Tips For The First Date

Had I known some good and solid tips for the first date , I wouldn't have done so horribly. When I went on my very FIRST date in my relatively young life, I was more nervous than a turkey at Christmas. We're sitting at Starbucks close to the college she was attending and I truly had no idea what to say. It was already dark outside, so I couldn't exactly comment on the "beautiful day". Having been rained all afternoon, I couldn't say "love the rain, huh?"

The only thing I knew to do, from watching TV or a listening to a certain Chris Rock stand up bit, was ask the girl questions so she could spend a long time answering them. Well, that tactic worked for a couple questions; the school ones. But I didn't expect her answers to be so short when it came to general questions about her. Talk about awkward silence. It took a couple 2 tables away from us making a large scene in front of everyone with an argument to get us to start chatting about something.

After the evening was over, we were polite with smiles and being courteous, even exchanged numbers. But when I called her a couple days later, there was never any response. No call backs. No text messages. What did I do wrong?

For more information and to see a great guide I found for learning what to do on a first date, visit here: Tips for the First Date!