Valentines Day Tips for Men | Don't Bungle Valentine's Day

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Valentine's Day Tips

Avoid making classical Valentine's Day blunders by following the Tips in this Lens. There is more to go wrong than to go right and you can easily spend the rest of the year paying for it. Throwing money at Valentine's Day is not necessarily the best way. The key to a successful day is forward planning and making sure you know your partners actual preferences.

What you need to achieve/balance

Show imagination in your choice of present
Show that you actually know her tastes and preferences
Show that you have put time and effort in and not just money
Surprise her

It's NEVER too early to start planning Valentine's Day f

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Types of Valentine Gifts and Treats

While flowers are a must depending on your budget, the length of your relationship, the character of your beloved etc there are other choices.
  1. A Dozen Red Roses
    These will be expensive but can hardly fail
  2. A Trip to Paris
    The ultimate in Romantic Destinations
  3. A Top Perfume
    Chanel No 5
  4. A Top Restaurant
  5. A Top Show
    Especially if they are difficult to get tickets
  6. A Night at a Good Hotel
    Live one night of luxury away from everyday cares
  7. A Weekend Away At a Spa Hotel
  8. Buy a Pamper Gift Certificate
    For a day of beauty care treatment, this is a sure winner
  9. A Teddy Bear
    Can't go wrong here
  10. A Luxury Perfumed Hot Water Bottle
    May be as a side present
  11. A Slanket
    Can't fail
  12. YOU cook a Surprise Meal
    You can earn brownie points here
  13. Buy a Poster Declaring Your Love
    Risky!
  14. Decorate a Tree in the Garden
    Get up early and decorate a tree in your back garden with ribbons and small presents

Valentines Day History

Valentine's Day or Saint Valentine's Day is a holiday celebrated on February 14 by many people throughout the world. In the English-speaking countries, it is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other by sending Valentine's cards, presenting flowers, or offering confectionery. The holiday is named after two among the numerous Early Christian martyrs named Valentine. The day became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.

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Top Ten Valentine Tips

You have to find something that she really wants and reflects her tastes, you have to show that you have put some real thought into your presents
  • Order your Bouquet a Week Early
    Flower shops are overrun at Valentines, if you try and order flowers on the 13th or 14th you will only get leftovers
  • Avoid Racy Lingerie
    Unless you really know otherwise, anything sexy may be considered vulgar.
  • Get advice from her girlfriends
    But be careful whether you use it
  • If she asks you For a particular perfume, handbag (or hints at it) make sure you get it
    But remember to shop early as it may turn out to be hard to get. (Keep the receipt)
  • Note in a Diary, her favorite colors, perfumes, clothes sizes etc
    Sadly we men often don't know this stuff which often makes buying a present tricky.
  • Have you thought of the Other Women in your Life?
    How about Grandma or your Mum you can send them flowers.
  • Don't just throw money at it
    Selecting a tasteful gift or something she really likes will count more.
  • Remember what you gave in previous years
    What went well and what went badly.

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Valentine's Day Gift Ideas

I try to buy a main present and then a lot of little presents, chocolates, soaps etc
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Valentine's Blunders and Errors

Typical blunders made by men for Valentine's day

  1. Waiting until the last minute to buy flowers or a gift
    Shows you don't care really
  2. Buying presents in the color, style she loathes
    Means you don't know anything about her.
  3. Buying Flowers from a Garage/Gas Station
    Shows you don't care really
  4. Getting your secretary to buy something
    That's a kind of insult
  5. Buying tacky underwear
    This is a no-no unless you really know your girlfriend

Romantic Ideas

General Romantic Ideas

All year round romantic ideas
  1. Pop a Small Teddy Bear in her Overnight Bag or Briefcase
    When she is going for an important business trip or interview

My Valentine's Day Disaster Which Turned Up Trumps

How I got my brownie points

I'm a train buff, so when the local Steam Preservation Society organized a Valentine's Special Meal in a Victorian Train Carriage I thought that would be a winner. Unfortunately being February it was freezing and the meal just OK, I was also guilty of talking to other train enthusiasts instead of my nearest and dearest. The whole thing went down like a damp squid.

Fortunately when my wife related this to her girlfriends with suitable exaggerations they all roared with laughter especially since their husbands had chosen dull and predictable Valentines gifts

Chanel No. 5

Play Safe with Chanel No. 5. All that Marilyn Monroe wore at night.

Tradition of the Anonymous Valentine's Card

Valentine's cards are sent anonymously by a 'secret admirer'

www.funpic.huGirls love the secrecy,romance and delight of working out who has sent them a Valentine's Card. The trick is by choice of design, emblem or some message to leave a clue as to who you are

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