About Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)

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Coping with SIDS

The inspiration for this lens is my niece Sophia Rose. She was sent back to God July 2008; she was exactly three weeks old. This is what I feel I can do to help my sister and her family. The only other thing I can do is to be there for her when she needs me.

I hope this lens will help others to cope with their loss, and to educate people who don't know a lot about SIDS. Maybe it will clear up some misconceptions. I know I had many before little Sophia Rose graced us with her brief appearance.

I hope you will add your story. I'd like to hear about your little angel.

SIDS is the number one cause of death in infants between one month and one year of age. It is sudden and unexpected and even after an autopsy no cause of death is found. In a typical situation, parents go to check on their infant they think is sleeping only to find their baby dead. There is no greater tragedy!

Countdown to Spring For SIDS Day

Spring For SIDS Day: April 29, 2011

National Fundraiser and SIDS Awareness Day

Friday, April 29rd, 2011

Put a Spring in your Step ... add a little Sunshine to your heart and Spring for SIDS by wearing your favorite Spring outfit and your SIDS sticker. Check out the website for more information: http://www.springforsids.org/

WHAT IS SUDDEN INFANT DEATH SYNDROME (SIDS)?

According to the American SIDS Institute:

SIDS is the sudden death of an infant under one year of age which remains unexplained after a thorough case investigation, including performance of a complete autopsy, examination of the death scene, and review of the clinical history. (Willinger et al, 1991).

In a typical situation parents check on their supposedly sleeping infant to find him or her dead. This is the worse tragedy parents can face, a tragedy which leaves them with a sadness and a feeling of vulnerability that lasts throughout their lives. Since medicine can not tell them why their baby died, they blame themselves and often other innocent people. Their lives and those around them are changed forever.

THE "BACK TO SLEEP" CAMPAIGN

Research shows that there is less of chance for SIDS to occur if babies are placed on their backs.

Betty McEntire, PhD, Executive Director, American SIDS Institute, states:

It's hard to know for sure what babies like since they can't tell us. However, babies do tend to cry more when placed on their backs. In fact, for many "hard to soothe" infants, placing them on their stomachs does seem to calm them and help them fall to sleep. Also, babies wake less when on their stomachs and it takes more stimulation to wake them than when they are on their backs. Another thing we know is that tummy-sleeping infants retain more heat than when on their backs.

But should parents give in and place their little ones on their tummies? They should certainly not! Infants are more likely to have apnea (pauses in breathing) when on their stomachs. They are also more likely to re-breathe the air they have just exhaled, which can raise their levels of carbon dioxide. The increased retention of body heat can also be dangerous for some infants. But more convincing than any other fact is that belly-sleep has up to 12.9 times the risk of death as back-sleep*.

* Changing concepts of sudden infant death syndrome: implications for infant sleeping environment and sleep position. American Academy of Pediatrics. Task Force on Infant Sleep Position and Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. Pediatrics 2000 Mar;105(3 Pt 1):650-656.

TALK ABOUT YOUR LITTLE ANGEL HERE (Add pictures and blurbs below)

What is your story? It's painful, but we never want to forget.

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  • Denise Sego Apr 13, 2010 @ 1:10 pm | delete
    My Grandson passed away Saturday April 10th, 2010 from S.I.D.S. He was only 4 months old. The pain is heavy, the loss is great. I wrote my daughter this poem.

    I had a talk with God today and asked him what was wrong.
    Was it something Beth had said or done to take him from her arms?

    He knew I came with anger yet, he let me say my peace.
    I asked him why a thousand times until I couldn't speak.

    You see, I'm just the Grandma but you've hurt my little girl.
    All her life I've fixed the wrongs that life has dealt to her.

    Her scuffs and scrapes I fixed and kissed and on her way she went.
    But now I can't undo this pain that you so cruelly sent.

    Why I asked, why now, why her, my patience growing thin.
    What could I do to make this right and bring him back again.

    He let me speak and whine and cry and forgave my choice of words.
    And then when all was said and done, these words from him I heard.

