Baking your own wedding cake
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This shouldn't be so hard, I've done it before! Baking a wedding cake.
I've found a chart telling how much batter is needed per layer. I'm investigating recipes. My daughter and her fiancé* are coming into town next week and I'd like to try baking at least one layer with them as an experiment.
This picture is of me and my cake. It was, to be honest, somewhat tilted but not as crooked as it appears in this picture.
This lens is about a process, not a finished product.
What you'll find here at "make your own wedding cake"
- Day one: I research recipes and figure out how much batter we'll need.
- How much batter will I need? How long must I cook it? How much icing?
- I talk to the bride about recipes.
- I use eggs from the happiest chickens in the world.
- Day two: I try out a recipe!
- Lemon cake recipe: attempt #1 proves to be a peculiar failure
- day three: i feed the "day 2" cake to my chickens and make a much improved version
- New and improved recipe
- Now for the icing!
- White Chocolate Cream Cheese Buttercream Frosting
- White chocolate cream cheese buttercream icing tips
- result of revised recipe for lemon buttermilk wedding cake
- What's left of wedding cake prototype #2
- I would absolutely make this cake again!
- Equipment I'd use making this cake
- Another option: a square chocolate wedding cake!
- My son's favorite: "Chocolate Buttermilk cake"
- Square cakes are much more efficient
- Square wedding cake pans at Amazon
- Swiss buttercream icing for wedding cake
- Links to sites I mentioned
- Do you need music for your wedding? What kind of music should you have?
- Wedding cakes on Twitter
- Waxela Sananda's sock-puppet cake toppers at Etsy.
- Here's the asterisk: about that French word for your "intended."
- "Assembling a wedding cake"
- Other people who've made their own wedding cakes
- Odd wedding cakes
- Wedding cakes on Flickr
- Cake mix? Pro or con?
- Other "Do It Yourself" lenses
- Cake assembly instructions from answer.com
- The "Epicurious" recipe for chocolate-chunk wedding cake with raspberry preserves and cream cheese icing.
- New Text module
- Have you made your own cake? Would you? Would you try mine?
- Very cute "Day of the Dead" cake topper
- Some of my other lenses...
Day one: I research recipes and figure out how much batter we'll need.
How much batter will I need? How long must I cook it? How much icing?

I have four pans: 16", 12", 8", and 5-1/2" (call it 6"). They are each 2" high.
According to this on-line chart from Wilton's, I'll need 56 cups of batter and 22 cups of icing.
Total guests this should serve: about 150. We are expecting about 120 people so this is generous but not too generous. The cake I made in 1981 was this size, but we had many fewer guests, and my new husband and I ate cake for days. Never got tired of it though.
The Wilton site recommends using a "heating core" for the 16" layers. It's just like a nail in a baking potato, so the center will cook evenly. As a matter of fact, many people use spikes or flower nails or other such things instead of heating cores.
I talk to the bride about recipes.
These days a lot of people like a European torte style cake - thin layers with stuff in between them. That solves both the problems above.
Another possibility would be the route I took with my own wedding cake years ago - I added fruit, on the theory that fruit would keep the cake moist. I pitted hundreds of fresh cherries, cut them in half, and threw them into the chocolate cake batter. Shredded apple or coconut would accomplish the same goal.
My future son-in-law was kind of queasy about fruit so we ditched that idea.
The idea I'm going to try tomorrow is a European one. Problem with American cake recipes: they tell you to take the cake out of the pan and let it cool, but by that time it's all dried out!
So I'm going to cook thin layers, and as soon as they come out of the oven, while they're still hot, I'm going to seal them. I'm going to use a lemon glaze or syrup on one of the layers, and jam on the other. I suggested raspberry, but my future son-in-law doesn't want seeds, so I'll try something else. Maybe apricot.
My daughter suggested lemon so I've got just the thing for this first prototype cake.
I use eggs from the happiest chickens in the world.
(They're mine.)
All eggs in this project were (unwittingly) donated by my ten free-range chickens. They pop out of their home happily each morning, come up to the house for breakfast, and then spend the day roaming around looking for bugs and eating grass.
Day two: I try out a recipe!
Lemon cake recipe: attempt #1 proves to be a peculiar failure
Makes 2 thin 12" layers to serve 20-25 depending on how piggy they are.
Subtitle: "The dangers of improvisation."
I decided to use my 12" pan and cook two thin layers. One layer would be sealed with jam, the other with a lemon glaze.The recipe I began with was peculiar in two ways.
- It called for 3 cups of flour, almost 50% more than most other recipes of its size.
