Tea Party Tips and Etiquette

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An Elegant Tea Party

Having an elegant tea party or taking tea is an occasion that allows you to feel that you've taken a step back in time; tea time is where you feel pampered and things are slower and more simple. Serving tea whether in a tea room or a living room, adds an aura of elegance and creates an atmosphere tinged with anticipatory delight. Having an elegant tea party is now a form of modern entertaining; from business meetings to birthday parties, bridal showers, formal weddings, holidays, or any social gathering that requires a special touch. Advice on tea party tips and etiquette follows, so that classy ladies can can entertain properly and have the most elegant tea party ever!

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The Start of the Tea Party 

Also called "The Afternoon Tea"

The Chinese are credited with discovering tea as a beverage some 4,000 years ago. When tea began to gain a British following in the 17th century, it was served mostly in coffeehouses that already existed, admitting only men. As a result, women of the family adopted tea on their own ground. Tea drinking became much more of an "at-home" activity, and afternoon tea, as we now know it, came into being.

At that time, the day's three meals were a heavy breakfast, a light lunch and a large dinner around eight or none o'clock. Women soon realized that they were feeling hungry and faint around five o'clock and started serving tea with assorted sandwiches and small cakes, thus creating the afternoon tea. It is not to be confused, however, with the high tea. High tea was served around the same time in working class homes. The high tea was a hearty meal consisting of cold meats, cheeses and bread, eaten when the men came home from the factories or field.

Have a Ladies Tea Party 

Ladies tea party relax and enjoy family and friends anytime by having a ladies tea party.

Intimate tea for two: possibly after antique shopping, sit in the garden or by the fireplace, bowl of fresh flowers on the table, fluffy scones, pots of jam and sweet country whipped cream.

The solitary tea: try it, and treat yourself as elegantly as you would guests. In the late afternoon, stop whatever you're doing and steal half an hour for yourself. Brew a fragrant pot of tea - do not dunk a teabag - and arrange some light sandwiches and a cookie or a small cake on a pretty plate. Carry your tray to a favorite place - a window seat, a sofa before the fireplace, perhaps a secluded corner of the garden. Take the opportunity to catch up on letter writing, cuddle your cat or simply reflect on the day. After a few sips of tea, the world will seem a calmer place.

The unplanned afternoon tea: if a friend drops by unexpectedly, the beauty of tea is that you can rustle up the food quite easily from ingredients you probably keep on hand in your kitchen. A batch of scones, for example, take only about 15 minutes to make from scratch. Eat them at the table while they are fresh and warm from the oven.

Arranged tea party: unlike the impromptu teas described above, this tea party should be planned. Start making the arrangements and sending invitations several weeks in advance of the date. Give a definite time - 4:00 p.m., just as you would for a cocktail party.

Bridal or baby shower tea party: be the first on your block to have one.

Your child's birthday tea party: revive weary parents by serving tea in another room away from the noisy kids.

Tea Party Tips and Etiquette 

Use your best china. Teacups and saucers are preferable to heavy mugs. Invest in a small tea service (teapot, milk pitcher, sugar bowl, size teacups and saucers and six cake plates).

Use cloth napkins - cotton or linen.

Present the food attractively. Cover your tray or cart with a tray cloth, doilies or a pretty napkin. A single rose in a bud vase, or a basket of seasonal fruit adds warmth to the scene. Arrange food on a three tiered cake stand.

Atmosphere is important. Instead of in the kitchen, serve tea by a crackling fire or in the garden. Decorate with fresh flowers and add the quiet, melodic background music of a harpist or pianist.

As hostess, pour the tea, passing it to each guest in turn, adding sugar cubes if requested.

Your ladies might want to wear victorian hats and crocheted gloves.

Tea party favors vary and you can use your imagination and give according to your tea party theme.

Conversation should be light and fun-filled, no gossip or deep subjects that can be disturbing to others. For some interesting topics to discuss at your garden party go to Today's Woman.

Tea Party Food 

What to Serve at a Tea Party

Tea party food are the light foods served with tea and are just as important as the actual tea itself. Traditional tea party foods are mouth watering, hot-buttered crumpets and muffins and traditional English scones served with Devon cream and jam or lemon curd. More hearty tea party foods such as beef cottage pie, sausage rolls, welsh rarebit and Cornish pasties make more of a meal. Petite sweets are also on the bill of fare for tea party foods and include: tantalizing raspberry tartlettes, chocolate truffles, shortbread and cream puffs.

Whatever else you serve at your tea party, be sure to have scones. All the delightful varieties of scones should be eaten fresh as they don't keep well. Happily, they're so quick to make you can easily bake them while you prepare for the rest of the tea party.

