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After you meet a new partner, your whole family suffers from the bad effects of divorce. Your children go through a rough patch, they are angry, upset and rebellious, which more often than not is their way to cope with their fear.
Young children obviously vent their anger in a different way than teenagers, but the basics apply to all situations: Children find it extremely difficult to cope with the effects of divorce of their parents. Whether you are recently divorced, or whether you have been divorced for years already, your children will always harbor the hope that you and your ex will get together eventually, and the story of their lives will end with a happy ever after.
After your divorce you will eventually be ready to move on, and you will start looking for a new romantic partner. Preferably someone who will love your children, maybe someone with own children. You expect that your children will more or less have the same taste as you when it comes to people, and that someone whom you really like, will be just as much liked by your children. And of course your new love will love your children as much as you do.
Sadly enough, reality often is very different. Children will most often reject a new partner. They will be jealous, insecure, sad because they realize that reconciliation will be even more out of reach, they will feel neglected and hurt in their feelings. Normally children do not have the skills to word their thoughts and emotions very clearly, and it will take a lot of skills as a listener to hear the meaning behind the words. Luckily there are ways to disentangle all emotions and hurt feelings, and you are here to start your journey back into happy family life.
Because we have been in the situation ourselves, and sometimes we still are... We are always on the look-out to find new techniques and resources to make life better for us and our family. A new NLP technique I stumbled upon just recently, is called Magic Hats, you can check it out here. It is still in pre-launch, but there are some interesting testimonials on the site already. Check it out here:
In our free e-book you will learn very fast and very thoroughly to find solutions; to find ways and strategies to cope with the anger and the pain; to make things improve steadily; and you will very soon be proud of the way you handle difficult situations. Check it out at http://stepfamilyheaven.com!
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teethwhiter
Very good lens here, more informative lens about divorce. I think before take divorce, please think about children's. Posted June 17, 2008 |
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