What Is A Social Story & How Do We Use Them?
Social Stories are usually written for children (or adults) on the Autistic Spectrum but are also beneficial for anyone with social communication difficulties.
Through this lens, I'm hoping that you'll gain understanding of why we use social stories, when to use a social story and how to write a social story.
I hope teachers, parents & educators, will find this lens a useful addition to their resource banks and will begin to develop their own Social Stories.
I work within Educational Psychology in the U.K., & work with children who have some form of Emotional and/or Behavioural difficulty. Some of the children need help with friendship or social skills, others have self esteem issues and my favourite area is anger management. I also help children to recognise and appropriately express their feelings and emotions and to be able to identify feelings in others. This is just the tip of the iceberg :)
I am not an Educational Psychologist, I'm an Emotional Wellbeing Development Officer, otherwise known as a EWDO.
I want to put together a collection of lenses giving ideas for supporting children experiencing some form of emotional difficulty.
I hope you find them useful.
Contents
- How To Write A Social Story
- How Social Stories Began
- Video Example Of A Social Story
- Books to help you write Social Stories
- Social Story Writing Guidelines
- Fun items on CafePress
- Video Giving Examples Of Why You Might Need A Social Story
- Step By Step Process To Write A Social Story
- Child happily using computer
- Example of a Social Story for Pre school
- Social Story Items on eBay
- Social Stories To Support Transition
- Social skills resources on Amazon
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How To Write A Social Story
Help Develop a Child's Learning, Understanding Of Social Situations And Replace Problem BehavioursSocial stories are a tool or strategy used to teach a desired social behaviour for both children and adults with social communication delays, such as Autism. Although there is no guarantee that they will necessarily fix the problem. A social story gives a person information about social situations that they may find difficult or confusing.
Example of a short
Social Story
Lining Up
At school, we sometimes line up.
We line up to go to assembly, to go to the dining hall, and to go out to play. Sometimes, my friends and I get excited when we line up, because we're going somewhere fun, like out to play.
It is okay to get excited, but it is important to try to walk to the line. Sometimes I will want to run.
Running can cause accidents, and my friends or I could get hurt. I will try to walk to the line.
Characteristics of Social Stories
Social Stories are short, straightforward descriptions of social situations which provide details of what a person might expect from a situation, and describes what may be expected of the person.
Characteristics of Social Communication Delay & Autism
One of the major symptom categories of autism is social skills deficits, considered by many to be the defining characteristic of this disorder. Examples can range from lack of engagement to unusual patterns of interacting with others, and trouble understanding facial expressions. There is also an inability to understand that others have feelings.
Lack of social skills & interaction can add to problem behaviours for many children. Especially those with autism. Behaviour is a way to get people to do something when you don't know a better way. This can be true for children with learning or cognitive disabilities, and for children whose social or cultural background has not supported these skills.
Why Being Social Is Difficult
There is a suspected "theory of mind" deficiency in autism, such as a lack of understanding that other people have their own thoughts, feelings, etc., an inability to assume what other people are thinking, often cannot interpret social cues, and trouble understanding facial expressions and body language.
Social Skills Deficits
There are three general areas of social skills deficits:
Social avoidance - child is hypersensitive and seeks to avoid social situations i.e. objects to loud noises or crowded areas
Social indifference - child does not actively seek out social interaction i.e., is content to play alone without the need for friends
Social awkwardness - child is typically higher functioning, but has difficulty with reciprocal interaction in conversation or interests. Speech may be very stilted & adult, not in content but in expression.
How Social Stories Began
The work of Carol Gray
History of Social StoriesSocial Stories were developed by Carol Gray for persons with autism in early 1991, and written for children and adults with autism spectrum disorders by students at Jenison High School in Jenison, MI.
Gray's program described positive outcomes for hundreds of autistic students. Many parents, family members, educators, therapists across the world usually describe the use of social stories as being effective.
Formal research on the effectiveness of autism social stories is just beginning to come out.
