Valentines Day Tips for Men | Don't Bungle Valentine's Day
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Valentine's Day Tips
Avoid making classical Valentine's Day blunders by following the Tips in this Lens. There is more to go wrong than to go right and you can easily spend the rest of the year paying for it. Throwing money at Valentine's Day is not necessarily the best way. The key to a successful day is forward planning and making sure you know your partners actual preferences.
What you need to achieve/balance
Show imagination in your choice of present
Show that you actually know her tastes and preferences
Show that you have put time and effort in and not just money
Surprise her
It's NEVER too early to start planning Valentine's Day f
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Types of Valentine Gifts and Treats
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A Dozen Red Roses
These will be expensive but can hardly fail -
A Trip to Paris
The ultimate in Romantic Destinations -
A Top Perfume
Chanel No 5 - A Top Restaurant
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A Top Show
Especially if they are difficult to get tickets -
A Night at a Good Hotel
Live one night of luxury away from everyday cares - A Weekend Away At a Spa Hotel
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Buy a Pamper Gift Certificate
For a day of beauty care treatment, this is a sure winner -
A Teddy Bear
Can't go wrong here -
A Luxury Perfumed Hot Water Bottle
May be as a side present -
A Slanket
Can't fail -
YOU cook a Surprise Meal
You can earn brownie points here -
Buy a Poster Declaring Your Love
Risky! -
Decorate a Tree in the Garden
Get up early and decorate a tree in your back garden with ribbons and small presents
Valentines Day History
Valentine's Day or Saint Valentine's Day is a holiday celebrated on February 14 by many people throughout the world. In the English-speaking countries, it is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other by sending Valentine's cards, presenting flowers, or offering confectionery. The holiday is named after two among the numerous Early Christian martyrs named Valentine. The day became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.
Have you ever bungled Valentines Day?
Top Ten Valentine Tips
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Order your Bouquet a Week Early
Flower shops are overrun at Valentines, if you try and order flowers on the 13th or 14th you will only get leftovers -
Avoid Racy Lingerie
Unless you really know otherwise, anything sexy may be considered vulgar. -
Get advice from her girlfriends
But be careful whether you use it -
If she asks you For a particular perfume, handbag (or hints at it) make sure you get it
But remember to shop early as it may turn out to be hard to get. (Keep the receipt) -
Note in a Diary, her favorite colors, perfumes, clothes sizes etc
Sadly we men often don't know this stuff which often makes buying a present tricky. -
Have you thought of the Other Women in your Life?
How about Grandma or your Mum you can send them flowers. -
Don't just throw money at it
Selecting a tasteful gift or something she really likes will count more. -
Remember what you gave in previous years
What went well and what went badly.
How easy to please is your wife or girlfriend?
Valentine's Day Gift Ideas
Valentine's Blunders and Errors
Typical blunders made by men for Valentine's day
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Waiting until the last minute to buy flowers or a gift
Shows you don't care really -
Buying presents in the color, style she loathes
Means you don't know anything about her. -
Buying Flowers from a Garage/Gas Station
Shows you don't care really -
Getting your secretary to buy something
That's a kind of insult -
Buying tacky underwear
This is a no-no unless you really know your girlfriend
Romantic Ideas
General Romantic Ideas
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Pop a Small Teddy Bear in her Overnight Bag or Briefcase
When she is going for an important business trip or interview
My Valentine's Day Disaster Which Turned Up Trumps
How I got my brownie points
Fortunately when my wife related this to her girlfriends with suitable exaggerations they all roared with laughter especially since their husbands had chosen dull and predictable Valentines gifts
Chanel No. 5
Your Valentine's Day Tips
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Tipi
Feb 13, 2012 @ 10:20 pm | delete
- Guys, just pay attention here...maybe go back for a review!
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J9a2m6e8s5B Jan 4, 2011 @ 5:04 pm | delete
- I like how you provide ways to think of great gift ideas rather than just ideas themselves. Great lens.
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PhiloscribePublishing
Feb 4, 2010 @ 2:54 am | delete
- Don't underestimate the value of a card when budgets are tight. We women like to be told.....
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alfaprima
Feb 4, 2010 @ 2:17 am | delete
- Sometimes being earlier, and building momentum works..
Valentine's should not be just a single day!
Start today with a little extra, like a note or a message, and you will get get of her feet.
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flaminglacer
Jan 1, 2010 @ 6:03 pm | delete
- Best tip is to use the KISS principle - and Keep It Simple. Of course a kiss never hurts either :)
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