Tips for Woman and Man in LOVE

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L.O.V.E

When you aware of your innate impulses as a man or woman, you can choose how to act - and improve your connection and communication. When you are aware of and respect and honour your partner fear/shame vulnerability, you can improve your connection and communication. The key is connection. When people are connected, they communicate effectively.

It feels crucial to understand more clearly about what brings men and women together, what tears relationships apart and how to be intimate and in relationships long term.

Love is not about better communication. It's about connecting without words. The stunning truth about love is that talking rarely helps when you are out of connection and there are more powerful ways for couples to connect.

To L.O.V.E a Man

  • Accept that the partner provides the meaning in man's life
  • Understand his dread of failure as a provider, protector, lover and parent
  • Connect more through routine, fun activities, touch and sex

To L.O.V.E a Woman

  • Acknowledge and appreciate her importance to you
  • Make an effort to understand her
  • Avoid controlling; protecting is fine
  • Understand her fears - of harm, of your anger and of deprivation

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Tips for Men

  • Understand that your woman has a dread of feeling alone and out of contact with you.
  • You provoke anxiety in her through withdrawing, emotionally cutting off or controlling.
  • Your woman criticises you because she wants to get closer to you. Her complaint is really a plea for connection.
  • Women are designed to connect - when they cannot connect they feel fear.
  • When a woman feels fear, which is physiologically PAINFUL, she wants to move closer.

Tips for Women

  • Stop nagging your man to open up, feel and communicate.
  • The thing that makes your man happiest and feel most successful is that you are happy and that his deepest desire is to protect and provide for his loved ones.
  • Men automatically suffer low self-value when they fail to protect loved ones, no matter how successful they are in other areas of life!
  • When a man cannot protect and provide, he feels like a failure.
  • His sense of failure, which is physiologically PAINFUL, evokes a shame response. When a man feels shame he has to move away.

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