Plan Your Wedding Music and Entertainment
Consider this lens your starting point towards planning the day's entertainment, then consult my complete wedding music and entertainment guide at Elegala.com for advice that will walk you through the entire process, from hiring a band to song selection.
Don't stop with your entertainment - this complete wedding ideas and advice guide will walk you every step of the planning process, from setting the theme and style to managing every wedding detail.
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- 33 Best R&B Songs For Your Wedding Reception
- World's Worst Wedding Songs
- Some Great "Get up and Dance" Wedding Songs..
- Wedding Bands vs. DJs
- Party With a Rock Star!
- How to Plan Your Ceremony Music and Make Your Song Selections
- How to Plan Your Wedding Reception Music
- Beware of Arrogant Wedding Vendors - They'll Cost You!
- Wedding Music - 4 Ways to Save
- Popular Wedding Songs
- Size Counts - Save on Your Ceremony Music with an Ensemble Catered To Your Guest Count
- Unveiled Wedding Blog
- Wedding Planning Advice from Industry Insiders
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33 Best R&B Songs For Your Wedding Reception
If you're looking to set a sensuous vibe at your wedding reception, look no further than a playlist full of R&B wedding songs. With smooth base lines and sultry lyrics, R&B songs of love and devotion are perfect for moving, grooving, and romance on the dance floor. But with decades of songs to choose from, the only hard part is narrowing your playlist down. Consider this list of the best R&B wedding songs your starting pointR&B Wedding Songs
These passionate R& B wedding songs have fitting lyrics and sultry melodies that will suit every component of your wedding from walking down the aisle through to the last dance.
- Never - Jaheim
- Forever My Lady - Jodeci
- Sweet Love - Anita Baker
- Caught Up in the Rapture - Anita Baker
- Spend My Life with You - Eric Benet & Tamia
- Nice and Slow - Usher
- You Got It Bad - Usher
- Ribbon in the Sky - Stevie Wonder
- You Mean the World to Me - Toni Braxton
- Always and Forever - Heat Wave
- On Bended Knee - Boyz II Men
- Never Let Go - Faith Evans
- Angel of Mine - Monica
- For You I Will - Monica
- The Sweetest Thing - Lauren Hill
- No Ordinary Love - Sade
- You - Jesse Powell
- The Cool in You - Babyface
- By Your Side - Sade
- I Swear - All-4-One
- Make it Last Forever - Keith Sweat
- Here and Now - Luther Vandross
- Every Beat of My Heart - Brian McKnight
- Back at One - Brian McKnight
- Saved the Best for Last - Vanessa Williams
- Crazy Love - Aaron Neville
- All My Life - K-Ci and Jojo
- Suddenly - Billy Ocean
- No One - Alicia Keys
- Hello - Lionel Richie
- Saving All My Love for You - Whitney Houston
- Everything - Mary J. Blige
- Family Affair - Mary J. Blige
Get even more great R&B wedding songs for your reception at Elegala.com.
World's Worst Wedding Songs
Don't let these bad wedding songs happen to you!
You may want to pass by these songs when putting together your wedding playlist. Not only are most of them cheesy and grossly overplayed at weddings, some contain lyrics that are completely inappropriate for a wedding. Tell us which ones YOU think are the worst..
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Shout - Isley Brothers
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Macarena - Del Rio
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Gold Digger - Kanye West.
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Some Great "Get up and Dance" Wedding Songs..
Get %u2018em Dancing with These Surefire Tunes!
Here are some highlights from the list of good wedding songs to dance to:
* Beyonce - Single Ladies (Put a Ring On It)
* Kanye West - American Boy
* Pink - Get the Party Started
* Billy Idol - Dancing with Myself
* Prince - Let's Go Crazy
* Ramones - I Wanna Be Sedated
* Beatles - Twist and Shout
Wedding Bands vs. DJs
How to Decide
Inevitably, you will debate the question on whether or not to hire a band or a DJ to lead the evening's festivities. In some instances, the type of venue you choose and the overall theme of your wedding will dictate whether you decide to go with a band or DJ, but the decision is always up to you.Solve the debate on whether to hire a band or a DJ to lead your reception festivities by considering the pros and cons of each. This article lists the positives and negative of both wedding bands and DJ Music to help you make your decision.
Party With a Rock Star!
Rent celebrity entertainers to headline your wedding reception
It turns out chivari chairs and silk table linens aren't the only upgrades for rent. Today's hottest party accessory is the rentable rock star. You can now splurge on the living breathing version of stars such as Christina Aguilera, Joe Cocker, or Carrie Underwood to belt out your first dance song or headline the entire affair.Learn more about renting a celebrity for your wedding reception at the Unveiled Wedding Blog
How to Plan Your Ceremony Music and Make Your Song Selections
Plan your wedding ceremony music with this ehow article on how to choose your wedding ceremony songs and musicians
How to Plan Your Wedding Reception Music
Your wedding entertainment can really make or break the atmosphere of your reception. No other detail will command more influence over the behavior of your guests, so you should use this opportunity to elicit the behavior you desire. Thus, whether you want your guests dancing on the tabletops by night's end or would rather keep the atmosphere formal and elegant, your reception music will help set the mood.This article will help you plan your wedding reception music .
