Teenagers and Cell Phones: Can We Protect Them?

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Teens using Cell Phone

Over a decade ago, the idea of a teenager running around with their own cell phone was relatively unheard of. With more parents wanting the ability to always be in constant contact with their kids, the numbers have increased. However, the numbers have now increased to the point that teens account for the majority of the world's mobile phone users.
While the intention of giving a teenager a cell phone for safety reasons is valid, the negative impact it has created is unbelievable. According to Nielsen Mobile, the average 13-17 year old cell phone user will send and receive over 1,700 text messages a month. Many of these messages are being sent during classroom time, causing many schools to ban the devices. Some messages include nude or semi-nude pictures, and have been bringing up child pornography issues. In the U.S., over 20% of fatal car crashes involving drivers between the ages of 16 and 19 were the result of cell phone use, and that number is still growing. With all of the problems caused by teenage cell phone use, what can a parent do to protect their children? Here are a few tips on how to protect your cell-crazy teen.

1. Establish Guidelines  

Education is key. Talk to your kids about the dangers and responsibilities associated with using a cell phone. Tell them what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior. Make sure to set time frames as to when the cell phone should be turned off, or when the phone needs to be placed in the parent's care. Without defined guidelines, your teenager could wind up a victim.

2. Embrace The Technology  

Rather than calling your son to find out what time he needs picked up, send him a text message.Rather than ask your daughter to watch a news segment on TV about the dangers of sending text messages while driving, send a link of the video to her phone. If you embrace and understand the technology that they use, there is a chance that they won't misuse it.

3. Learn About Abbreviations 

You may now know that LOL means "Laughing Out Loud", but if you saw text message that said KPC or CFMN, would you know what was being said? More and more teens are using abbreviated lingo, not simply to get the message sent quicker, but to prevent parental eyes from knowing what's going on. By knowing that KPC means "Keeping Parents Clueless", or that CFMN means "Come F*** Me Now", you will have a better idea on whether or not your kids are being honest with you about their activities.

4. Audit Their Activity 

Do you know who your teenage son was talking to at 2 in the morning? Do you know who your daughter sent 500 text messages to last month? Your teenager might delete their call or text logs if they think you are looking through them, so we need to look at other ways to get the information.

First, check your bills. If your cell phone carrier doesn't already provide you with detailed billing, ask for it.

Another option is using cell phone spy software. Programs like Mobile Spy allow you to monitor your teenager's call information, text messages, and even know their GPS location. If your daughter is supposed to be spending the night at her friends house, you can verify her whereabouts in real-time simply by logging into your account.

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