Tips for guys who have trouble dating
Here is a lense that will teach you simple tips and tactics for meeting women and getting a lot more dates than you can do now. Improving your social life is critical to all your success in life. Because if you aren't happy, you are going around grumpy and mad at the world. You know it is true.
I will share how I a short, fat average looking guy turned my life around in under 2 years. I went from zero to 3 new dates every month at least.
Read on..
Why Can't I Get A Date?
Some good points to remember:
You are supposed to be dating. Never feel ashamed or wonder what other people are going to think. Your duty as a human is to meet and date members of the opposite sex. It is the reason we are on earth.
And if you don't, you lose.
Will you make mistakes and blow it, absolutely everyone does. Get over it there are millions of women on the planet. Billions actually. There is no shortage of lonely ladies, even some of the most beautiful. Any single woman is a prospect. But you have to start the relationship out, she rarely will.
And don't forget, even Brad Pitt strikes out. You can't have every woman you want.
Don't worry about it just keep it fun and learn from each meeting and date. The more women you date the better and more comfortable you will be.
Women want a guy who knows what he is doing, they don't want to mother you or teach you. So date several women before you even think about getting a girlfriend.
You don't have to be good looking to get a good looking girl, you just have to look your best and act like a classy guy who knows what he wants and can take care of things.
Get out there and start looking. Here are some good body language keys to pay attention to:
Watch for signs of interest:
Eye Contact and smiling
Her pupils dilate
She is giggling and having a good time
She touches you back
She stays close and is paying attention to you
She leans closer or moves a little closer to you
If she sticks around and listens to what you are saying
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Remember The Most Important Thing Is Your Attitude, no matter what you look like. Things don't get you down and you don't let things get to you. You are always in control and don't take things very serious when talking to a woman. Keep it positive and fun, ALL THE TIME!
Think about this if you are having problems finding a date
Speed Dating Questions- Be Unique
You will have a chance to have little 8 minute dates with up to 25 partners. Talk about a fast way to meet a lot of dating prospects. The typical speed dating event is set up in a lounge or restaurant and lasts a couple of hours. There will be a host to get things started and you will sit down with your date for 5-8 minutes and then move on to the next lady. Very relaxed and stress-free dates.
There is little pressure, as long as you remember this is just fun. Stay calm and relaxed and just go with it. See what happens. Just think about how much you will have to talk about for the next week. It is an adventure and will give you many stories to talk about with people.
You will want to be dressed well and looking your best. Now you are probably wondering what you should talk about. Well it is only 8 minutes so you don't have to try and impress.
Simple but unusual questions are the best. And you only need a few, you can ask them all the same question if you want to. Nobody will notice, they are busy talking to someone else.
Don't ask them about their job, family or what they like to do.
Ask something she hasn't heard before, something she will have to think about to give you a good answer.
Some unique questions for speed dating or dating in general:
1. Where do you want to be in 3 years?
2. What was your favorite toy when you were a kid?
3. Tell me about your first crush.
4. What do you look for in a guy?
5. If you could jump on a plane tonight, where would you go?
6. What made you pick out that color of scarf?
7. What's the scariest thing you have ever done?
8. Tell me what superpower would you love to have? Flying, invisible, able to leap buildings?
9. What parts of your job do you absolutely love?
10. Why did you want to try speed dating?
11. How would you spend a million dollars in 30 days?
12. Where do you really want to travel to?
13. Why do you live in Seattle? What do you like about it?
14. What is your favorite holiday?
15. If money was no object, what would you love to do for work?
So there you have some great examples of unique speed dating questions. You only have a few minutes with each person so be different and make her think. If you listen carefully and pay attention, she will give you ideas on where to go next in the conversation. Give her your complete attention and look at her eyes!
Speed dating is a blast, give it a try.
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There are lots of ways for getting over your shyness. You really need to get out there and practice all the time. It is the only way you can improve. If I could offer you one tip, go find 3 girls and make friends with them, just friends. They will help you and make you comfortable just talking to women. It is no big deal. Remember that every time you go up and start talking.
