Effects of Divorce - How badly fo YOU suffer?

Rating: 1 - I can do better 2 - Jury's out 3 - Pretty darn good 4 - Splendiferous 5 - Awesometastic (by 1 person)   Your rating: 1 - I can do better 2 - Jury's out 3 - Pretty darn good 4 - Splendiferous 5 - Awesometastic

Overcome the bad effects of divorce, start to create happiness and harmony in your new family NOW!

After you meet a new partner, your whole family suffers from the bad effects of divorce. Your children go through a rough patch, they are angry, upset and rebellious, which more often than not is their way to cope with their fear.

Young children obviously vent their anger in a different way than teenagers, but the basics apply to all situations: Children find it extremely difficult to cope with the effects of divorce of their parents. Whether you are recently divorced, or whether you have been divorced for years already, your children will always harbor the hope that you and your ex will get together eventually, and the story of their lives will end with a happy ever after.

After your divorce you will eventually be ready to move on, and you will start looking for a new romantic partner. Preferably someone who will love your children, maybe someone with own children. You expect that your children will more or less have the same taste as you when it comes to people, and that someone whom you really like, will be just as much liked by your children. And of course your new love will love your children as much as you do.

Sadly enough, reality often is very different. Children will most often reject a new partner. They will be jealous, insecure, sad because they realize that reconciliation will be even more out of reach, they will feel neglected and hurt in their feelings. Normally children do not have the skills to word their thoughts and emotions very clearly, and it will take a lot of skills as a listener to hear the meaning behind the words. Luckily there are ways to disentangle all emotions and hurt feelings, and you are here to start your journey back into happy family life.



Because we have been in the situation ourselves, and sometimes we still are... We are always on the look-out to find new techniques and resources to make life better for us and our family. A new NLP technique I stumbled upon just recently, is called Magic Hats, you can check it out here. It is still in pre-launch, but there are some interesting testimonials on the site already. Check it out here:

Magic Hats



 

 

In our free e-book you will learn very fast and very thoroughly to find solutions; to find ways and strategies to cope with the anger and the pain; to make things improve steadily; and you will very soon be proud of the way you handle difficult situations. Check it out at http://stepfamilyheaven.com!

Step one: Get started! 

Take the test!

Take the test to see if you are on track:

Score every question from 1 ( not at all) to 5 (very much so)

  1. My ex-partner is a difficult person to deal with..................................................

  2. My partner's ex-wife/husband is a difficult person to deal with..................................................

  3. My own or my partner's children are difficult to deal with..................................................

  4. My partner is too soft towards his children..............................................

  5. My partner's children don't accept me, or my own children don't accept my partner...........................

  6. I seem to have to choose between my children and my partner...............................................

    Score 6 - 12:

    You are a lucky person. Although you have some issues to handle, it seems that most areas are working out as you would like. If you are looking for advice and help on the areas where improvement is wanted, check out the relevant areas below. Don't forget the free e-book.

    Score 12 - 18:

    Although some areas are working out fine, there are definitely things which frustrate you. You might be sad about them, or angry... The important fact is that you are looking for a solution, and that is the vital most important step in the whole game. Go ahead, start by checking out first the areas with the biggest trouble. Have a look at the free e-book too!

    Score 18 - 24:

    The fact that you are here, shows that you are serious about making a substantial improvement in your own life and in the lives of your (step)children and partner. You have still some way to go, start by using the techniques which you can find in the free e-book. If you want additional help and guidance, don't hesitate to drop me an e-mail for a free month of consultation. The only "payment" I ask is a testimonial for this website (Offer is subject to terms&conditions, and valid for a limited time).

    Score 24 - 30:

    Take a deep breath... It seems that you are in exactly the place where I found myself some time ago. The good news is, that if I made it, you can too! Don't give up with the harbour in sight; download the e-book, drop me an e-mail for that free first month of consultation, in exchange for a testimonial (Offer is subject to terms&conditions, and valid for a limited time). My passion is to show you the way, and to improve your and your loved ones' lifes. Accept my present to you!

Magic Hats: Create your own happiness today! 

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This program shows you step by step how to take control of your own happiness. It's free, it's new, it's amazing. I love it.

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Charlotte Kamman is a life coach, specialising in blended families. Because of her strong sense of justice and fairness, she is an enthousiastic ambassador of her bo...

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