L.O.V.E
When you aware of your innate impulses as a man or woman, you can choose how to act - and improve your connection and communication. When you are aware of and respect and honour your partner fear/shame vulnerability, you can improve your connection and communication. The key is connection. When people are connected, they communicate effectively.
It feels crucial to understand more clearly about what brings men and women together, what tears relationships apart and how to be intimate and in relationships long term.
Love is not about better communication. It's about connecting without words. The stunning truth about love is that talking rarely helps when you are out of connection and there are more powerful ways for couples to connect.
Great song about L.O.V.E
To L.O.V.E a Man
- Accept that the partner provides the meaning in man's life
- Understand his dread of failure as a provider, protector, lover and parent
- Connect more through routine, fun activities, touch and sex
To L.O.V.E a Woman
- Acknowledge and appreciate her importance to you
- Make an effort to understand her
- Avoid controlling; protecting is fine
- Understand her fears - of harm, of your anger and of deprivation
I read this books about making L.O.V.E
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
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Getting the Love You Want Workbook: The New Couples' Study Guide
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The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
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Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart
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He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys (The Newly Expanded Edition)
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Tips for Men
- Understand that your woman has a dread of feeling alone and out of contact with you.
- You provoke anxiety in her through withdrawing, emotionally cutting off or controlling.
- Your woman criticises you because she wants to get closer to you. Her complaint is really a plea for connection.
- Women are designed to connect - when they cannot connect they feel fear.
- When a woman feels fear, which is physiologically PAINFUL, she wants to move closer.
Tips for Women
- Stop nagging your man to open up, feel and communicate.
- The thing that makes your man happiest and feel most successful is that you are happy and that his deepest desire is to protect and provide for his loved ones.
- Men automatically suffer low self-value when they fail to protect loved ones, no matter how successful they are in other areas of life!
- When a man cannot protect and provide, he feels like a failure.
- His sense of failure, which is physiologically PAINFUL, evokes a shame response. When a man feels shame he has to move away.
L.O.V.E Hot Movies!
- 001- The Notebook
Based on a Nicholas Sparks novel, this drama chronicles an enduring love that withstands both war an...- 002- The Lake House
Speed co-stars Sandra Bullock and Keanu Reeves reteam for romance in director Alejandro Agresti's re...- 003- Hitch
Smooth and sexy Alex "Hitch" Hitchens (Will Smith) is the master of seduction in this charming roman...- 004- Just Like Heaven
Shortly after David Abbott (Mark Ruffalo) moves into his new San Francisco digs, he has an unwelcome...- 005- P.S. I Love You
Holly Kennedy (Hilary Swank), a young widow living in New York, has just lost her beloved husband Ge...- 006- Catch and Release
Susannah Grant (who wrote the Oscar-nominated screenplay for Erin Brockovich) takes her first stab a...- 007- Under the Tuscan Sun
In this movie loosely based on Frances Mayes's best-selling memoir of the same title, Diane Lane sta...- 008- Pride and Prejudice
In this retelling of Jane Austen's novel set in 19th-century England, Mrs. Bennet (Brenda Blethyn) i...- 009- How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
To help land a big ad account, notorious player Ben (Matthew McConaughey) makes a wager with his co-...- 010- Along Came Polly
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I L.O.V.E this stuff!
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