So, it's late at night here and I was thinking about that, so here is what I came up with.
* Mindset and Beliefs - this is really important in everything you try to do. If you don't belive you can deal with something, then your mind is going to give you all kinds of reasons, that you can't do it. It's how it's wired. Then again, if you don't believe, you are worth enough to date the kind of women you like, then how are they supposed to thing you do?!
* Masculinity - Real women, are attracted to real men, as I said in my post on the traits of the attractive male. It surprises me how men, don't know really how to be a man, or what it is to be a mature attractive male. It's not about age, it's about your acts, your believes, your position amongst your group and so on... Learn about men, then learn about women, then learn, about the type of women, you like!
* Body Language - Women are pretty good at understanding body language, they can spot details, you've never thinked of. So start walking tall, arch your back, rest your shoulders back, put your head up, hands out of the pocket! When sitting at a place (whatever it is), take more space, lean back. Also move a little bit slower, it shows confidence.
* Style and Class - Most men lack these two and that's funny. Stop dressing "like-a-nice-guy" get into a cool shop and find some cool clothes. There are people in most of these shops and it's not that expensive. Learn a thing or two about fashion, so you know how to match your clothes. Develop your style and class, so you can feel good about yourself and after that - women!
* Humor - The common thing you can see in female profiles is "sense of humor" or "fun". If you ask every women around you what she likes (altho I don't recommend this) you will hear the same. You can't really hate someone who made you laugh. Anyway, there are two types of humor - confident and goofy. You don't wanna come out as goofy! You don't want a woman to laugh at you, but WITH you!
* Your Surroundings - One side of improving your dating life, that all the guru's suggest is to surround yourself with men that are good with women. That way, your mind is going to find evidence, that this success with dating is possible, you are going to suck up their beliefs and mindset.
* Strong Eye Contact - I left this out of the Body Language, because it is very important. Eye contact tells a lot about you. You can understand how someone feels about you, by his eyes. Women can understand if you are confident strong man, if you have strong eye contact. Develop it and when you have an Eye Contact with a woman, don't look away, wait for her to look away.
* Learn about dating - Enstein once said, that you can't find a solution for a problem, that was created at the same level of understanding, that you are now. With other words, you have to learn more, to be more competent, to work on yourself.
* Have a purpose in life - This is really attractive for women - a man with a purpose in life, who is passionately fighting for it. And this is not only about women, it's about making your life better. You are going to feel more fulfilled and that feeling is one of the most rewarding of all...
* Always be prepared - for dating. Have a plan, don't jump around her, asking where she wants to go, doing everythign she wants and etc. Don't leave that responsibility to her, but take it yourself! ALWAYS have your house and bed made and clean. ALWAYS be clean.
Improving your dating life will result in changing your life for the better. I will be having a major post on life soon, so be around!
www.datingrevelations.com
John Rock
* Masculinity - Real women, are attracted to real men, as I said in my post on the traits of the attractive male. It surprises me how men, don't know really how to be a man, or what it is to be a mature attractive male. It's not about age, it's about your acts, your believes, your position amongst your group and so on... Learn about men, then learn about women, then learn, about the type of women, you like!
* Body Language - Women are pretty good at understanding body language, they can spot details, you've never thinked of. So start walking tall, arch your back, rest your shoulders back, put your head up, hands out of the pocket! When sitting at a place (whatever it is), take more space, lean back. Also move a little bit slower, it shows confidence.
* Style and Class - Most men lack these two and that's funny. Stop dressing "like-a-nice-guy" get into a cool shop and find some cool clothes. There are people in most of these shops and it's not that expensive. Learn a thing or two about fashion, so you know how to match your clothes. Develop your style and class, so you can feel good about yourself and after that - women!
* Humor - The common thing you can see in female profiles is "sense of humor" or "fun". If you ask every women around you what she likes (altho I don't recommend this) you will hear the same. You can't really hate someone who made you laugh. Anyway, there are two types of humor - confident and goofy. You don't wanna come out as goofy! You don't want a woman to laugh at you, but WITH you!
* Your Surroundings - One side of improving your dating life, that all the guru's suggest is to surround yourself with men that are good with women. That way, your mind is going to find evidence, that this success with dating is possible, you are going to suck up their beliefs and mindset.
* Strong Eye Contact - I left this out of the Body Language, because it is very important. Eye contact tells a lot about you. You can understand how someone feels about you, by his eyes. Women can understand if you are confident strong man, if you have strong eye contact. Develop it and when you have an Eye Contact with a woman, don't look away, wait for her to look away.
* Learn about dating - Enstein once said, that you can't find a solution for a problem, that was created at the same level of understanding, that you are now. With other words, you have to learn more, to be more competent, to work on yourself.
* Have a purpose in life - This is really attractive for women - a man with a purpose in life, who is passionately fighting for it. And this is not only about women, it's about making your life better. You are going to feel more fulfilled and that feeling is one of the most rewarding of all...
* Always be prepared - for dating. Have a plan, don't jump around her, asking where she wants to go, doing everythign she wants and etc. Don't leave that responsibility to her, but take it yourself! ALWAYS have your house and bed made and clean. ALWAYS be clean.
Improving your dating life will result in changing your life for the better. I will be having a major post on life soon, so be around!
www.datingrevelations.com
John Rock
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