Understanding Why Men Cheat - These reasons still don't make it right!

There are several reasons why men will cheat.

• A man will cheat because maybe he and his woman never see eye to eye.


• A man will cheat because his partner doesn't pay attention to him.


• A man will cheat if he has a nagging woman that don't know when to stop which is a big turn off for most men.


• A man will cheat because of peer pressure.


• A man will cheat because he found someone that can listen to him and try to understand where he is coming from.


• A man will cheat because he wants great sex and is not getting it from his woman.


• A man will cheat because his partner let herself go and stop looking attractive.


• A man will cheat because there is no excitement in the relationship.


• A man will cheat because he is bored in the relationship.


• A man will cheat because he doesn't feel appreciated.


• A man will cheat because he doesn't feel welcomed when he gets home.


• A man will cheat because of fear of commitment.


• A man will cheat as a form of stress relief.


• A man will cheat because of emotional escape.


• A man will cheat because you let him.

You should always consider your man. You should ask him that whether he is being satisfied in the relationship. Maybe you the woman just don't know how to satisfy your man. Maybe you don't satisfy him. I don't know, but, I believe firmly that there is no excuse for cheating.

People who cheat whether it's physically or emotionally (having feelings for someone else) are just too immature to be a man/woman and are like a wick battery and has a low self esteem.

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In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship.

There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT

And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.

But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT

But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had.

Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. 'Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not'

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature.

You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha . . ..'

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the quiet
type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.

I'm talking about life!

About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? 'They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!'

I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message???

If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are first class!