Tea Party Recipe for Scones 

Serve Fruit Scones to Your Guests

Fruit Scones Recipe

These tangy delights are a little heavier than plain oven scones. Make them slightly smaller and serve without the jam and cream.

2 1/2 cups all purpose flour
2 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. baking soda
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 cup sugar
6 tbsp. cold butter cut in small pieces
1/2 cup raisins
1 egg, beaten
1 8 oz. carton plain yogurt (1 cup)
grated peel of 1/2 lemon
milk for brushing on scones
butter

Preheat oven to 425F. Lightly grease a large baking sheet; set aside. Sift flour, baking powder, baking soda and salt into a large bowl. Stir in sugar. With your fingers, rub in butter pieces until misture is crumbly. Mix in raisins. With a fork, stir in egg, yogurt and lemon peel and blen well to make a dough that barely holds together (you may need to press dough together with your hands). Turn out onto a floured surface. Roll out with a floured rolling pin or pat dough with your hands to make a round about 1/2 inch thick. Cut in rounds with a 1 1/2 inch fluted or plain cookie cutter. Place 1/ 1/2 inches apart of baking sheet; brush tops lightly with milk. Bake 10-12 minutes or until scones are well risen and golden. Transfer to a wire rack to cool 5 minute. Split and serve warm with butter. Makes about 18 scones.

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Porcelain Red Rose Tea Set 

Handcrafted, Heirloom Quality Tea Set

Sorelle 8-piece Raised Porcelain Red Rose Tea for Two Set Includes:

* 8 oz. teapot with lid - measures approx. 6"W x 5"H
* (2) 2 oz. cups - measure approx. 3"W x 2-3/4"H each
* (2) 4-1/2" spoons
* 2 saucers - measure approx. 5"L x 4-3/4"W each

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* Sapphire blue gift box with bow and satin lining
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* Soft pink roses accent heart-shaped pieces
* Rose teapot with heart-shaped lid, topped with a rose
* Cup rim shaped like a rose with flower accent
* Teapot and cups - graceful handles with a vine leaf and flowers
* Heart-shaped saucers with rose accent - room for a cup, a spoon and a biscuit
* Gently curved spoons with holes for displaying
* Heirloom quality - charm and grandeur never go out of style
* Made of porcelain
* Handcrafted - no 2 are alike; takes weeks to complete
* Hand wash

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Romantic Rose Tea Set 

Makes a Wonderful Hostess Gift!

Serve high tea in old world elegance with a Sorelle Romantic Rose 17-pc Porcelain Tea Set. The delicate goldtone trim is feminine; the lovely bouquet of roses on each piece reminds you that spring can't be very far away.

Sorelle Romantic Rose 17-pc Porcelain Tea Set Includes:

* 40 oz. tea/coffee pot with lid - measures approx. 8"H x 4-3/4"W in diameter (approx. 9-1/2"W with handle)
* 10 oz. sugar bowl with lid - measures approx. 4-3/4"H x 3-1/2" in diameter
* 10 oz. creamer - measures approx. 3-1/2"H x 3-1/2"W in diameter (5-1/4"W with handle)
* (6) 7 oz. cups - each measures approx. 2-1/2"H x 3-1/2" in diameter
* 6 saucers - each measures approx. 6" in diameter
* Sapphire blue gift box with satin lining

Product Features:

* Collectible pieces from the Sorelle Romantic Rose Collection - beautiful red, pink and yellow roses complemented by soft greens; perfect for anyone who loves roses
* Made of handcrafted porcelain - no 2 are alike
* Heirloom quality - makes a wonderful gift for your favorite hostess
* Hand wash

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Elegant Tea Cups and Saucers 

Your tea party will focus a lot on the serving of tea, so be sure you choose your tea cups wisely. They don't have to match, long as they stay along the same theme, like florals for example. It's fun to buy a variety of tea cups and saucers for your tea party. Your guests will secretly anticipate sipping their tea from any of the nice selections you have chosen for them.

Salisbury Tea Cup and Saucer by Port Style

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Teal Rose Chintz Footed Cup and Saucer Set

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Fine Bone China Cup and Saucer Purple Violet Chintz

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Tea Party Victorian Hats 

Ladies during the Edwardian era wore pretty hats lavished with florals and embellishments like these. A true "lady" never went without her hat and gloves, especially when taking tea.

Hosting a Tea Party 

Serving Tea or Having a Tea Party at Home

Serving tea or having a tea party at home is a gracious, yet inexpensive way to entertain. The adventurous host or hostess has ample opportunity for creativity and can serve a truly unique meal.

Tea parties can be formal or casual, intimate or crowd-size, serviced indoors or without, a light snack or a filling and substantial meal. The food is not only delicious but it is enjoyable to prepare a tea party and a delightful way to host a party.

