Need to spruce up your flirting know-how? Here are ten hot speed dating tips to ensure he cannot take his eyes off you!

1)Laugh and the world laughs with you: Focus on positive things and keep the conversation fun, positive, upbeat, light and frothy. You'll find him getting closer to you.

2)Give clear signals: When you flirt, make sure your signals are clear. Separate sexual signals from 'I'm friendly' flirty signals.

3)The big freeze; a major turn off: Sitting like an ice queen will not help. You may be giving out 'no no' signals when secretly you are lusting for someone to approach you.

4)Even Kylie Minogue gets rejected: Don't dwell on negative responses, instead look out for compliments and shrug off rejection.

5)Ooze appeal: If you feel sexy you'll come across that way too. If you feel happy and confident then you'll be oozing appeal!

6)Let your body do the talking: It's about confidence. Girls may worry about what I say but in fact it's our bodies that does most of the talking.

7)Reveal your sexy glow: Appear energetic, luminous even. Imagine you have just had an amazing romp and have a sexy glow about you.

8)Emulate Marylin Monroe: Confidence is the key. Tell yourself you are fabulous. Find a role model you can emulate. Think of what qualities make her attractive.

9)Listen up ladies: Men love talking about themselves. Ask open-ended questions. Make him feel like the most interesting man alive.

10)Be yourself: It's good to make a conscious effort to impress him. But don't try too hard or become someone you are not. Sooner or later, he'll catch on....