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  • Christiina May 22, 2012 @ 4:56 pm | delete
    wow this is gooooooood...thank you!
  • vina May 16, 2012 @ 9:38 pm | delete
    Help!!!!!! I been with my man for 6 years and I have twins by him and I love him with all my heart.but I'm starting to think he's talking to girls on facebook .I feel that's cheating he leaves he's status on there single from a fight we had a year again he stays on his phones I just don't know what to think help me please:(
  • spellbindingsisters Apr 2, 2012 @ 7:12 pm | delete
    Great Lens enjoyed it!
  • MindPowerProofs Apr 1, 2012 @ 3:38 pm | delete
    Great lens. Nicely done
  • Marie Love Mar 26, 2012 @ 1:13 am | delete
    !!!!!! I NEED ADVICE PLEASE HELP1!!!

    So i just started to think my boyfriend is cheating he just moced unto a room he is renting that he found off craigslist and there is a chick her boyfriend and another man that lives there. Hes lived there for about 4 days and i was spose to have my mom take me to see him the 2nd day he was there. (i dont havr a car) well he cancled and started to say he wasnt comfortable having people over that soon and he would rather me wait till his car gets out the shop so he can come get me. Well tgat same night his brother goes over there & then tonite i find out one of my friends went to go met him to buy something but I didn't find out about them meeting up till hours after. He's been acting real mean picking fights callin me names and everytime I call he says he was eating using the bathroom and he went out for a smoke and yada yada. But they have parties I know that. So I'm thinking he met a female that came over or something. I asked him about it but he got kinda mad and said no. Idk please help!!!
  • WriterJanis Feb 10, 2012 @ 4:20 am | delete
    Great lens. Blessed!
  • MelonyVaughan Feb 6, 2012 @ 7:48 pm | delete
    What a great and insightful lens! I'm forwarding this one to my girlfriends.
  • TransplantedSoul Jan 30, 2012 @ 8:40 am | delete
    You always need to be careful of jumping to conclusions. Awareness (not spying) is the best approach.
  • jimmyworldstar Jan 23, 2012 @ 2:22 pm | delete
    Talking online does not have anything to do with cheating. Also, you'd really have to catch someone red handed to make the claim that they're cheating. I feel like paranoia and jealousy rules over many men and women.
  • Daisyqueen13 Jan 19, 2012 @ 4:48 pm | delete
    What if he says "i hate you so much i love you?
  • Daisyqueen13 Jan 19, 2012 @ 4:48 pm | delete
    What if he says "i hate you so much i love you?
  • sushma the truthful one Jan 16, 2012 @ 8:22 pm | delete
    No, not ever.. because it will only hurt me & my pride. My emotions & feelings. I can never look at him or even bother to. I would be more than happy to forget his face & all that we ever did. Because that's fair. If he ever would have loved me by heart, then he could've kept his hands to himself by knowing the term 'faithfulness', 'loyalty' & 'honesty' also his duties as the significant other.

    It's fine, even if he had billions of dollars, fame, looks, personality, the guy my family loved but, no! cheating is never an option or neither it has any solutions, we can never-ever accept the fact being cheated on or cheating someone.

    It's just rude, self-greed on not needed desires, only retarted & fools would commit to it instead of commiting to loyal partners who are waiting for them to come home very night & shed tears for those liers every night alone.