- It had no baking powder or baking soda and did not call for separating the eggs.
I mildly wondered why, but I figured "they" knew best.
When the dough, as predicted, started to look too stiff, I blithely started altering the ingredients, throwing in a little more of this and a little more of that - basically, I was increasing all the other ingredients to balance the too-large amount of flour.
So here's what I did, but I don't recommend you do it.
- 1-1/2 cups of butter (I used salted)
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 1-1/2 cup sugar
- 6 eggs
- 1 cup buttermilk
- 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
- 3 cups unbleached flour
- 3 teaspoons lemon zest (grated rind)
- lemon glaze for one layer (see below)
- 1/4 cup of seedless raspberry jam (unless you like seeds)
Cream butter, salt, lemon zest, and sugar very thoroughly till light and fluffy. Add the eggs, one at a time, beating well after each.
Add the vanilla and 1/2 cup of buttermilk and 1-1/2 cup of flour and combine. Then Add the other 1/2 cup of buttermilk and 1-1/2 cup of flour and combine. That's it.
I spread half the batter (which was still kind of stiff) in the layer pan, it was about 3/4 of an inch deep.
I cooked it at 350° for twenty minutes, turned it out on an aluminum foil covered sheet of cardboard, and coated it with jam.
Then I cooked the other layer, same way.
I intended to use the following lemon glaze, as found online:
For lemon glaze
- 1/2 cup lemon juice
- 1/3 cup sugar
- rind of one lemon grated
- 1/3 cup water
Combine ingredients, boil for a couple minutes. Pour over hot cake gradually.
However, it tasted like lemonade syrup (duh), so I used only a little of it and mixed it with the jam. We can make lemonade out of the rest.
INTERIM CONCLUSION:
Because there was no baking soda or baking powder AND the recipe did not call for separating the eggs, it has the consistency of polenta. Fail.
However, some things went very well. For instance, it was the right amount of batter to make two thin layers. Making thin layers turned out to be a success (and indubitably less crummy and disastrous than trying to slice one thicker layer in half horizontally).
Also, the flavor is wonderful.
So I'll try again. Next time I'll use more eggs and separated them. I will report back.
day three: i feed the "day 2" cake to my chickens and make a much improved version
New and improved recipe
So - it made one 1" layer in a 12" pan. Again I started by buttering the pan, putting a circle of waxpaper on the bottom of the pan (it glues itself to the butter nicely), buttered the wax paper, and shook a tablespoon or so of flour over the bottom and sides of the buttered pan. Preheat oven to 360°.
- 3/4 cups of salted butter
- 1/4 teaspoon salt
- 3/4 cup sugar
- 4 eggs, separated
- 1/2 cup buttermilk
- 1 teaspoons vanilla extract
- 1-3/8 cups unbleached flour
- 1 ts baking powder
- 1/2 ts baking soda
- 2 teaspoons lemon zest (grated rind)
- 1/8 cup of seedless raspberry jam (unless you like seeds)
Cream butter, salt, lemon zest, and sugar very thoroughly till light and fluffy. Add the egg yolks, one at a time, beating well after each. Beat in the vanilla.
Add the buttermilk and baking powder and soda and flour and combine. Bake at 350° for 25 minutes, turned it out on an aluminum foil covered sheet of cardboard, and coat it with jam.
Now for the icing!
White Chocolate Cream Cheese Buttercream Frosting
Ingredients
- 1/2 cup i white chocolate, melted in the microwave, cooled to room temperature
- 6 oz. Neufchatel cheese, softened (it's a slightly lower fat cream cheese)
- 6 ounces/tablespoons of soft salted butter
- 3 tablespoons of lemon juice
Beat cream cheese in mixing bowl until smooth. Gradually beat in the melted and cooled chocolate until incorporated. Add in the butter and lemon juice last, beating well until smooth.
White chocolate cream cheese buttercream icing tips
- Melt the chocolate in a microwave, stirring every 15 seconds. It won't look completely melted unless you stir it. Let it cool to room temperature, stirring occasionally.
- Use immediately or rebeat at room temperature before frosting.
Also...
- If it gets lumpy, press it through a strainer.
- If your room is warm and the buttercream separates, set your bowl in ice water and whisking.
- If it gets spongy, rebeat
result of revised recipe for lemon buttermilk wedding cake
What's left of wedding cake prototype #2
It was the tastiest of all the five cakes (ugh) we sampled yesterday.
Problems with the cakes we sampled, from very reputable bakeries and bakers:
- Frosting made of crisco or margarine;
- Cakes with that food-additive "Duncan Hines" texture (did you know that many bakeries, even expensive ones, use bags of packaged cake mix to make their deluxe-looking creations)?