Beware of Arrogant Wedding Vendors - They'll Cost You!
Case in point:
Elegala.com has a number of articles offering money saving tips for every wedding detail - from flowers, to music, to photography. Believe it or not, we've had some pompous vendors complain that we offer these money saving tips, insisting, for instance, that we remove a tip about how you can save on photography by being wary of upsells like custom albums or save on your floral budget by sticking to in-season flowers. Apparently, we're releasing to the public blasphemous ideas that vendors have been dubiously safeguarding for decades. Oh no - don't enlighten the brides-to-be!
Sure - there are many lucky brides who have unlimited funds to plan their weddings, but for many - especially with the economy in the state that it's in - these budgeting tips are essential in making a wedding a reality. Let's face it - even some couples who have the money spend would prefer to spend it somewhere else. And that's OK. Really, it is. But some wedding vendors would prefer that everyone continue to keep up with the Joneses so long as it keeps their wallets fat. I say shame on you.
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Wedding Music - 4 Ways to Save
The Frugal Bride's Guide to Wedding Entertainment
- DJ Vs. Band -
It's the age-old argument, but when it comes to your entertainment budget - the DJ usually wins the price war (unless of course DJ AM is on your vendor list). That said, if your ideal wedding reception includes drums and a wedding singer, you can still fit live music into your budget. Limit the number of pieces in your band, and save about $150 per musician. Or hire a band for cocktail hour and the first dances, then switch to a DJ for the final foot stomping moments of your reception - a budget-friendly best of both worlds! This directory of local wedding services will help you find DJs and bands near you. - Beware the Overtime -
Most entertainment books for a four hour time block. Think your reception might run longer? Book 'em for five, and be on the safe side. An extra hour of wedding music in advance is usually cheaper than a steep overtime fee - Ceremony Savings -
Ceremony musicians can tack on an extra $500-$1000 to your entertainment costs. Consider some musical alternatives, and pocket the extra cash. If your ceremony site boasts a respectable sound system, round up some classical CDs and someone reliable to cue the music - and voila - instant background music. Or better yet, ask a talented friend or family member to perform during the ceremony (a perfect job for that cousin you couldn't quite squeeze into your wedding party). You'll cut costs and give a special person a significant role on your special day. - Go Amateur -
Check out local universities for qualified and inexpensive musicians. Music professors and department heads can recommend the best students in the program. We do say this with caution - because a bad band can kill the party. Talented amateur musicians do exist, but be sure to hear them in person before making the hire.
Visit this article for even more tips on Wedding Music savings.
Popular Wedding Songs
Here is a list of popular songs for your reception
These categorized lists of popular wedding songs will help you get started making your reception playlist.Hint: you can find a more extensive list of popular
wedding songs at Elegala.com
First Dance Songs:
Amazed - Lonestar
From This Moment - Shania Twan & Bryan White
At Last - Etta James
When You Say Nothing At All - Allison Krause
All My Life - K-Ci & Jojo
I Knew I Loved You Before I Met You - Savage Garden
Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton
It's Your Love - Tim McGraw & Faith Hill
My Best Friend - Tim McGraw
You're The First, The Last, My Everything - Barry White
Father/Daughter Dance Songs:
A Song For My Daughter - Ray Allure/Mikki Viereck
Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
Butterfly Kisses - Bob Carlisle
If I Could - Ray Charles
Daddy's Girl - Red Sovine
Daddy's Hands - Holly Dunn
Daddy's Little Girl - Al Martino
Daughter of Mine - John McDermott
Have I Told You Lately - Rod Stewart
Isn't She Lovely - Stevie Wonder
Mother/Son Dance Songs:
A Song For My Son - Mikki Viereck/Donna Lee Honeywell
A Song For Mama - Boyz II Men
Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
Boy Of Mine - Traditional
I Am Your Child - Barry Manilow
Cake Cutting Songs:
Chapel Of Love - Dixie Cups
Cut The Cake - Average White Band
Cuts Like A Knife - Bryan Adams
Eat It - Wierd Al Yankovic
The Bride Cuts The Cake - Traditional
Bouquet Toss/Garter Removal Songs:
Ladies Night - Kool & The Gang
Girls Just Wanna Have Fun - Cyndi Lauper
It's Raining Men - Weather Girls
Another One Bites The Dust - Queen Bad Boys - Inner Circle
Bad To The Bone - George Thorogood
Last Dance Songs:
As Times Go By - Jimmy Durante
Goodnight Sweetheart - Spaniels
Always & Forever - Heatwave
Good Riddance (Time Of Your Life) - Green Day
Hit The Road Jack - Buster Poindexter
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- swing-band swing-band Dec 1, 2008 @ 6:23 pm
- Great Information, as an entertainer myself so many times I see it going wrong very well written advice.
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