    conclusion, they deserve better!
  • Mel Dec 20, 2011 @ 2:57 pm | delete
    Cheaters are not worth your time.
  • Jolene Dec 19, 2011 @ 5:24 pm | delete
    Don't stay with a cheater gurls. It never turns out well.
  • isheorisn'the Dec 13, 2011 @ 4:41 pm | delete
    Ok..... So my boyfriend works out of town. We talk on the phone at least 45 minutes every night and he usually don't get to bed till 11pm. The other night around 7:30pm he called me and spoke to me for 3 minutes, when I heard a voice in the background say"Hey" and suddenly the phone hung up and his phone was turned off. I called my brother-n-laws phone who usually answers and never did and I tried to text with no response. I then called another guys phone he works with who usually answers and would not answer , so I txt him and told him to tell my boyfriend to call me. And of course no response. I tried calling him all night and his phone was on and then turned off again at 2am. I spoke to him the next morning and he says he fell asleep at 10pm. Well he also sounded like crap, like he had a horrible hangover, and he said he did , but i know him well enough by his voice he sounded like he didn't have much sleep. So what does anyone think on here??????
  • allie from wva Jan 15, 2012 @ 5:48 pm | delete
    gurl he is playing you for a fool if he called you at 730 and didnt fall asleep till 10 then why couldnt he call you back in the 2 and half hours that he was awake he played you be carefull
  • niceman91 Nov 16, 2011 @ 6:45 pm | delete
    I don't cheat on my gf :)
  • adultsearch Dec 27, 2011 @ 8:27 pm | delete
    Good for you, Mr. Niceman91! :D
  • zoro Nov 11, 2011 @ 11:25 pm | delete
    He is ALWAYS on his phone, busy with something and if i ask then it's his cousin. Caught him about a month ago on facebook, but he said me that nothing happened. For some reason i still have my doubts. And apparently it's my fault that he is looking around! He also deletes all the history from his phone. Do you think he is cheating?
  • ouriloilo Nov 5, 2011 @ 8:03 pm | delete
    Definitely a pressing issue among lovers these days. I would definitely leave mine if I find him cheating.
  • First lady Nov 4, 2011 @ 11:07 pm | delete
    My son had his dad phone and told me that a girl text his phone but she was under a guy name he denyin the text messages that read I been with him for sixteen yrs what should I do she sayin that she fallin for him
  • fireblazzer Sep 14, 2011 @ 11:23 pm | delete
    an interesting page... you have some good info here

    i dont like to cheat

    thats why i always give the impresstion to a girl that im the type of guy that sees more then one girl,, and prefers not to commit.... some of them still get suprised when they find out i sleep with another girl,,, but deep down inside they knew i would, so they ussualy understand.. or just turn the other cheeck when i do it.

    i prefer open relashinships.... were i am free to explore a bit.... the girl is always welcome to,, but i find many girls prefer to just stay with one guy... almost all the girls i have been with were fairly understanding of my feelings on the issue,, i do my best to make it clear that i prefer open relashinship with more freedom for the both of us.
  • DaveStone13 Aug 17, 2011 @ 2:56 pm | delete
    Why go to all the trouble. If the signs are that numerous and the relationship shaky enough that you have check for signs, just go. It isn't working and cheating is a symptom.

    By the way, long, long ago, when I was single, I cheated on almost every girlfriend I had, and I almost always got away with it. It's like crime. Only fools and those who want to get caught.
  • jenniferhealy30 Jul 22, 2011 @ 8:44 am | delete
    Great Lens Jane!

    Naturally this is a sensitive subject and something no girl or anyone wants to ever have to deal with. However sadly it is always going to a part of human nature as represented by the many girls who have come forward in your lens with their stories and opinions.

    Ultimately each person, their own situation and who they are as a person will determine the outcome of their relationships and all we can do is help provide the advice or services they seek to make up their own mind and decisions.

    My first Lens is more for people wanting to use a particular service to help them get answers. Check it out here and if you find it informative and helpful please LIKE IT! :)
  • osa 77 Jul 17, 2011 @ 12:36 pm | delete
    he wont delete his profile on dating sites.
  • Braveheart Aug 15, 2011 @ 5:24 am | delete
    I had the same issue, he actually asked me to delete the dating accounts for him "stupid me", I was so happy that he was never going to go to dating websites and I have him to myself but guess what. I found out that he had a new email address that he had made that he hid from me and was registered to more than 5 dating sites including facebook with girls random girls added. I broke it off with him for lying and hiding stuff like that. I can't trust him no more. Clearly ur bf is looking for something new which is why he is keeping his options open by not deleting his profile, maybe?
  • DACODA HALE Jun 17, 2011 @ 5:13 pm | delete
    LADIES , MY BOYFRIEND IS CHEATING ON ME WITH A STREET WALKER...AND THAT'S NOT ALL...HE'S A DRUG ATTIC! WHAT DO I DO?HELP ME PLEASE!
  • katy Jul 18, 2011 @ 9:52 pm | delete
    leave him he's not a good person for you what-so-ever
  • pheonix76 Apr 3, 2011 @ 10:18 pm | delete
    Interesting lens....
  • annmackiemiller Mar 21, 2011 @ 5:39 am | delete
    great lens, amazing to read what people think of cheating
  • fluffyclouds Mar 18, 2011 @ 11:25 am | delete
    good lens! Entertaining and informative.
  • joanv334 Jan 23, 2011 @ 9:41 am | delete
    Thanks for sharing!
  • I-sparkle Jan 15, 2011 @ 9:16 pm | delete
    Great lens. I felt that you covered every aspect of the situation and the alternatives.
  • Mrmakingusmile Dec 1, 2010 @ 12:17 pm | delete
    I'm entertained. Thanks for making me smile.
  • sexy lady Nov 14, 2010 @ 11:22 pm | delete
    why i think guys cheat because i think that they arent happy mentaly and emotionaly with them selves or they are just being greedy with what they want.
  • Nov 13, 2010 @ 7:49 am | delete
    It's hard for you to catch someone you love in the act, I never had a boyfriend I heard It is hard. Great lens.
  • Jackal Nov 12, 2010 @ 10:58 pm | delete
    my boyfriend cheated on me and we decided to go our separate ways. i learned how to get over your ex when the relationship is over. how can u share experiences and feelings with a future partner if you don’t get over your ex.
  • eleonor Oct 26, 2010 @ 12:19 pm | delete
    sad to say my boyfriend is cheating..he was really kind for the first 5 years and accepted me for what am i until i found out that he was cheating on me online and thru celphone..i found out that durin the time i feel depression about my delivery of our baby until recovering from my cesarian pains he still has the gutts to cheat..i caught it with his computer and celphone..but i never confronted him..i want him to realize what was he doing....but i cry a lot evrytime it reminds me of his infidelity..i feel so sad about it....
  • CliveAnderson Sep 30, 2010 @ 11:15 am | delete
    Phew! Thank goodness for that... According to this lens it would appear that I am not cheating, mind you who would have me anyway, lol. Mind you if they start to class it as cheating just for thinking about another woman I could end up in trouble...