- Fillings that seemed like jello or, again, like crisco;
- Dry texture;
- Grainy filling.
I will admit, though: all the professional ones looked better than mine. Fancy presentation has never been my strong suit, I'm more of a "here it is, it doesn't look great but it tastes wonderful so eat it" sort of cook.
I would absolutely make this cake again!
- Amount of batter made ONE 12" layer of correct height (I was aiming for about 3/4 inch layer when cooked);
- Taste: completely scrumptious;
- Texture: a little denser than I expected, but wonderful. Tending towards pound cake;
- In combination with the white chocolate - cream cheese - buttermilk icing: fabulous.
I cooked it in the morning and stuck it in the freezer for a few minutes to cool it down so I could put on the frosting and stack it BEFORE we left the house for taste testing "boughten" wedding cakes at 9:30 am. Therefore, the icing didn't really have time to set. So the cake tilted (much like the one in the picture at the top of this lens).
However - in general opinion my cake tasted better than any of the three we sampled over the course of the day. So that means, either find a better baker for my daughter's cake or - I'll do it myself.
Equipment I'd use making this cake
Another option: a square chocolate wedding cake!
My son's favorite: "Chocolate Buttermilk cake"
I make it in two 9" round pans, and it produces layers about 1" high. Even though I use non-stick pans, I still start by buttering the pan, putting a circle of waxpaper on the bottom of the pan (it glues itself to the butter nicely), then I butter the wax paper and shake a bit of flour over the bottom of the buttered wax paper. Preheat oven to 350°.
- 1 cup of salted butter
- 2 cups sugar (you could use light brown sugar for half)
- 1/2 cup cocoa powder
- 1 ts baking soda
- 1/4 teaspoon salt
- 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
- 2 large eggs, separated
- 2-1/3 cup buttermilk
- 2 cups unbleached flour
- A few tablespoons of seedless raspberry jam (unless you like seeds)
Cream butter, salt, and sugar thoroughly till light and fluffy. Beat in cocoa powder and baking soda.
Add the egg yolks, one at a time, beating well after each. Beat in the vanilla.
Fold in the buttermilk and flour. Bake at 350° for 25 minutes, turn it onto a cake rack to cool. Coat it with jam while it's still hot, but let it cool before icing with your favorite cream cheese icing. I used:
- 8 ounces neufchatel cheese (a low-fat cream cheese substitute)
- 4 tablespoons of softened salted butter
- ~3 cups powered (confectioners) sugar
Square cakes are much more efficient

My daughter and her intended favor an offset square wedding cake. When you do the numbers, you see: you get a lot more slices from square cakes, and there is less waste since cutting is so efficient.

If you bake two layers in each of these three sizes, a 8" square - 12" square - 16" square pan should yield around 170 modest size slices! (Note: the cake in the picture has layers which are much taller than this cake would make.)
If you use the fabulous recipe above, this cake would use 7 recipes worth. Take it slow, over two or three days - seal each layer with jam so it doesn't dry out as it cools.
Square wedding cake pans at Amazon
Swiss buttercream icing for wedding cake
Delicate and delicious

Just one year after the Smitten Kitchen published Project Wedding Cake: Swiss Buttercream, I found her page and today I adapted her recipe to ice a one-layer 9" round cake (using my cocoa-and-buttermilk cake recipe above). I'd never made this kind of icing before but I loved it. In an ordinary icing made mostly of butter and sugar, it's the sugar that gives the stiffness, which means you have to add a TON of sugar. This recipe, which (scantily) frosted the top and sides of one layer, had only 1/2 of sugar.
Swiss Buttercream Frosting
- 2 egg whites
- 1/2 cup sugar
- 1/2 cup of softened butter (room temperature)
- 1 ts of vanilla
- salt to taste
Whisk together egg whites and sugar over (not in!) in a metal bowl sitting in a pan of simmering water. If you have too much water and it boils too hard, it can cook the egg whites! Whisk until the sugar is completely melted (no granules).
Take it off the heat and beat it at high speed until it more than doubles in volume and turns white. It can take a while, don't despair! Add vanilla and salt.
Dump in the softened butter and whip, whip, whip. It looks like a soggy mess for a long while. I was about to give up on it, stopped whipping for a minute or so, went back to it and bingo! It looked perfect. It might take ten minutes. Just keep at it.
Make sure your cake is room temperature or below before you ice it.
I put the icing in the fridge and when I came back an hour later, it was totally stiff, but I just beat it some more and it was fine. Delicious!
