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Routine, boredom and a million other things that get in the way tend to make sex repetitive and unexciting after a while. It's not that the two lovers plan things this way, but rather the fact that life tends to dampen enthusiasm in the long run. Using the same positions every time and building up an unshakable routine doesn't help either. I'm not sure why some people think that doing the same thing again and again is a good idea, but they are wrong. Everybody needs a little variation in his or her life, including in the bedroom department.

And variation can easily and delightfully be achieved by learning new sex positions. Far from being nothing but frills, positions are actually a great way of making the other feel your love. Changing positions during sex allows the two lovers to play with each other and to find new ways of getting and giving pleasure. If you feel that sex is getting stale, but love is still strong, then you simply have to learn some new positions and bring a little variety in the bedroom. And if you don't know where to turn to find the best information on new positions, the answer is quite simple: Lovecentria.

Lovecentria. has one of the most comprehensive databases of sex hints, tips and information on the Internet and, naturally, a whole section dedicated to sex positions. From the most mundane to the most exotic ones, we have them all accompanied by both text and incredible 3D animations that you can use to make sure you learn them right and make no embarrassing mistakes.

It's true that getting it right the first time is pretty hard, but trying and failing is not that bad if both partners get to see the fun side. Learning new positions can really strengthen the bond between two people.

Browsing the list of new positions together and choosing the ones you are going to use in a couple of minutes can be a very sexy experience for both partners. Just think of all the pleasure lying ahead of you and focus on the fact that you are about to enjoy a great night and never worry that things might turn out wrong. You're just beginning to learn new positions so there's no reason to feel bad over a fumble, especially if the end result is mind blowing. Also, a really good idea is to try a decent number of positions in order to understand how they work.

The Lovecentria. team has put together even more video and written guides that can add immensely to your knowledge and turn you into the ultimate lover. The entire website is packed with information that can help you understand what women think about men and how they see sex and what they like both in bed and in life. New sex positions may well turn out to be just the beginning of your acquaintance with the Lovecentria. website and you may find yourself returning time and again to read on other topics of interest.

If you are interested in having a more exciting and exotic sex life then Lovecentria%u2122 has it all for you, with 75 incredible 3D sex animations that you can control. Learn all these positions to become a bona fide sex god. To find out more, click here



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Now we are at the final part of the guide to female erogenous zones. This is where you are going to learn about the different stimulation techniques that make women moan in ecstasy. Let's face it: any accomplished lover simply has to learn and master these techniques if he is to earn the admiration and love of women and the envy of less skilled men. The study of erogenous zones teaches the good student exactly what works and why and enables him to make up new techniques on the fly, as the situation requires.



The biggest problem with sex is that people, whether men or women, tend to assume that their partners like the same things that they do. Men love to have their penises touched, fondled and sucked any time, provided a five seconds notice is given. With women it's different. They don't like to have their genitals touched just like that. Women are not ready for action at the drop of a hat and do not like it when men move right to the main course without bothering to get the lady properly aroused.

So the basic idea is to get the woman into the right mood by playing on all the sensitive spots that we have discussed before. After the usual wining and dining, or whatever your approach is, check to see if the lady is willing and go into the foreplay mode. I know that some men find foreplay boring and useless and like to think that driving her home should be considered part of it. But they are missing all the fun that ladies love the most. Foreplay is all about exploration, pleasure and building up the passion. It's a primer for sex. Lying on the couch in the same position for 10 minutes and kissing is bad foreplay. Asking the lady if she would teach you how to please her by masturbating in front of you is hot foreplay.

The only thing that you cannot learn from articles and books is how to judge the individual situations. This you will have to learn yourself. For instance, many women like to be kissed all over, but if you make it look like something you do only out of obligation, then you're spoiling everything. Some women like to see that they can drive men crazy with their bodies, but don't be focus solely on her body. It will insult her intelligence. If something you do is not working, change it as soon as possible. Don't spend a minute kissing a spot that the woman doesn't care about. And if she tells you to stop in a serious manner, don't assume that she's joking. Stop whatever it is you're doing and talk to her.

Always read the body signs. The three things you can do to any erogenous zone are to kiss it, lick it or caress it. Her body will tell you if she likes what you're doing and how you're doing it. She'll try to guide you toward getting the best stimulation possible, but she won't use words every time. Go with her hands when she's pushing you toward a certain spot. Maybe that squirming is not pleasure but an attempt to get a better position or to change your angle of approach so try to guess what she's trying to do and move accordingly.

Learn all you can from these articles and then go and experiment everything. Be firm, but not pushy, be in control, but not domineering, be attentive, but not bookish and be gentle, but not a pushover. And don't forget to enjoy yourself while giving her a lot of pleasure. Otherwise it has no use, has it?