Social Stories Overview
Provide personal scenarios for difficult situations
Create a script for appropriate behaviour
Use areas of strength: - Reading skills
- Interest in repeatedly hearing/reading story, and interest in routines
- Gives concrete, detailed explanations
Assists in understanding the perspectives of others
Designed to encourage appropriate behaviour
Video Example Of A Social Story
Social Story: Germs on the Water Fountain
a social story about germs on the water fountain.
curated content from YouTube
Books to help you write Social Stories
Social Story Writing Guidelines
Social Story GuidelinesWrite a social story from the perspective of the focus person. Create a word picture - what they would see and experience i.e., use clip art or photographs
Use a combination of different types of sentences, following the recommended ratio: Descriptive, Perspective, Directive
May be supplemented with additional, optional types of sentences: Affirmative, Control, Cooperative
The language must be at an appropriate level to match the understanding.
What are Descriptive sentences?
Descriptive sentences provide information about specific social settings or situations, i.e. give cues to what the person sees, who is involved, and what happens. For example:
At school, most people go to the cafeteria for lunch.
When it is lunchtime, most students eat lunch.
I go to the cafeteria for lunch.
What are Perspective sentences?
Perspective sentences describe the internal states of other people. These types of sentences provide information about thoughts, feelings, and/or moods of other people. Describing the situation from another's perspective, many children with autism do not know about. For example:
Many students like to eat their lunch with others.
Everyone likes it best when each student only touches their own food.
What are Directive sentences?
This is where you guide the child to the behaviour you want to develop.
Directive sentences provide information about what the student should do to be successful in the target situation. For example:
When I eat, I will only touch my own food.
I drink my own drink.
Recommended formula for writing Social Stories
The recommended formula for writing social stories based on Carol Gray's opinion is two to five Descriptive sentences for each Directive sentence, which may include Perspective sentences. Research shows that many stories which follow the ratio, do work. Studies have not found any high numbers or shown that stories which did not follow the ratio do not work.
Other guidelines for writing Social Stories
Social Story is usually written in the first-person
Social Story is usually written in present-tense
Provide more information about the social situation than you think the student needs
Prepare them to act appropriately
NOTE! Don't get too hung up over how many directive, perspective & descriptive sentences you've used. Have a good go and if it sounds right and addresses the issues, then it's probably fine. Use words such as 'usually' or 'sometimes' rather than 'always' because we can't guarantee that ALWAYS will Always happen.
Fun items on CafePress
Video Giving Examples Of Why You Might Need A Social Story
Carol Gray, creator of "Social Stories" speaks about autism
automatically generated by YouTube
Step By Step Process To Write A Social Story
Step OneWhat will this story be about?
What is the skill or behaviour you want to establish for the child?
What do you want them to be able to do?
Reasons to write a Social Story
Learn new routines
Provide missing information
Help children cope with and adjust to change
Help advance interpersonal understanding
To aid the development of appropriate behaviours
Provide insight into what other people are thinking and feeling
Sample topics for Social Stories
Asking a question
Following rules
Eating at the table
Sharing
Turn taking
Playing games to have fun, or "winning isn't everything"
Crossing the street
It's OK to look at girls
Personal issues
Why I should not shout
Step Two
Create a Profile
What is the child's ability to read and understand language?
Write to their ability to read and/or understand
Level of Understanding
Be Careful - we often over-estimate what children with autism actually understand
Type of language your child understands, i.e. their degree of real language, length of sentences
Write using the same type of use of language as appropriate i.e., if a child uses & understands the word 'grub' instead of 'food', then use 'grub'. You could also add a sentence to explain that most people call 'grub' food.
Step Three
Writing the Story
Do a Task Analysis, i.e. review the skill being taught, break it down into small specific steps the child needs to understand and perform the task, look at examples of social tasks that are broken down
Write the steps into the story - remember the ratio for number and type of sentences to use
Social Stories Design Factors
Text can be supplemented with pictures and icons. Pictures are especially effective for younger children - it makes it look like a picture book. Many people with autism have described themselves as "thinking in pictures." Digital technology, i.e. cameras, makes it pretty easy for many to personalise Social Stories for a specific student.