From comments on her blog: "Italian meringue: sugar is cooked with water to soft ball stage 235-240 F), then slowly streamed into whipped egg whites - this is the most stable. Swiss meringue: sugar is mixed with egg whites and whipped over a double boiler until 170 F; mixture is then whipped; French meringue: sugar is mixed with egg whites and whipped - this is the least stable."
Links to sites I mentioned
- A full list of ascii codes
- I went to this one to find out how to enter the degree sign in html.
- Wilton cake equipment site batter and icing chart
- This gives quantities of batter, icing, and servings for all different sizes and shapes of cakes.
- Kate-Phizackerley's lens on escape codes for special characters
- If you don't use these escape codes you will end up with runic symbols and chinese pictographs in your text instead of accent marks, etc.
Do you need music for your wedding? What kind of music should you have?
Try ours! Folk, traditional, ethnic, Renaissance, Elizabethan, klezmer / Israeli...
Wedding cakes on Twitter
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- MissRemmy
- Photo: scrapemyplate: I can’t wait till this babe does my wedding cake ^_^ http://t.co/gpo783Pv
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- AnabelaPopiMoor
- A true fairytale wedding cake in white and silver with a Cinderella 39s castle: western wedding clipart gold ... http://t.co/mdn4F72g
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- wedding cake decorating kits Cheap : SpongeBob SquarePants Lanchers Cake... http://t.co/BYfppovo
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- MelissaMARZ
- Going wedding cake tasting on Sunday!!! So excited!
Waxela Sananda's sock-puppet cake toppers at Etsy.
I don't know her - but her cake toppers are very cute!
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Here's the asterisk: about that French word for your "intended."
If you want to use words with foreign accents here at squidoo, you need to use escape characters. In this case, use the following seven characters with no spaces between them: $ e a c u t e ;. The $ sign at the beginning and the semicolon at the end are the code.
See HTML character codes for more. Thanks, Kate!
Other people who've made their own wedding cakes
- How To Make Your Own Wedding Cake (Without Losing Your Mind)
- Good ideas like: "Spread out the work - Making cake for 150 sounds like a huge task, but that's only about 15 batches of a normal cake recipe. Do two each night for a week, or use larger baking pans, and you're done."
- Australian forum discusses baking your own wedding cake
- Amusing kibitzing. "I would do the cake myself and use easy lace and satin ribbon wrapped around the sides of the cake in matching colours... trying to pipe on decoration is hard work if you are not experienced."
- How do I make my own wedding cake? - Yahoo! Answers
- "I do wedding cakes...and I learned how to do them by simply reading the Wilton books that you can purchase at any arts and crafts store." vs. "Look, you have to be sure you really want the answer to this question because you can have your cake, but you can't eat it, too. Which do you want? This cake could ruin your marriage."
- A Cheesecake Wedding Cake
- "If you decide to make this kind of cake, I really recommend doing a trial version first, and leaving yourself extra time and ingredients in case of kitchen accidents."
- Stacking a Four Tier Wedding Cake
- "Make sure to place it on a sprinkling of coconut or crushed cookie crumbs so when you remove it, you don't take frosting from the second layer with it!"
- from "HowStuffWorks" - "How to Make a Wedding Cake"
- Helpful pictures of decorating, stabilizing tiers, etc.
- Strawberry wedding cake for 120-155 from Martha Stewart!
- Good picture, recipes, instructions.
- project wedding cake: swiss buttercream frosting
- I made this icing today and it turned out great.
Cake mix? Pro or con?
I surprisingly found many writers, even from professional wedding cake bakeries, recommending the use of boxed cake mix. It turns out that there are quite a few professionals, even those who charge a LOT of money for their cakes, who use a dry prepared mix - it can be purchased in huge containers. They point out that it's not possible to get the certain texture people expect unless you have the additives used in com
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Cake assembly instructions from answer.com
The site is so buggy, with pop-up and pop=down ads and reminders to "change the settings on your browser to allow cookies," it feels like malware, so I am including the recipe from Epicurious in the following module. I recommend the series of instructional pages with pictures, however.Good advice: "Using your offset spatula, smooth the icing down over the top and the sides of the cake. This is called your "crumb layer" of icing as it will catch all of the crumbs and seal them in. Place the tier in the refrigerator to firm up for 20 to 30 minutes, while you assemble the other tiers."
The "Epicurious" recipe for chocolate-chunk wedding cake with raspberry preserves and cream cheese icing.
I haven't tried this one... Personally, I dislike the flavor of cake flour but your mileage may vary.
