Weaning | First solids - some guidelines, advice and tips
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Are you considering weaning your baby? Is it the right time to introduce solids?
You think your princess or prince has reached the weaning stage? Congratulations,it's a biggie, isn't it?
Some of us have been looking forward to introducing solids, and some of us have been wondering if they are at this stage yet as they seem totally satisfied with mama's milk :)
First of all, don't get anxious or overzealous. A lot of your questions and worries will be answered in the process as you get more and more confident. Start with educating yourself with some basic guidelines and then trust your mama intuition. That's all it takes!
A word of warning - you will get a lot of advice from your family, in-laws and friends. Well, a lot of it could be outdated (e.g my mother-in-law wanted me to start adding butter right away and seasoning so the food won't taste bland ), and a lot of it might be dangerous (like starting solids at 3 months, etc)
I have done a lot of research on weaning babies and here I would like to share what I know with you.
What is weaning?
The weaning process begins the first time your baby takes food from a source other than your breast - whether it's formula from a bottle or mashed banana from a spoon. Weaning is the gradual replacement of breastfeeding with other foods and ways of nurturing.
Is my baby ready for solids?
Baby can sit up well without support.
Baby has lost the tongue-thrust reflex and does not automatically push solids out of his mouth with his tongue.
Baby is ready and willing to chew.
Baby is developing a "pincer" grasp, where he picks up food or other objects between thumb and forefinger. Using the fingers and scraping the food into the palm of the hand (palmar grasp) does not substitute for pincer grasp development.
Baby is eager to participate in mealtime and may try to grab food and put it in his mouth
Let your baby determine how much and how often she wants to eat solid foods!
What is the recommended age to introduce solids to my baby?
No solids before 6 months! It's as simple as that. There are no exceptions or excuses.

The following organizations recommend that all babies be exclusively breastfed (no cereal, juice or any other foods) for the first 6 months (and NOT the first 4-6 months):
World Health Organization
UNICEF
NHS
US Department of Health & Human Services
American Academy of Pediatrics
American Academy of Family Physicians
American Dietetic Association
Australian National Health and Medical Research Council
Royal Australian College of General Practitioners
Health Canada
Why wait till 6 months to wean your baby?
For a more detailed explanation, please visit Kellymom (aka my Bible :)Delaying solids gives baby greater protection from illness
Although babies continue to receive many immunities from breastmilk for as long as they nurse, the greatest immunity occurs while a baby is exclusively breastfed. Breastmilk contains 50+ known immune factors, and probably many more that are still unknown. One study has shown that babies who were exclusively breastfed for 4+ months had 40% fewer ear infections than breastfed babies whose diets were supplemented with other foods. Many other studies have also linked the degree of exclusivity of breastfeeding to enhanced health benefits
Delaying solids gives baby's digestive system time to mature.
If solids are started before a baby's system is ready to handle them, they are poorly digested and may cause unpleasant reactions (digestive upset, gas, constipation, etc.). Protein digestion is incomplete in infancy. Gastric acid and pepsin are secreted at birth and increase toward adult values over the following 3 to 4 months. The pancreatic enzyme amylase does not reach adequate levels for digestion of starches until around 6 months, and carbohydrate enzymes such as maltase, isomaltase, and sucrase do not reach adult levels until around 7 months. Young infants also have low levels of lipase and bile salts, so fat digestion does not reach adult levels until 6-9 months.
Delaying solids decreases the risk of food allergies.
It is well documented that prolonged exclusive breastfeeding results in a lower incidence of food allergies.From birth until somewhere between 4 and 6 months of age, babies possess what is often referred to as an "open gut." This means that the spaces between the cells of the small intestines will readily allow intact macromolecules, including whole proteins and pathogens, to pass directly into the bloodstream.This is great for your breastfed baby as it allows beneficial antibodies in breastmilk to pass more directly into baby's bloodstream, but it also means that large proteins from other foods (which may predispose baby to allergies) and disease-causing pathogens can pass right through, too. During baby's first 4-6 months, while the gut is still "open," antibodies (sIgA) from breastmilk coat baby's digestive tract and provide passive immunity, reducing the likelihood of illness and allergic reactions before gut closure occurs. Baby starts producing these antibodies on his own at around 6 months, and gut closure should have occurred by this time also.
Delaying solids helps to protect baby from iron-deficiency anemia
The introduction of iron supplements and iron-fortified foods, particularly during the first six months, reduces the efficiency of baby's iron absorption. Healthy, full-term infants who are breastfed exclusively for periods of 6-9 months have been shown to maintain normal hemoglobin values and normal iron stores. In one study (Pisacane, 1995), the researchers concluded that babies who were exclusively breastfed for 7 months (and were not give iron supplements or iron-fortified cereals) had significantly higher hemoglobin levels at one year than breastfed babies who received solid foods earlier than seven months. The researchers found no cases of anemia within the first year in babies breastfed exclusively for seven months and concluded that breastfeeding exclusively for seven months reduces the risk of anemia. .