Skill-Streaming Examples
Following Instructions
Listen carefully to the instructions
Ask questions about anything you do not understand
Repeat the instructions to the person (or to yourself)
Follow the instructions
Introducing a Social Story
1. Find a quiet place with the least possible distractions.
2. Read the story to the child. Other rehearsal possibilities are: a) have your child read it out loud to you or others, and b) have others read it out loud to the person.
3. Develop a consistent time schedule to review the story. For example, daily before the situation occurs.
4. After the story is mastered, keep it visible and accessible for student reference.
5. Once a social story is part of a child's routine, continually monitor its effectiveness. If necessary, rewrite parts of story to improve the child's performance.
A Social Story may also help the child with everyday activities, i.e. brushing teeth, and taking a bath.

Child happily using computer
Example of a Social Story for Pre school
This can be adapted & modified to suit each situation. Add pictures & spread the text over several pages. Give copies to Mum too.
Edward's taking turns story (front cover)
My name is Edward. I am a good boy.
At pre school, there are lots of toys for me to play with.
There are lots of other children at pre school too & they also like to play with the toys.
Sometimes, I might want to use the computer. The computer gets used by lots of other children too.
Only one person can use the computer.
Usually, there is someone already using the computer.
Everyone must wait nicely for their turn on the computer.
I will try to wait nicely for my turn on the computer.
If I wait nicely, I will be able to have fun on the computer when it is my turn.
When I am on the computer, I will feel happy.
Mrs ************* & Mrs ************ & all the other children will be happy if I wait nicely for my turn. Mummy will be happy that I waited nicely too.
My name is Edward. I am a good boy.
END
As you can probably tell, this child had issues with waiting his turn for his favourite activity on the computer.
Social Stories To Support Transition
As we all know, the move to BIG school can be scary for any child. This is where social stories can come into their own.Any change can be problematic for a child on the Austicic Spectrum, especially a huge change such as moving school.
So, prepare the child. Take photographs of the new school, teacher, classroom, entrance door, dining hall, library, IT Suite, the Head teacher, office staff, playground, etc, etc. Anything you know that will reassure the child, take a picture of it & write about it in the story.
Of course, stories around change can cover anything from a hospital visit or stay to a day out at a theme park.
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- roysumit roysumit May 17, 2009 @ 11:45 am
- Excellent lens on the topic you chose. Very informative and worth reading. I was not aware of social stories but surely I admire and appreciate them who are into it for their sincere effort. Five stars definitely.
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- kiwisoutback kiwisoutback Mar 10, 2009 @ 8:01 am
- Great work, you've done well! I've never heard of social stories, they seem like they're an effective method.
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- Thanks!! This is a great site.. A good tool for teachers and parents, as well..
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- ekta1007 ekta1007 Feb 6, 2009 @ 5:58 pm
- Really insighful I must say. I normally skip through the content,but kids do excite me, nad yor blog deserved it :)
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- AndyPo AndyPo Dec 8, 2008 @ 9:25 am
- Very interesting lens.
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- meela meela Nov 28, 2008 @ 3:39 pm
- An excellent addition to the useful work that stories can do. I will be trying this method with other learning situations where behavior change is needed. Will let you know how it works out. Meanwhile, I would love to hear of others using social stories and their effectiveness.
Another thought: What about the act of creating social stories just as a writing exercise. The results might be collected and passed on to groups and centers that may not know they have autistic spectrum people among them. I see the benefits as twofold. The people doing the writing would get the experience of writing about an audience they might not have direct experience with. This writing will give them indirect experience and so, awareness. Also, the requirements of the writing--breaking down common experiences into their components and composing a practical set of instructions for them--provides the writers with a basic form of technical writing experience.
Again, thanks for your lens.
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- Intuitive Intuitive Nov 28, 2008 @ 2:08 pm
- I hadn't heard of social stories before but it's a fascinating idea. I love the video where the woman tells the story from the perspective of the child who wants to be a dinosaur. I often wonder if I'm not borderline autistic myself (if there is such a thing). And I wonder if social stories would be helpful when doing "inner child" work? 5*
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