3 Ways to Eliminate Your Shyness With Women
Do you find that you become shy around women? Is your shyness affecting your dating life? If so, there is good news. You can overcome your shyness with a few easy steps and finally have the dating life you want. For many men, their shyness is why they simply avoid approaching women or even try to attract them. Being shy with women may be preventing you from meeting the beautiful women you watch other men meet and take home.
Here are a few tips to help you finally stop being shy with women and become that confident man girls are attracted to and desire.
1- Let go of your expectations!
Yes, when trying to meet a woman, the initial conversation is the means to an end. Ultimately, you desire to get her number or secure a date. However, going into the conversation focusing on your expectation of the outcome is a good way to reduce your chance of success. You can stop being shy with women with if you simply RELAX!
Relax, enjoy the conversation and have fun. It should go without saying that the topics of the conversation should be light. Do not get into your dating history or emotional baggage, even if she asks. Remember, just concentrate on how much you are enjoying talking to her.
Repeat to yourself "I don't care. I don't care." Okay, avoid taking that advice too literally. But, the point is that you should not care about the outcome. If she does not give you her number in the end, there will be other opportunities. Just consider it practice for next time.
2- Know what you want to happen!
Now, you are probably thinking right now that I have contradicted myself with this second tip. Let me explain a bit further. I suggested above that you let go of your expectations for the outcome of the conversation. However, you must still have a plan of action and go into the conversation knowing what you want.
Do not dwell on the outcome during the conversation, but you must determine the purpose of that conversation. Do you want a date with her? Do you want to get her number? Do you want to sleep with her? Or, do you just want to have a good time? Basically, do not worry about whether or not it will happen but have a plan. This way, you can steer the conversation toward your goal and better achieve the results you want. It is much easier to get what you want when you know what it is you want.
3- Practice makes perfect!
Yes, practice your way out of being shy with women and into confidence. The more conversations you have with different women, the more confident you will become and, hopefully, the less shy you will be. Give yourself time to find out what conversation skills work best for you in different situations. In time, you will have learned what works best and will be comfortable about talking to women. Once you feel confident around women, this confidence will become part of your personality and one of your most attractive features to women.
If you want to gain confidence around women and not be shy with women go ahead and try these three tips. In time, you can say goodbye to your shyness. Remember, let go of the goal yet know what you want and, most importantly, practice!
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Visualization Can Help You Overcome Shyness
EVERY guy gets nervous before he approaches a woman and initiates a conversation. In fact the fear of approaching is probably the biggest obstacle we face towards meeting and dating beautiful women. The true masters of seduction are the ones who can quickly deal with this fear and approach without hesitation.
In fact the ability to deal with nervousness separates the men from the boys! Unlike a lot of men, masters of seduction can quickly squash their nervousness and can confidently approach with confidence.
Now there are a number of tricks you can use to eliminate your nervousness. But in this tip, I want to focus on a simple technique you can use TODAY to reduce your nervousness.
Simply put, a great technique you can use is called "Visualization". When you use this technique, you can imagine your success then go out and achieve it!
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Just sit quietly for a few minutes each day and make a picture in your head about approaching women. In this "pre-scripted movie" you picture yourself approaching women confidently and instantly attracting them. Then you envision their positive reactions to everything you're saying and how they're interested in what you have to say.
Visualization works because you're coaching yourself into being confident around women. Furthermore, the mind doesn't remember the difference between reality or imagination. If you're constantly using visualization, you'll convince yourself that you're a master at approaching women.
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