Make yourself an interesting guy by doing fun interesting things. Then you will have things to talk about..... Get out there and PRACTICE!
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Guys It is all About Attitude
If you have a problem with your height, she will too! Women take what you give them and go with it.
She will test you to see if you have problems being short. If you have no problem with it, she wont either! Attitude and self confidence come from inside you. No one else can give it to you.
And remember people are all stuck in their own head worried about their own problems. People really don't care if you are short, they have their own issues. No one really cares one way or the other.
If you are cool and fun to be around, she will want you around.
If you fall apart if she says something or looks at you funny. You lose. Keep your composure and don't let any thing she says or does get to you. She will test you all the time, just laugh and find something to tease her about.
Get her laughing about something.
If you learn the Game, she will let you play.
You can't do anything about a woman who doesn't like you. There are millions more.
Who loses if she doesn't want to talk to you or date you?
She does, she isn't going to have fun with you. Some other girl WILL. There are tons of lonely women out there, go get one of them.
Who cares if you are short? Can you change it? NO!
Get out of your head and start enjoying the moment with women. Assume she likes you and carry on. If not, you find someone else who IS fun.
What you are doing here is not killing yourself getting her to like you!
You are looking for a women you like. And taking your one shot. If it doesn't work out, say "talk to you later" and move to the next girl.
You are checking them out! Seeing if she is right for you. You decide!
Learn the GAME! It is a only a game. Playing it is part of the fun of life. It isn't supposed to be serious!
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Jason wrote
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Posted June 25, 2009
James wrote
My biggest problem is not meeting any nice women of the calibre I like. It is also very hard to pluck up the courage to ask for a date. I am extremely shy and seldom meet anyone I like. My only experience of women is unrequited love and rejection. I know exactly what I like but my feelings are seldom appreciated.
Posted June 20, 2009
Wyatt wrote
I also, never know what to do in the opening of the conversation, What do I say, or do? I'm a very Anti-Social person, I can usually be found with above all a good autobiography. The last date I had was several weeks ago, and that was my first date since the break up in may 08, her friends I presume forced her into it, as I'm friends with her friends boyfriend, and I guess they put two and two together and deduced we should date, however on the date I was nervous driving with her in my car, I tried to do anything, and failed, and above all I was nervous enough to not monitor my speed, as I looked down, and I was going 120 MPH, we made it to the theatre 30 miles away in just under 11 minutes as she noted. I drive a nice sports car, why is that not working in my favour? I drive a 2006 Ford Mustang GT. Is it me, I don't understand this game they play. Also note, I am shy enough to not be able to approach kissing, my ex girlfriend eventually told me to kiss her.
~Romanlegion89@gmail.com
Posted December 23, 2008
Wyatt wrote
I'm 5'7, 19, in the Army, and have only had one girlfriend, and that was because I listened to my friends who told me to just talk to her, I began small talk, and I felt cornered, and I panicked and just blurted it out that I wanted to take her to prom, she gave me a maybe. The next day I was back with my friends, and she approached my little group, and told me yes, I did not expect this, nor did I know what to do/say, so I said "thank you", She broke it off w/ me after prom, I think I was just used for a last second date. Ugh, I fail at this, it makes me wonder among other things about ending all this this life, either a bayonet, or a pistol. I'm just so lost, and depressed with my life, I wish I could just swap bodies with someone else and live on like that, or swap with a woman, and figure out what the deal is. Every time I try to ask a girl out, if in the rare instance I can actually act upon it, I simply choke, or get rejected. I will try again, hopefully I can carry out this one.
Posted December 23, 2008
Nicholas wrote
My greatest Problem is trying to Talk to them,Trying to get the first move,I mean Like meeting her and you are a total stranger you don't know how she will react when you say hi and when she responds what do you say to her.Thats my greatest problem,plus am shuy.nchlsirungu@yahoo.com is my email,email me with a solution.
Posted October 31, 2008
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