Cake Ingredients
Nonstick vegetable oil spray
2-pound box cake flour
2 tablespoons baking powder
1/s teaspoon salt
1 1/2 cups salted butter at room temperature
5 cups sugar
3 1/2 cups water, room temperature
6 large egg whites
12 ounces bittersweet chocolate bars, cut into very small pebbly pieces
Line cake pans with parchment paper (I like wax paper). Spray parchment and sides of pans.
Beat butter in very large bowl (at least 8-quart capacity) until smooth. Gradually add 3 cups sugar, beating until fluffy.
Sift or stir flour, baking powder and salt together. Add to the creamed mixture in 4 additions alternately with 3 1/2 cups water.
Using clean dry beaters, beat egg whites in another large bowl until medium-firm peaks form. Gradually add remaining 2 cups sugar, beating until whites are very thick and glossy, about 5 minutes.
Fold 1/3 of whites into batter to lighten. Fold in remaining whites in 2 additions. Fold in chocolate pieces.
Spread batter evenly in pans. Place 6- and 9-inch cake pans on top rack in oven and 12-inch cake pan on bottom rack in oven. Bake (teabout 50 minutes for 6- and 9-inch cakes and about 55 minutes for 12-inch cake (test for done-ness with toothpick inserted in center - does it come out clean? The layer is done).
Cool cakes in pans on racks 30 minutes. Cut around cakes; turn out onto racks. Peel off parchment paper; cool cakes completely. Slide cakes onto corresponding cardboard rounds. Wrap cakes with foil; let stand at room temperature 1 day.
Frosting
Several reviewers said this was too much icing and too soft for a non-winter wedding.)
2 3/4 pounds (44 ounces) good-quality white chocolate, chopped
8-1/2 8-ounce packages (68 ounces) cream cheese, room temperature
4 1/4 cups (8 1/2 sticks) unsalted butter, room temperature
7 teaspoons vanilla extract
Bakers Rose gel base (or paste) color #7346 (from one 1-ounce bottle)
Microwave white chocolate to melt it - use short bursts and stir often. Stir until creamy and smooth. Cool to room temperature, stirring occasionally.
Beat cream cheese in very large bowl until smooth. Gradually beat in butter. Beat in vanilla and cooled white chocolate in stages. Add only enough gel base color in rice-size drops - beating to blend after each addition - to turn frosting pale pink.
Assembly
Put your largest layer on cardboard wrapped in aluminum foil.
Using long serrated knife, cut 12-inch cake horizontally into 3 equal layers and remove the top two layers, one at a time, to your counter-top to get them out of the way.
Spread 2/3 cup apricot or raspberry preserves over the bottom-most cake layer (the one still on the cardboard), leaving 1/2-inch border at edge. Spoon 2 cups frosting over the preserves and spread gently.
Use something flat (like a tart pan bottom) to help you slide the next cake layer onto the bottom layer. Spread a layer of preserves and then frosting. Top with third cake layer, cut side down.
Spread 2 2/3 cups frosting smoothly over top and sides of cake; refrigerate on cardboard base.
Repeat those steps for your middle layer and top layer. Chill the three assembled layers until firm, at least 2 hours.
Instructions for making and applying a fondant covering and final assembly.
Have you made your own cake? Would you? Would you try mine?
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Missy
Jan 24, 2012 @ 11:57 am | delete
- I have made my own cakes and I have a lot of fun with it. I ma about to make a bridal shower cake and I can't wait. I do think I will have to try it out before the shower. I really got some good ideas from you site!!
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MakingYourOwnWebsites
Sep 13, 2011 @ 12:51 am | delete
- You are a pro in making wedding cakes. Most brides would love to bake their own wedding cakes if only they can. I like your Square wedding cake.
The Odd wedding cakes in your lens are my favorites, especially the one with a crashed airplane.
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Maggie
May 30, 2011 @ 11:37 am | delete
- I made my own wedding cake. Mostly because I didn't think it would look exactly the way I wanted it to if someone else made it. http://maggieandartsebelskivers.blogspot.com/2011/05/long-overdue-post-wedding-cake.html
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skiesgreen
Mar 9, 2011 @ 12:10 am | delete
- Well, my mum made my cake, a basic fruit recipe, and everyone enjoyed it and no one had any special requests.My sister made here children's wedding cakes and they all were much apprefciated. I have made several wedding cakes and decorated them for other people with no complaints, You might like to check out the cakes on this lens where yours is now featured after *-*Blessed*-*l. Added to Sprinkled with Stardust.
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Lady_Gotrocks
Jan 23, 2011 @ 9:16 pm | delete
- Great lens! I am getting marreid 12/10/11. I want a square cake.
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