Wedding Customs and Traditions
Our modern Western wedding customs are an integral part of our culture. We all know that the bride dresses in white, that we throw confetti after the service and that the bride and groom go on a honeymoon.
But why?
Why do we do these things? Where did the customs and traditions originate? What do they mean?
On this page I'm going to explain a little about a few of the most well-known such customs. You can find out more about these and many others at the Wyrdology Wedding site.
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The White Dress
Why Does The Bride Wear White?
Today we think of the white bridal gown as a symbol of purity and innocence. It didn't used to be that way.White certainly used to be a symbol of joy however it was only one of many colours to be worn at weddings. Almost any colour except black or red was used for the wedding dress. Blue was very common, as was green in Ireland.
The white bridal gown tradition really began with Queen Victoria. She wore white for her marrage in 1840. Since Victoria was a trend-setting celeb of her day, white instantly became the colour in which to be married. And so it remains today.
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Confetti
Why Do We Throw Confetti?
Confetti probably harks back to the older pagan tradition of throwing rice, which was considered a fertility symbol. Modern confetti was invented in the late 19th century - once again, the custom originates with the Victorians.
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The Honeymoon
What Is A Honeymoon?
Honey Moon. Honey Month. Sweet Month. Obvious really. The Gaelic for Honeymoon is even more literal - mi na meala means "month of honey".
Honey also referred to the sweet drink mead and some lucky couples would be given a month's supply of mead after the wedding.
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Gretna Green
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The Union between Scotland and England is relatively new and there are still significant differences between the legal systems. In the 19th century England passed a law requiring parental consent for marriage under the age of 21.
Scotland had no such law. So young people wanting to get married against the wishes of their parents would elope to Scotland.
Why Gretna Green? Was it the most romantic place in the country?
Not exactly. It simply happened to be the first stop in Scotland for most of the cross-border stagecoaches!
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- ladyjulia ladyjulia Nov 19, 2007 @ 5:15 pm
- Excellent. Well written and informative.
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