L.O.V.E
It feels crucial to understand more clearly about what brings men and women together, what tears relationships apart and how to be intimate and in relationships long term.
Love is not about better communication. It's about connecting without words. The stunning truth about love is that talking rarely helps when you are out of connection and there are more powerful ways for couples to connect.
To L.O.V.E a Man
- Accept that the partner provides the meaning in man's life
- Understand his dread of failure as a provider, protector, lover and parent
- Connect more through routine, fun activities, touch and sex
To L.O.V.E a Woman
- Acknowledge and appreciate her importance to you
- Make an effort to understand her
- Avoid controlling; protecting is fine
- Understand her fears - of harm, of your anger and of deprivation
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Tips for Men
- Understand that your woman has a dread of feeling alone and out of contact with you.
- You provoke anxiety in her through withdrawing, emotionally cutting off or controlling.
- Your woman criticises you because she wants to get closer to you. Her complaint is really a plea for connection.
- Women are designed to connect - when they cannot connect they feel fear.
- When a woman feels fear, which is physiologically PAINFUL, she wants to move closer.
Tips for Women
- Stop nagging your man to open up, feel and communicate.
- The thing that makes your man happiest and feel most successful is that you are happy and that his deepest desire is to protect and provide for his loved ones.
- Men automatically suffer low self-value when they fail to protect loved ones, no matter how successful they are in other areas of life!
- When a man cannot protect and provide, he feels like a failure.
- His sense of failure, which is physiologically PAINFUL, evokes a shame response. When a man feels shame he has to move away.
L.O.V.E Hot Movies!
- 001- The Notebook

Two young lovers (Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams) are torn apart by war and class differences in th...- 002- P.S. I Love You

When she loses her beloved husband Gerry (Gerard Butler) to a brain tumor, grieving widow Holly Kenn...- 003- Twilight

When Bella Swan (Kristen Stewart) moves to a small town in the Pacific Northwest to live with her fa...- 004- The Lake House

Speed co-stars Sandra Bullock and Keanu Reeves reteam for romance in director Alejandro Agresti's re...- 005- Hitch

Smooth and sexy Alex "Hitch" Hitchens (Will Smith) is the master of seduction in this charming roman...- 006- Just Like Heaven

Shortly after David Abbott (Mark Ruffalo) moves into his new San Francisco digs, he has an unwelcome...- 007- Catch and Release

Susannah Grant (who wrote the Oscar-nominated screenplay for Erin Brockovich) takes her first stab a...- 008- August Rush

After cellist Lyla (Keri Russell) and guitarist Louis (Jonathan Rhys Meyers) share an enchanted nigh...- 009- Under the Tuscan Sun

In this movie loosely based on Frances Mayes's best-selling memoir of the same title, Diane Lane sta...- 010- Pride and Prejudice

In this retelling of Jane Austen's novel set in 19th-century England, Mrs. Bennet (Brenda Blethyn) i...- Try Netflix free for 14 days
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- margin-strategies margin-strategies Nov 6, 2008 @ 10:22 pm
- thanks,I learnt something about women today
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- margin-strategies margin-strategies Nov 6, 2008 @ 10:22 pm
- thanks,I learnt something about women today
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- aussiescribe aussiescribe Jun 14, 2008 @ 7:42 pm
- What do we know about love? Yet we all seek it! 5 stars & favoured. Discover how to attract love on my feng shui lens.









