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Where to Meet Women in Your Area
Let's be honest here...
The singles dating scene can be brutal!
This is especially true if you go to the "typical" place for meeting women - Bars or Clubs.
While these venues are great for practicing your skills at approaching and attracting women, they can get tedious if they're the only place you frequent. In fact, you might even be one of those guys who gets sick and tired of trying to 'pick up women' at bars and clubs.
Now in my FREE ebook Attraction Mastery and favorite resourse: Double Your Dating I teach over 50 tips on how to approach and attract a woman. But I don't go into detail about WHERE to find women to approach.
So in this lens, I'll continue with the information that you can learn in my free ebook. will teach you my personal step-by-step system for creating the perfect first date! It is my hope that you take this information to find OTHER places to meet women that are not your local bar.
Here's what I mean:
Meeting women in a noisy, crowded bar can be a challenging prospect. Not only do you have to compete with a lot of guys, but you also have to overcome the natural resistance women have to men who approach them in this setting.
In short, trying to approach women in bars can really suck!
So I decided to do something to help you out...
In this lens, I've created a list of different places that provide a great opportunity for meeting interesting women. What's great about these locations is they're a lot different from the "Go to the bar and pick up a woman" environment.
Top 7 Meet Women Resources
When it comes to meeting women, there are a lot of areas which can use to increase your chances of attracting them. In this list you'll discover the different resources I've used to instantly create interest with women I've met
- Attraction Mastery
- My FREE ebook which gives you 50 tips you can use to meet, attract, and date women.
- Art of Approaching
- How to approach women and engage them in a conversation
- Double Your Dating
- A resource which teaches you valuable concepts about how to act around women which attracts them to you.
- Hypnodate
- Develop the confidence and proper mindset to win over ANY woman
- 300 Dates
- An incredible guide which provides 300 places you can take a woman on your first date.
- Conversation King
- If you want to create attraction and chemistry when you first meet a woman, you have to know what to talk about. In the 'Conversation King' guide, you'll discover the RIGHT way to talk to women.
- Her Best Lover
- If your first meeting goes REALLY well, you have to know how to please her.
1. Meeting Women at Supermarkets
Believe it or not, supermarkets are incredible places to meet women. Since women make up a large percentage of shoppers, you'll be amazed at the opportunities you can find there. In addition, since everyone has to shop for food, you'll find all types of women here.
What you should do is wait till around 5:30 in the evening to go a supermarket. Since this is typically the time that people get off work, you'll have no problem finding women to approach. All you have to do ask their opinion about a particular item and you'll have an instant conversation. (Just make sure you don't ask her about something like adult diapers).
What you should do is wait till around 5:30 in the evening to go a supermarket. Since this is typically the time that people get off work, you'll have no problem finding women to approach. All you have to do ask their opinion about a particular item and you'll have an instant conversation. (Just make sure you don't ask her about something like adult diapers).
2. Meet Women at Coffee Shops
It seems like coffee shops have become a "feeding ground" for single and attractive women. For instance, I recently took the train into New York City and went to grab a cup of tea from Starbucks (Yeah I know I am a wuss, but I hate coffee). When I went inside, there dozens of tables filled with hot women.
Now this was a Tuesday afternoon in middle of November and there were almost a hundred attractive women. Think of the possibilities of that one!
In my opinion, coffee shops are a huge untapped area which most guys don't take advantage of. All you have to do is grab a cup of coffee (or tea) and start talking to a girl who catches your eye.
3. Meet Women at Parties
Parties are an excellent place to meet women.
Even if you're an older guy, these events are great for meeting new people and mingling with old friends. What's great about parties is they provide a relaxed atmosphere to approach and engage women in conversations.
But what if you don't have friends who host parties?
It's simple...
Host one of your own!
What you can do is invite all your friends and request they bring a few extra people. Since there will be a lot of new women at the party, you'll have plenty of opportunities to engage them in conversations.
Even if you're an older guy, these events are great for meeting new people and mingling with old friends. What's great about parties is they provide a relaxed atmosphere to approach and engage women in conversations.
But what if you don't have friends who host parties?
It's simple...
Host one of your own!
What you can do is invite all your friends and request they bring a few extra people. Since there will be a lot of new women at the party, you'll have plenty of opportunities to engage them in conversations.
4. Meet Girls in Your Social Circle
Similar to parties, you can increase your chances of meeting women just from your social contacts. It's been said the most common way men meet their wife or girlfriend is through their social contacts.
So odds are you'll have a great chance to meet a woman from your friends and family.
Now in order to take advantage of your social contacts, you should start organizing different events and become the coordinator for fun times. By doing this, you'll expand your circle and will meet a lot of women.
So odds are you'll have a great chance to meet a woman from your friends and family.
Now in order to take advantage of your social contacts, you should start organizing different events and become the coordinator for fun times. By doing this, you'll expand your circle and will meet a lot of women.
5. Meet Women at Your Local Playground
If you're a single dad, the local playground is an excellent place to meet women.
What you should realize is even a woman is there with a kid, it doesn't mean she's married or in a relationship. A lot of times you'll find single mothers, nannies, or relatives at a local playground.
What you could do is go there with your kid and casually engage women in conversations. Then from there allow the discussion to evolve.