Delaying solids helps to protect baby from future obesity.
The early introduction of solids is associated with increased body fat and weight in childhood.
Delaying solids helps mom to maintain her milk supply.
Studies have shown that for a young baby solids replace milk in a baby's diet - they do not add to baby's total intake. The more solids that baby eats, the less milk he takes from mom, and less milk taken from mom means less milk production. Babies who eat lots of solids or who start solids early tend to wean prematurely.
Delaying solids helps to space babies.
Breastfeeding is most effective in preventing pregnancy when your baby is exclusively breastfed and all of his nutritional and sucking needs are satisfied at the breast.
Delaying solids makes starting solids easier.
Babies who start solids later can feed themselves and are not as likely to have allergic reactions to foods.

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We know the weaning guidelines but when do we REALLY start weaning our babies?
Let's see:
Weaning myths
I have heard people say the funniest things. Here are some of them:
Your baby is on the big side so you should start solids as he seems hungry
Your baby is very small. Perhaps, you are not producing enough milk and should start supplementing with formula or baby rice
Your baby doesn't sleep through the night because the milk alone is not enough - put some cereal in her bottle
Your baby will be a fussy eater if you don't start now giving him solids now
Your baby's first foods
Here in UK, the health visitors all recommend to start with baby rice. Why?Well, your baby will have less chance of developing an allergy. However, there is hardly any goodness there, just empty calories, so I didn't bother.
In fact, I didn't bother with any processed commercial baby cereals. At about 6.5-7 months I started giving my daughter wholemeal porridge, brown rice, etc.
La Leche League suggests the following order:
Ripe banana, avocado, yam, or sweet potato (they are sweet like breastmilk).
Note: Do not let those foolish people convince you that sweet fruits or veg will turn your baby into a fussy eater since he is only used to the sweet stuff. Remember, your baby already knows many many flavours through breastmilk!
Meats (I gave boiled or stewed beef)
Whole-grain breads and cereals (rather than baby cereals)
It's best to delay wheats until 9 months or even 12, if you suspect any allergies
Fresh fruits (apart from citrus)
Vegetables
Dairy products after 9 months
Guilty here - I started giving my baby a bit of 100% fat natural yogurt with her porridge at 6.5 months. My excuse - I was 2 months pregnant, and my milk was seriously drying up :)
Solids AFTER milk
Give all solids AFTER milk (whether breast or formula).
Milk contains much more nutrients (and breastmilk also contains antibodies) than any solids allowed at this stage.
Carry on this way up to 12 months.
This way you also don't have to worry that your baby is not getting enough nutrients.
Our high chair - this was a brilliant purchase!
I recommend this one to anyone and everyone :)
Calorie and fat content of some popular first solid foods for your baby:
Banana (raw) 25kcal and 0.09 grams per ounceAvocado (raw ) 46 kcal and 4.21 grams per ounce
Sweet potato (baked) 26kcal and 0.04 grams per ounce
Baby rice cereal
(2 tbs dry cereal prepared in one oz water) 20kcal and 0.24grams per ounce
For comparison:
Breast Milk (mature) 22 kcal 1.15 (average) grams per ounce
Infant Formula 20 kcal and 1.01-1.09grams per ounce
Seasoning
There is no need to add salt or sugar to your baby's food. Don't worry - it will NOT taste bland to them.
As soon as you get more confident, you can add a tiny bit of herbs and spices.
When things start getting messy
They love it!
Baby Bjorn Plate & Spoon Set (BPA-Free)
The short, round design of the spoon fits easily into baby's mouth and makes it easier for your child to handle independently. The plate's unique clover shape helps children scoop up food (instead of pushing it around in circles) and its rubber base helps prevent slippage. Who could guess that the right plate and spoon would make the transition to self-feeding so much easier!
Baby Bjorn Eat & Play Smock
For mealtime or playtime, the Baby Bjorn Eat & Play Smock will protect your child's clothing and keep him or her clean. It's lightweight and breathable with a smart waterproof finish, so it can be wiped clean or machine washed for easy care. Plus, it's more like a shirt than a bib, offering the added bonus of covering your little one's sides, arms and back. Great coverage for any child!
Do NOT give your baby the following:
- Eggs (yolk until 9 months, and egg white until 12 months)- Shellfish
- Nuts
- Cow's milk (until 12 months)
- Honey
- Chocolate, cakes, grown up cookies, etc
When you are out of ideas, Annabel to the rescue!
Top 100 Baby Purees: 100 Quick and Easy Meals for a Healthy and Happy Baby
Amazon Price: $5.79 (as of 02/16/2012)![]()
In addition to easy and delicious recipes, Top 100 Baby Purees also includes information on:
Weaning your baby and transitioning to solid foods
Food allergies
Time-saving food preparation tips
Freezing and reheating your homemade baby food
Tricks on finding the hidden nutrition in everyday foods
What is baby-led weaning (BLW)?
