is you want.

And you can do this anytime you want. When you're board, when you're driving in the car, when you're waiting in line, when you're on your break from work - whenever. The more you practice, the more ready you'll be to get what it is you want.

Remember that Kevin Costner movie "Field of Dreams?" Build it, and they will come? Well guess what: BELIEVE it, and you will achieve!

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Every man out there should learn how to approach women,
because if he doesn't, he is missing out on the vital first
step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a
relationship with her...

It's important that you know how to approach a girl the
right way. Let's go over some tactics that will help you to
be more successful than the average guy.

Remember a situation where you were going to approach a
girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she
freaked out and simply rejected you?

Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this
is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the
right way! Once you've "blown it" with a girl, it is
extremely hard to recover.

The key to approaching women is to approach them in a
NON-THREATENING manner that does not telegraph your
interest.

This is about by-passing a girl's defenses and flying in
"under the radar."

Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just
REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up
on.

This is because women get hit on SO MUCH by men, they just
don't want to deal with yet another guy coming up and
wasting their time.

Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how
to do it RIGHT.

So what's the right way to approach a woman?

The first secret is - DO NOT HESITATE!

If you wait too long before approaching a girl, you'll
probably talk yourself out of doing it. Be focused, and like
Nike - JUST DO IT.

Next, know before-hand what you're going to say. This makes
the act of approaching women so much easier, because you
don't have to waste time thinking of something to talk about
before you approach.

Having a good "pick up line" memorized for situations like
these is always a good idea.

But I'm not talking about the "Hey, nice shoes, what to have
sex?" type line. The point is to be NON-THREATENING,
remember?

The best lines usually engage the girl in an innocent
conversation. You can do so by asking her opinion on
something and then following that up with more questions.

An important tip you should be aware of is to always
approach a woman at an angle instead of charging towards her
like you're going to war! When you approach at an angle,
it's much less confrontational and you're going to
subconsciously put the woman more at ease than if you
approached her head-on.

The simple fact is - great pick-ups can only occur when the
girl you are talking to feels comfortable with you! That's
why you need to feel comfortable talking to the girl.

It's natural to feel uncomfortable meeting attractive women,
but remember - practice makes perfect! If you take the time
to go out and practice meeting women, over time it will
become easier and you'll be more comfortable with doing it.

Let me tell you - getting good at approaching women is not
going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it!
You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of
experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it).

If you're worried about being rejected, just look at it as a
game. The ONLY thing you're doing is approaching women.
You're not asking her out, you're not trying to get her into
bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of
conversation.

That's all you need to do!

Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in
one day, and then try and beat your score.

The last thing you want to remember is always use a "time
constraint" when approaching a woman. This is very easy to
do - just tell her right off the bat that you're not going
to be long because you have to get back to what you were
doing.

Time constraints let the girl you're talking to know that
you're not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will
be a quick conversation. Because of this, she'll be more
willing to engage in your talk.

The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and
is going well, she'll forget that you used a time
constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you
want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make
the approach easier in the beginning.

The dating game is a numbers game. The more women you're
able to meet, the greater your chances at finding a great
girlfriend, and possibly even a future wife.

Here's What I Want You To Do Next.

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