Even when you are not entertaining others, the ritual of taking tea or having teatime can be a welcome and a very civilized break in a busy hectic world.

Tea Party Teas 

Tea, of course, is the cornerstone of any tea party. It's essential to brew a good cup of tea - golden, steaming, fragrant and refreshing. Every kind of tea contains tanin, an astringent; caffeine, a stimulant; water; and an essential oil that gives it its flavor. Like wines, teas are tested, tasted and graded by experts who rate both flavor and color, using their own descriptive vocabulary. Examples of traditional teas served at tea parties and easy to serve at home follows:

English Breakfast - An elite Chinese tea. This is a brisk tea with a full bodied flavor, ideal as a wake-up tea. Serve the traditional way, with milk and sugar.

Orange Pekoe - Orange refers to the color of the leaf, not the flavor. Pekoe refers to the leaf size - the largest grade of leaf. Rich in flavor and fragrance. Makes on of the finest afternoon teas.

Darjeerling - Famous as the champagne among teas. Light color, with a distinctive bouquet often described as flowery. A delicate, win-like, Muscatel flavor.

Russian Caraven - Distinctively smoky flavor and aroma. An acquired taste. Usually taken with lemon. The perfect acompaniment to traditional tea room savories such as English cheese plate or beef pasty.

Earl Grey - Delicate blend of China and Darjeeling teas scented with oil of bergamot. It is wonderfully fragrant and delightful with sweets. Serve with lemon or a spot of milk.

Jasmine - Beautifully scented, semi-fermented tea. Exotic, light flavor. Laced with dried jasmine blossoms. Should be drunk plain or with a slice of lemon. Low in caffeine.

Assortment of Teas 

Special Tea Time Touches 

Consider having the following special tea time touches that will add more delight to your tea party.

Tea cozies - Cover for your teapot helps keep contents hot.

Tea strainers - Some teapots have a built-in strainer across the entrance of the spout. These usually don't catch all the leaves since they're typically made with quite large holes to allow the tea to pour through evenly. For more efficient straining, pour the tea through a separate strainer held over the cup.

Tea balls - Forerunner of the teabag, the teaball is perforated, ball-shaped metal container. Loose tea is clasped inside and the ball is placed in the pot or cup before the coiling water is poured in. Not recommended for regular use they tend to inhibit the full flavor flow of the tea. The are convenient and preferable to a teabag!

Sugar tongs - One lump or two? Sugar cubes are most commonly served at tea parties, and the hostess should drop them into the guest's cups with sugar tongs. Adds elegance to the table.

Muffin dishes - Shallow dishes with domed lids that you pop your muffins under as you finish toasting them. The covered dish keeps the muffins or other breads and buns warm at the table.

Tea Party Service Sets 

Chandeliers Tea Service

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Johnson Brothers Willow Blue 13 Piece Tea Set

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Johnson Brothers Old Britain Castles 13-Piece Tea Set, Pink

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Mesh Tea Ball 

Harold Import Mesh Wonder Ball

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A medium sized, stainless steel mesh ball tea infuser. Good for all loose teas. Dishwasher safe.

Tea Cosys 

Tea Cosy - French Toile

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April Cornell Tea Cosy - Eden Clay

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Tea Cosy - Poppies Sorbet

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Tea Cosy - Fruit

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Tea Party Bakeware 

Muffin Pans

Nordic Ware Rose Bundtlette Pan

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Farberware Nonstick Bakeware 12-Cup Muffin Pan

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Baker's Secret Basics Nonstick 24-Cup Muffin Pan

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Tea Party Vintage Linens 

Vintage Table Linens

In order to have the utmost elegant tea party, vintage linens should play a big part of your decor. Victorian ladies adorned their tables with lots of fresh flowers, lace tablecloths and linen napkins, as should you.

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Sugar Tongs for Your Tea Party 

SUGAR TONGS - SILVER SUGAR TONGS

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Your guests will enjoy adding sugar to their tea with these sugar tongs.

Silver Tea Service 

Reed & Barton Sheffield Collection Silver-plated Burgundy 5-Piece Tea Set

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Reed & Barton Sheffield Collection Silverplated 5-Piece Tea Set, Includes Coffee, Tea, Sugar, Cream and Waiter in the Burgundy pattern

Tea Party Books 

If your thinking of having a tea party or even opening your own tea parlor, books on tea party themes, decorating ideas, and recipes should help a great deal. Why not check out one or several of the following recommended readings?

Tea Party: 20 Themed Tea Parties with Recipes for Every Occasion, from Fabulous Showers to Intimate Gatherings

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Victorian Tea Calendar

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Country Tea Parties

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Elegant Tea Party Serving Trays 

Perfect for tea parties! Serve your tasty tidbits, cookies, scones, or party favors on a pretty tea party serving tray to make both a beautiful and appetizing presentation.

