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• One of our female readers has contributed to this weeks tip. She says "I'm more then happy to get on my knees for my man, so when he ate me out while I stood, I got an interesting male perspective, most females don't get the chance to be pleasured standing up. It made me feel powerful. This man was on his knees in front of me, telling me he wanted my body, spreading my legs, ever so slightly and licking my clitoris. I can understand why men like the pose. It's triumphant to stand there, I felt intensely beautiful, a powerful feminine figure, wanted and pleased. A reminder of the masculine-feminine roles was subtle, as he placed his hands on my belly and kissed my abdomen, running over my hips and the thin part of my waist. What a delicious thing for a man to do." So guys show your ladies how much you really worship them get on your knees. You could try this with her against a wall, or with one of her legs over your shoulder. It's a little more difficult on your part (since you're partly holding her up), but very hot. And don't forget to look up at her once and a while, eye contact only makes it hotter.
• Change positions
  There's more to life than the Missionary Position sex , just as beds aren't exclusively designed for sleeping in. Think of your sex life as an Olympicn arena, with a host of games on offer. Don't limit yourself to a switch in position either. Vary the time, the place (why not ban the bed?) and the duration too. A little change to your sex routine can make a huge difference to your sex life, and bring you and your lover closer together too.
• This tip is in response to the many email questions we have gotten recently on Cock Rings. Many people are interested in using them but don't how or why. Cock rings are often used to make the erect penis harder and bigger, and they help keep it that way for a longer amount of time, which can lead to delayed and heightened orgasm for the wearer. Cock rings work by constricting blood flow in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer ejaculates, the sensation is more intense, since it often takes a longer time to reach orgasm, and because the penis is filled with additional blood. A cock ring should be put on after the penis is erect and the use of a lubricant makes the process a bit easier. However, with the stretchy materials and adjustable rings available it should be fairly easy to put them on and take them off.
  Cock rings should only slightly increase the size of a man's erection. If there is excessive swelling, then the fit of a cock ring is too tight. If you find swelling, pain or if the genitals feel cold, take the cock ring off immediately. When wearing any cock ring you need to make sure you do not wear it for an extended period of time. Do not wear one for more that a couple hours as they can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection (priapism). If this happens you need to seek medical attention as soon as possible to avoid permanent penis damage. Overall the cock ring is a fun way to make sex more exciting for both partners! Especially with the new vibrating cock rings which are used to provide extra stimulation to the clitoris or the women's anus. This works best with women on top positions where she can grind against the vibrating portion. Cock rings come in many different sizes and shapes.
• Watch a dirty movie with your lover. It's a great way to enhance sexual communication. When you see it you can talk about it. You can let each other know your preferences or boundaries with ease as they come up in the film. It can help to spice up your sexual repertoire. Seeing other people being creative in bed can give any slow sex life some new ideas. It can help get both of you aroused. When you need that extra push the right adult film can do the trick in a few minutes, whereas foreplay alone may take to long. It can hep take away the feeling that you (or your partner) are a freak. Seeing other people do things can normalize sex for you and your partner. If she sees a fellow woman enjoying analingus, for example, she may not feel badly about wanting to explore it. Entertainment, value is a good enough reason all by it's self. So grab a movie and enjoy it with you lover. Click here for recommendations on some classic films for couples.
• Enhance Masturbation:
  Both women and men can be a little too goal-oriented when masturbating, focusing on the end point, rather than enjoying the whole journey. Savor the pleasure by prolonging the experience. Let your hands wander all over your body, touching yourself as you would like a lover to touch you. Seek out your sensitive spots and linger on them; your buttocks and inner thigh can be especially sensitive. When you are with your partner, masturbate together and show each other how you like to be touched. The more you and your partner can arouse each other all over, not just through the penis or clitoris, the more sensual your lovemaking will become.
• Indulge in Fantasies:
  Some people worry about their sexual fantasies, but really there's no need. Your fantasies are a healthy expression of your inner life. Don't worry if you wouldn't consider doing them in real life; this isn't 'real life,' so you can let yourself go. Your fantasies might be romantic scenarios, involve 'kinky' toys, or be just downright depraved! They may involve sex in public, with more than one partner, or might even be forced sex fantasies - expressing an inner, often unconscious desire to break free of any sexual limits or repressions that you may have. You might also want to share your fantasies with your partner - or play out a few . Even if you don't want to make your fantasies a reality, talking about them with your partner can take you both to a new level of intimacy.
• Give each other 'guided' oral sex, with one of you saying what you want, minute-by-minute, while the other obliges. If you can't find the words, let the 'doer' experiment, while the 'being done to' murmurs numbers from one to ten to show just how good it is - the aim for the doer is to keep the numbers as high as possible.
• Slip and Slide:
  Buy yourself a large blow-up kiddies pool. Get yourself a couple of bottles of mineral oil, pour them onto the bottom of pool. Get your favorite sex toys. Get naked and get into the pool with your lover for an afternoon or evening full of well lubricated pleasure. Mineral oil is the best lubricant, it never dries up, so you don't have to worry about things drying out.
• Be responsive:
  Guys, this may come as a shock, but most women don't relish the prospect of their man going at it like a jackhammer. Your penis may be the most sensual part of your body, but focusing on your needs and not hers is going to leave her cold, so start picking up on the way she responds and stop thinking about yourself all the time.
• Most beginners at fellatio tend to hold their breath. More experienced women will learn to breathe while performing the act. Though you can't breathe during every sex act, this tip will show you how breathing plays a role in performance. Nothing gets the job done like finding the right combination of speed and suction, but it's still a thrill to occasionally take him in deep. Though some penises are large and some mouths are small, no matter whom you are, you'll swallow more of his man hood if you exhale before taking him in. When you inhale, then hold your breath, your throat becomes like an inflated balloon, pushing your tongue and the back of your mouth higher. However, when you exhale, then hold your breath, the vacuum in your trachea pulls the back of your throat lower, adding up to two inches to your capacity. Try it and see! Some also report it reduces gagging.