    No but seriously this is no doubt a very useful and beneficial lens to a lot of people and it is help like this that makes a good lens a worthwhile lens. (in my opinion that is)...

    Nice work Jane, thank you.

    Warm regards,

    Clive.
  • ClassyGals Sep 20, 2010 @ 2:52 pm | delete
    Every girl needs to be able to recognize a cheater, you've just helped them do just that! Great job.
  • mukunda22 Sep 17, 2010 @ 1:25 am | delete
    Enjoyed all of the research you did here. Thanks for the good work!
  • pyle_mountain Sep 11, 2010 @ 11:20 am | delete
    A friend of mine recently caught his wife cheating. He put some kind of activity recording app on his wife's phone and then looked at the results when he had access to her phone again. Sure enough, she was cheating.... very sad, this is the 2nd time he's been divorced for the same reason....
  • Melissa Sharp Sep 5, 2010 @ 6:41 am | delete
    Basically, Iv'e been with my boyfriend for nine months and were moving in together next saturday. but the thing is at the back of my mind every day there's this inkling that something isnt right , before I met him he was a player and would have a different girl most weekends. he's had sex with alot of girls and I lost my virginity to him. I love the boy with all my heart I really do and yesterday he admitted he'd never felt so In love with me I dunno what to do :/
  • steven ckc Sep 6, 2010 @ 5:19 am | delete
    Don't waste your time with this guy. Guy like that always take advantage of pure girl and deeply hurt their feelings. Hurt feelings become emotional scar. Emotional scar becomes baggages that is hard to be discarded.
  • tammy gillis Jul 8, 2010 @ 9:19 pm | delete
    me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6-7 months and we live about 800 miles away from each other and he doesn't talk to me as much as he used 2 when we first met he says it's because of his 'mom' but i suspect he's cheating but I'm not quite sure and when the school year was over i asked if I could visit him over the summer, but he said i couldn't because his dad didn't want to be responsible for me, but his dad looks at me as a daughter so i don't know he most likely is cheating but i don't want to jump to conclusions
  • livi Jul 1, 2010 @ 8:28 pm | delete
    i have been dating my boyfriend a year and a bit. he cheated on me within the first month of our relationship. he blamed the drugs and the alcohol for hooking up with three girls in one night. I forgave him but it took a long time for me to gain trust in him. now its been a year and once again the drugs and the alcohol have was an excuse for hooking up with yet another 3 girls in one night. One of the girls he plans to hook up with again before she leaves in a week for the summer. I feel so betrayed yet i still want to be with him. i keep hoping that this was just another slip up. I just cant let go even though i know i should. i guess i keep hoping that he will turn into that good boyfriend that i would like him to be.
  • BabiD May 16, 2010 @ 8:25 am | delete
    I will try these advice, but I will also use my discretions as told too. thank you
  • Thor Dans May 4, 2010 @ 12:00 pm | delete
    Thanks for this great site. From Denmark dans http://www.tc-dancestudio.dk
  • geetu7 Jan 11, 2010 @ 12:22 pm | delete
    A Cheating Boyfriend Is The Hottest Toy On The Market is really cool lens:)
  • mermaidlife Dec 29, 2009 @ 1:50 am | delete
    This really is valuable and informative, I feel you can call it a community service type lens! Glad you made it fun but with lots of really good tips. I will have to spread the word about your lens. Thanks again!
  • richstanford79 Dec 18, 2009 @ 4:43 pm | delete
    Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend Is The Hottest Toy On The Market is really cool lens i have came across... thanks for sharing :)
  • Dec 18, 2009 @ 12:39 pm | delete
    Thanks for the excellent information! You put a lot of time into this lens, it definetly shows!!! I became a fan of yours and your 5 star lens too, please join my fanclub as well! Keep up the excellent work!