    I sent to Beth and Charles an Angel from my wing.
    To bring him home with me again was not an easy thing.

    It's not my will to punish as you suggest it be.
    My plan was most a generous one as time goes on they'll see.

    Some Angels stay a lifetime as Beth has been for you.
    Others a day a month or more, with Charlie, quite a few.

    I sent him here to touch the hearts of those I could not reach.
    The loss of faith and hope in life, began to lose it's strength.

    The miracle as expected was the joy and love he gave.
    The memories for a lifetime on this journey they'll engrave.

    I know the days now forward, will no less feel in vain.
    The love and joy he gave to them will guide them once again.

    The pain and grief and lonleness will take enormous time.
    Yet time will heal the emptiness and peace once more they'll find.

    For a moment I was lost, my flock was minus one.
    Now to my wing he has returned, the one that they called son.

    Do not dispare dear Grandma, leave it in my hands.
    There's things I know that you can't see, it's all within life's plan.

    With them he spent his lifetime, he did not come to stay.
    Please understand his work was done, now go in peace I say.

    God
  • Jill Sep 2, 2009 @ 9:31 pm | in reply to mary | delete
    I am so sorry to here about your horrible encounter with SIDS. We lost our daughter Gracie to SIDS on 9/23/07 when she was 11 weeks and 1 day. I also breastfed...she was on her back...didn't smoke, etc. We all do what we know is right for our babies. But how do we know we did the right thing.....what is the wrong thing??? What causes SIDS??? Not saying we did anything wrong....just hard to know what we did or didn't do. I am just so lost and cannot wait for the cure to SIDS....the END TO SIDS!
  • LissaKlar May 28, 2009 @ 9:49 pm | in reply to mary | delete
    I'm so sorry, Mary. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers and light a candle for your son. Thanks for sharing. Missy
  • mary May 20, 2009 @ 3:20 pm | delete
    my son was taken by SIDS 10/16/08 at 2 weeks old he was happy heathy and was on his back i breast feed and every thing u r sopost to do but i woke to get my 5yo off to scholl and found him i started cpr but it was to late

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IN MEMORIUM

Little Angels whom we will never forget.

Please feel free to add a link from your blog or another lens or where ever in honor of your little one.

Read about dear Sophia Rose:

http://www.legacy.com/ncnewsonline/Obituaries.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonId=1135095091 point

WAS THIS INFORMATION HELPFUL? HOW CAN THIS LENS BE IMPROVED?

Please let me know what else I could share on this lens that you believe would be helpful to families who have been befallen with this tragedy.

  • Brittney Eldredge Apr 28, 2011 @ 8:23 am | delete
    Hi my name is Brittney and i was just researching on SIDS and i saw this link.. i lost my niece Nataya and she was 3 weeks old when she passed away. i am sorry for your lose. if you are doing a fun raiser i would be more then happy to know more about it. email back at becrazyxo0@aol.com. please and thank you
  • tiff0315 Apr 17, 2011 @ 11:42 pm | delete
    Very touching and sad lens. I pray for those who've suffered such a loss.
  • Janiece Jan 28, 2011 @ 7:18 am | delete
    Blessed.
  • LissaKlar Jan 28, 2011 @ 9:46 pm | delete
    Thank you. It means so much!
  • Comfortdoc May 18, 2009 @ 1:35 pm | delete
    A beautiful tribute to your niece. Welcome to the Grief & Loss Club.
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After losing someone close to me from SIDS, when I found out I was pregnant we were pretty nervous. Then, we received this as a gift from a special friend and our fears have pretty much subsided. The monitor's alarm will sound if the baby stops breathing and there is no movement for 18 seconds. Our daughter still uses this at 15 months. Every time it accidentally gets set without the motion on, I'm very nervous. If you set up the sensor pad up on a flat board underneath the mattress as specified, you should not have any problems. The only thing that might annoy some people is that when the baby gets over to the very edges of the crib, the monitor's alarm sounds. This doesn't happen very often but when it does, it is worth the slight annoyance for me to keep my piece of mind.