Baby-led weaning is a way of introducing solid foods that allows your baby to feed himself - there's no spoonfeeding and no purees.You offer him food in sizes and shapes that he can handle and he feeds himself with his fingers, choosing what to eat, how much and how quickly :)This idea sounded very appealing to me. However, to my regret, I couldn't follow this method fully. Partially, because I was pressured by certain people that my baby was not eating enough this way and I didn't want to be a bad mum (ladies, you know how they can make you feel sometimes, insecure and helpless).
What I would do is give her mashed banana, sweet potato,etc on a spoon and then leave few finger shunks on her high chair for her to play with.
Even now, at 14 months, I am still feeding her a lot of the times myself.
If I am ever to have a baby again, I will definitely follow this idea.
There are a lot of resources out there on BLW benefits and advice. My favourite are this article and this book:
Great book on baby-led weaning
Baby-led Weaning: Helping Your Baby To Love Good Food
Amazon Price: $12.92 (as of 02/16/2012)![]()
Though many believe that babies should be weaned by being spoon-fed purées, self-feeding allows babies to use their natural abilities to explore taste, texture, color and smell. It also encourages independence and confidence by allowing them to experiment with foods at their own pace. This practical guide offers parents information on how to introduce a child to solid food and hints on developing a happy and confident eater. With practical tips for getting started and the low-down on what to expect, this informed reference show why self-feeding from the start is the healthiest way for any baby to develop.
Baby-led Weaning video
Solids are mostly for fun up to 12 months!
Yes, I am talking to you, certain health visitors who were pushing my baby 3 meals a day at 6 months...
Weaning has been a learning curve for me. At times it was a challenging business :)Sometimes you baby will be eager to eat, sometimes she won't. What she loved yesterday, she might hate today.
The main thing is not to stress out. Babies go through growth spurts,teething and mood swings. Don't worry that your baby might not be eating enough.
Once again,remember that milk should be the main source of nuitrition up to 12 months. I know some babies and toddlers that hardly take any solids (they are breastfed) and they are nice and healthy.
Solids are complementary to your milk for the first few months. It's a way for your little one to learn and play.
Have fun!

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Please share your weaning experience or simply add your comments here
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thrivingmom
Feb 10, 2011 @ 4:49 pm | delete
- Great information. I'm currently working on weaning my third baby.
Blessed by a Squid Angel. =)
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Senora_M
Nov 15, 2010 @ 5:27 pm | delete
- Great lens. I have to wean my now 10 month old before my husband and I go to Israel at the end of Dec. He does not want to take formula from a bottle at all! He's really not that into eating either... Guess we'll wait and see!!
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Ener-G
Oct 13, 2010 @ 11:34 am | delete
- Fabulous lens which I've lensrolled to my Sleeping Tips for Babies and Toddlers lens. I was just reflecting how my mom started us on rice cereal at 2 months of age! Yet she was also a great breastfeeder...
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IvanaBee
Jan 7, 2010 @ 12:39 pm | delete
- This is a very nice lens about weaning. I am thinking to make one about my blw experience so I am looking what's on squidoo already and if I do the lens I will link your lens as it has so many great info and advices.
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j_barnhart4 Nov 9, 2009 @ 3:06 pm | delete
- I have to agree with you here. People push milestones on their kids too early these days...potty training before a year old...feeding solids before the kid can even sit up straight...let them be a baby! They grow up too fast as it is. Good job...Blessed :)
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More on weaning your baby
These will you give you more weaning recipes and ideas:
- Weaning baby food revisited: solid finger foods healthier than purée
- Their parents, who volunteered to take part in the study, completed a questionnaire about their experiences of infant feeding and weaning style. Overall, 92 parents used baby-led weaning, in which the baby is permitted to feed him or herself from a ...
- Baby-led weaning 'may cut obesity'
- Weaning babies on finger foods rather than spoon-fed purees could prevent them becoming obese in later childhood, according to new research. Allowing babies to feed themselves from a selection of foods, including bread, means they learn to regulate ...
- Baby-Led Weaning Linked to Healthy Food Preferences
- Baby-led weaning though the use of finger foods, rather than continued spoon-feeding, promotes healthy food preferences in early childhood, according to a study published online Feb. 6 in BMJ Open. FRIDAY, Feb. 10 (HealthDay News) -- Baby-led weaning ...
- Infants who self-feed more likely to eat healthily later on
- Infants allowed to feed themselves with finger foods from the start of weaning ? known as baby led weaning ? are likely to eat more healthily and be an appropriate weight as they get older than infants spoon-fed purees, indicates a study online in BMJ ...
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