    Daytona ;)
  • Dec 18, 2009 @ 12:38 pm | delete
    Thanks for the excellent information! You put a lot of time into this lens, it definetly shows!!! I became a fan of yours and your 5 star lens too, please join my fanclub as well! Keep up the excellent work!

    Daytona ;)
  • Themiscorkscrew Dec 3, 2009 @ 7:58 pm | delete
    Great site this advice is priceless 5 stars!
  • brit Nov 7, 2009 @ 12:32 am | delete
    Honestly, I dated guy like that for 4 years. I said the same thing and genuinely thought he loved me because he would break up with me for no reason but would always come back to me so I felt like he loved only me. He's playing games with you. He only wants you when it's cnvenient for him and nobody deserves that.
  • silent lover Nov 6, 2009 @ 7:39 am | delete
    what is your opinion about someone who's saying that he doesnt comfortable in having a girlfriend anymore . but , he had an EX before !! wht a shit !!
  • K Oct 22, 2009 @ 6:24 pm | delete
    I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now. He cheated on me when we first started dating. He is the only guy i have ever been with so i had a lot to learn. I know that if i ever cheated on some one i would want a second chance. It's not that i just forgive easily.. it's just that i know people make mistakes. Me and him are crazy in love.. we are talking about marriage. Of course, if he ever cheated on me again that would be the end of it. No matter what people are going to hurt you in life.. you just have to decide who is worth the pain. <3
  • K Oct 1, 2009 @ 9:56 am | in reply to help | asap | delete
    He is afraid of committments or has someone else in mind not sure who to be faithful with.
  • asiangirl4u Sep 23, 2009 @ 11:33 pm | delete
    Great lens. I am going to twit it to all my friends on twitter !
  • help | asap Aug 10, 2009 @ 7:08 pm | delete
    my boyriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and we've had great times and of course bumps down the road. The thing is that he tends to break up with me often for no reason or just the fact that he tells me he doesnt want a girlfriend, or that he needs to spend time with his friends. He tells me he loves me but then the things he does dont make sense at all. I SERIOUSLY DONT know what to do anymore. HELPPPP PLEASEE
  • beth May 26, 2009 @ 4:00 pm | delete
    i have been seeing my man for 12 yrs and he cheats on me all the time but i have never had proof just my freinds telling me that he is using me. i love him dearly but last night he came in drunk .. so i went through his phone. i found pics of him and a woman on it and ones of her naked as well. i have never had the courage to look before as i half expected to find something awful out and didnt want to be hurt. he couldnt deny it anymore and said she was nothin to him. i rang her up and told her all about my 12 yr relationship with him and how he had used us both. i feel like a great wieght has been lifted and i finally now have the courage to let him go. if anyone suspects there partner is cheating on them i recommend getting evidence of it as theres nothing better than watching them squirm and realize they have lost the best thing they ever had x
  • Myzz Diva Mar 30, 2009 @ 1:14 am | delete
    Are there any guys out there that want hurt us? I will start taking notes on signs of cheating. So should all the other girls.
  • Nov 3, 2008 @ 4:14 am | delete
    Great info and I can vouch for that from my own painful experience, but he's definitely change now, since I practically lock him up in the house...
  • Gabe_07 Nov 2, 2008 @ 1:07 am | delete
    I should better start taking notes on these signs of cheating...and be extra careful not to make them....lol....just kidding.
  • 718raul Oct 31, 2008 @ 10:43 am | delete
    This is very informative and useful information. Bad for all those guys who are cheating. Wont hurt us guys who are not cheating.

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