What To Say When Talking Dirty
Not too long ago I didn't have a clue what to say when talking dirty, I'd tried it a few times but ended up either drawing a blank or laughing.
Talking dirty in bed to your partner comes so easily to some people; unfortunately I wasn't one of those people. I found it really difficult to find the right words and I didn't want to offend my partner by saying the wrong things.
There are a few things which you should avoid when talking dirty to your partner, the biggest one to avoid is past lovers, this really can cause some friction in the bedroom (not that type of friction).
In A Hurry! Start Talking Dirty
Talking dirty in bed to your partner comes so easily to some people; unfortunately I wasn't one of those people. I found it really difficult to find the right words and I didn't want to offend my partner by saying the wrong things.
There are a few things which you should avoid when talking dirty to your partner, the biggest one to avoid is past lovers, this really can cause some friction in the bedroom (not that type of friction).
In A Hurry! Start Talking Dirty
Examples Of Talking Dirty
Once you've mastered the art of dirty talk, there really are NO LIMITS to what you can say, make sure you've discussed topics which shouldn't be mentioned before you get into the swing of things.
Some people may be put off by talking about anal sex, threesomes, bondage or water sports - but this really is down to the individual, there may be some things which you thought may offend you which actually arouse you a lot (there was for me)
I actually found myself discussing things which would make a nun blush; these are not things which I would have dreamed about sharing with anyone. Now that I have my confidence I love talking dirty, I actually send my partner some really descriptive texts during the day when we're at work.
Below are some examples of what I call soft talking dirty, it's only your imagination which restricts what you can say.
Examples Of Talking Dirty
Talking Dirty
Some people may be put off by talking about anal sex, threesomes, bondage or water sports - but this really is down to the individual, there may be some things which you thought may offend you which actually arouse you a lot (there was for me)
I actually found myself discussing things which would make a nun blush; these are not things which I would have dreamed about sharing with anyone. Now that I have my confidence I love talking dirty, I actually send my partner some really descriptive texts during the day when we're at work.
Below are some examples of what I call soft talking dirty, it's only your imagination which restricts what you can say.
Examples Of Talking Dirty
- I love the way you kiss me...especially when you kiss me there!
- I want to get naked with you right now!
- Strip for me honey, I want to savor every inch of you.
- I'll do anything for a sexy lover...anything at all!
- You like that don't you? I know you like it when I do that.
- Should I tie you up and make you take it or are you going to be good?
- Tell me what you're going to do to me - I want her the words...
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Talking Dirty To Your Partner In Bed
You Should Both Try This
If you think that you'll get embarrassed while you're telling you lover what you want to do to them or what you want them to do to you, try starting with the lights off.
As you get more comfortable you can turn the lights up slowly until you can say what you want right to their face.
If you have ever watched a good erotic movie, you can get some ideas from that, I watched some porn with my partner and when we were in bed we started talking about it and how we would like certain things from the movie done to us.
As you get more comfortable you can turn the lights up slowly until you can say what you want right to their face.
If you have ever watched a good erotic movie, you can get some ideas from that, I watched some porn with my partner and when we were in bed we started talking about it and how we would like certain things from the movie done to us.
Tips For Talking Dirty In Bed
Let your partner know what turns you on, the sex will start to get more exciting and you'll both start getting more and more aroused as you get more confident
Spice Things Up
The more confident you get, the more hardcore the dirty talking will get BUT you had better discuss name calling with your partner. Seriously, I have had an experience with my partner when they called me a few names which made me feel a little uncomfortable so we had to discuss that afterwards.
Get creative; the examples above are just a couple of really soft examples of talking dirty. If you can't think of ant good ways to start you can always - Click Here
Get creative; the examples above are just a couple of really soft examples of talking dirty. If you can't think of ant good ways to start you can always - Click Here
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