Find a Sugar Dady - Millionaire Dating

I didn't realize this until recently, but there are a huge number of dating sites geared towards wealthy men and the women who want to love them.

I don't know why, but a wry gin crept across my lips as I pictured millionaires having just as tough a time trying to find love as the rest of us. This confirmed a suspicion I have long held about the filthy rich.

They are human like the rest of us, they just happen to look more fabulous when waxing poetic about love and loss.

This fact calls to mind a true story of a girl, whom I shall call Virginia, who had a karmic hand dealt her in regards to fortune seeking and basing a man's worth on money alone.

Virginia was a lovely girl, educated, intelligent and driven, who made a sizable amount of money per year.

She was also very lonely and desperately looking for love. Like many women in her position, she hemmed and hawed about online dating sites, fearful they were filled with maladjusted lonely hearts with whom she'd have nothing in common.

She finally shrugged and took the plunge. Her first time out, she met a wonderful guy. The man was witty, smart, fun, charming and devilishly handsome.

Virginia was instantly smitten, but she had a problem.

When speaking with a mutual friend of ours named Linda, she confessed that she had some reservations about the relationship.

"I don't know if I can date a fireman," Virginia sadly replied.

Linda waved a dismissive hand in the air, "Oh, I am sure he will be fine- it is a dangerous job, but he sounds like a keeper. You'll work through it."

"No, No, " Virginia assured, "I am not worried about his exposure to danger, I am worried about the fact that he doesn't make a lot of money. I make 80 K a year, I want a man who makes at least that much!"

When Linda related this tale, I was flabbergasted. This was a girl who had bemoaned being alone for years and when it came down to finally meeting the man of her dreams, she seriously contemplated tossing his aside because of money.

She broke it off with him, but they maintained a polite and casual friendship.

Some time later, he got engaged and he invited her to his home for the engagement party.

Virginia soon discovered that the man lived in a mansion and was in reality, a millionaire, he only volunteered as a fireman! When she asked him why the deception, He replied, "I wanted to know that the woman I chose wanted to be with me for me, not my money."

This story details why I will enjoy writing this blog. I hope to show that the man or woman behind the money is just as important as his or her title, and I hope that those who seek to wed and bed such, will keep that in mind.