White Porcelain 3-Tier Tray

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CLARICE 2 TIER CRYSTAL CAKE STAND

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Tea Party Floral Tier Server 

3 TIER FLORAL SERVERS - 3 TIER PORCELAIN FLORAL SERVERS

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Elegant Teapot and Teacup Duo 

Elegant Romantic Rose Victorian Porcelain Teapot And Teacup Duo Beautiful Gift Item

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Elegant Teapot and teacup duo designed in a beautiful Victorian rose design Comes in a satin lined gift box.

Blue Willow Porcelain Teapot 

Blue Willow Porcelain 32-Ounce Teapot with Infuser

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Ideal teapot for your next tea party, this lovely porcelain tea pot comes with its own infuser. Just place your favorite tealeaves in the top, add hot water and enjoy a delicious, nutritious cup of the freshest, most organic tea. Available here in 16 and 32 oz. sizes. The Blue Willow pattern was first offered almost two hundred yeas ago by a famous English maker of fine china. It is still the most popular pattern to ever appear on dinnerware. The popularity of the pattern has not faded with time or life style changes as fads and fashions usually do. Blue Willow is as collectible today as ever and is still being made in England and in many countries around the world.

Pink Rose Teapot 

Ramble Rose Chintz Porcelain 5 Cup China Teapot

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Featuring an old world rose pattern and trimmed in gold this little beauty features an array of pink, white and red roses perfectly set against an antique white china background. The perfect size for a romantic tea for two served on the sun porch, it stands 6" tall and measures 9" across inclusive of handle and spout. The shape of the handle makes this one easy to handle and pour.

Teabag Tea Caddy 

Teabag Caddy - Tea Service - Sandra's Rose Chintz

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In the traditional caddy (or "tidy" as they are known in England) teapot shape, these two rose chintz beauties are made in fine bone china and edged in gold. They will provide just the right touch of elegance to your tea tray! Measuring 4" by 4.5" wide the are in EXCELLENT CONDITION with no chips, cracks, flakes, stains, crazing or rough edges.

Tea Set by Royal Albert 

Royal Albert Old Country Roses 3-Piece Tea Set

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This popular bone china pattern surrounds blooming sprays of colorful English roses with hand-applied bands of 22K gold. Set includes: large teapot, cream jug and covered sugar bowl.

Pfaltzgraff Teapot 

Serve Tea In This Lovely Teapot

Pfaltzgraff Circle of Kindness Merriweather Cottage 20-Ounce Teapot

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There is a magical moment each afternoon when all who reside in Merriweather Cottage relax and refocus around a steamy pot of Irish tea.

The Merriweather cottage teapot makes a great addition to your dinnerware set, or as a gift to someone who loves a pot of steaming tea.

A beautiful pattern based on an enchanting story of kindness inspired by the book of the same name, written by Jana Kolpen and Mary Tiegreen.

Made of durable, chip resistant stoneware. Microwave, dishwasher and oven safe.

Circle of Kindness is hand-painted

Lace Tablecloth for a Tea Party 

Canterbury Classic 52" x 70" Tablecloth

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Heirloom 70" x 90" Tablecloth

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Battenberg Vinyl Lace Tablecloth 60x90 Oval

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Battenberg Vinyl Lace Tablecloth 70 Round

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Victorian Tea Party 

Lacey Napkins for a Tea Party 

Quaker Lace Gardenia Linen 17X17 Lace Napkins (12)

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Lenox Opal Innocence Set of 4 Napkins, White

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Fresh Herbs Cocktail Napkins Set of 4

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PORTMEIRION BOTANIC GARDEN NAPKINS - SET(S) OF 4

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Retro Flower Garden Dinner Napkins 12 Piece Set

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Tea Time Tapestry 

Heirloom Child's Tea Party Set 

Heirloom Quality Children's (Childs) Tea Party Set - Fine China Service for Two!!

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Heirloom quality fine China tea set perfect for tea parties with Mommy or Grandma. Sooooo beautiful! This item is certified to comply with U.S. Department of Consumer Safety levels for food safety.

Child's Tea Party Set 

Garden Party Tea Set

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Schylling Rose Tin Tea Set

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Ladybug 19 Pc. Kids Tea Set For Two in Basket

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Congrats on the purple star, very classy indeed!

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Welcome to ">Welcome tothe very best of squidoo food lens. We look forward to more od your lens in our group. Afternoon tea one of the best of British traditions, can only be beaten by afternoon tea and cakes.

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Wow!! Let's have a tea party!! and congrats on the purple star!!

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