Now one thing you should remember is to NEVEY go to a local playground by yourself. If you're lurking around on your own, you'll be perceived as a pervert or child molester.
So don't go there if you don't have a kid.
What you should realize is even a woman is there with a kid, it doesn't mean she's married or in a relationship. A lot of times you'll find single mothers, nannies, or relatives at a local playground.
What you could do is go there with your kid and casually engage women in conversations. Then from there allow the discussion to evolve.
Now one thing you should remember is to NEVEY go to a local playground by yourself. If you're lurking around on your own, you'll be perceived as a pervert or child molester.
So don't go there if you don't have a kid.
6. Meet a Woman at Your Church
Yes...
Churches are an incredible place to meet women.
What's great about religious places is you'll meet women who are morally inline with their lives. Furthermore since they regularly attend church, the women here have faced a lot of their inner demons and have managed to overcome their problems.
Now remember, a regular churchgoer can still be a fun and sexual person. These women like to have a good like normal people. The only difference is they don't live the hedonistic life style you'll find from many other women.
Churches are an incredible place to meet women.
What's great about religious places is you'll meet women who are morally inline with their lives. Furthermore since they regularly attend church, the women here have faced a lot of their inner demons and have managed to overcome their problems.
Now remember, a regular churchgoer can still be a fun and sexual person. These women like to have a good like normal people. The only difference is they don't live the hedonistic life style you'll find from many other women.
7. Subways and Trains
A lot of guys work in major cities and spend hours each week going to and from their place of employment. While other men use the time on a subway or train to read, YOU can use it as an opportunity to meet women.
A great technique is to scan the train or subway for women who are reading a book you're familiar with. Then just open the conversation discussing that book and build the conversation towards setting up a date.
A great technique is to scan the train or subway for women who are reading a book you're familiar with. Then just open the conversation discussing that book and build the conversation towards setting up a date.
8. Lunch or Happy Hours Near Work
If you work in a corporate park or commercial area, you'll find lots of establishments which offer special lunch or happy hour events. What's great is these places offer an opportunity to mingle with co-workers and meet women from other local businesses.
Now this type of atmosphere is different from the normal bar scene because people are there to unwind, and will be more open to conversations.
During your normal daily routine you have lots of chances to meet different women. If you pay attention to your surroundings, you'll discover there's lot of interesting women who are open to conversations and dates.
Now this type of atmosphere is different from the normal bar scene because people are there to unwind, and will be more open to conversations.
During your normal daily routine you have lots of chances to meet different women. If you pay attention to your surroundings, you'll discover there's lot of interesting women who are open to conversations and dates.
9. Dance Class
One of the best suggestions I ever heard about meeting women is to take a dance class.At first I thought enrolling in a dance class was a too *chickish*. But when I swallowed my pride and showed up the first day, I was pleasantly surprised at the amount of available women.
In fact, I figured out that there were three girls for every guy in the dance class!
Obviously, it's pretty easy to talk to women in this environment!
By taking this type of class, you're showing an attractive side to women because you're getting out there and learning how to dance. Even if you stink at first, you'll still make a good impression.
10. Yoga, Pilates or Meditation Classes
Nowadays, there are a lot of places that offer yoga, Pilates and meditation classes. By attending a class like this, you can easily find a lot of girls with an athletic and spiritual side.
Furthermore, these classes have the same incredible ratio of women to men. So this is another place where you have no problem finding a girl to talk to.
What I like best about the "spiritual/athletic" type class is the women here respect themselves a lot more then the girls who spend every weekend at a bar. They also tend to be in a lot better shape!
Furthermore, these classes have the same incredible ratio of women to men. So this is another place where you have no problem finding a girl to talk to.
What I like best about the "spiritual/athletic" type class is the women here respect themselves a lot more then the girls who spend every weekend at a bar. They also tend to be in a lot better shape!
11. Karaoke Bars
Okay, I am actually saying with a straight face...
Karaoke bars are incredible places to meet women!
Think of it this way...
A lot of women go to these bars to have fun with their friends and not be subjected to the annoyances of a typical bar. Primarily they are at a Karaoke bar to have a little fun and meet new people.
That means with a little self-deprecating humor, you can easily start a conversation with any girl of your choice.
Now I understand the prospect of singing can be quite intimidating. The truth is the singing skill can be easily learned.
So you might want to invest in lessons which can help both your singing and your voice. A byproduct of taking voice lessons is you gain confidence in your ability to speak with women.
Karaoke bars are incredible places to meet women!
Think of it this way...
A lot of women go to these bars to have fun with their friends and not be subjected to the annoyances of a typical bar. Primarily they are at a Karaoke bar to have a little fun and meet new people.
That means with a little self-deprecating humor, you can easily start a conversation with any girl of your choice.
Now I understand the prospect of singing can be quite intimidating. The truth is the singing skill can be easily learned.
So you might want to invest in lessons which can help both your singing and your voice. A byproduct of taking voice lessons is you gain confidence in your ability to speak with women.
12. The Gym
A lot of adults spend a couple of hours each week at the gym. They go in, do their workout, and then leave. If you're one of those guys who spends a couple of hours pumping iron or working out on the cardio machine, you can also use this time to initiate conversations with women.But here's a warning...
Many other men also use the gym to approach women.
Don't use the typical "you need me to spot you?" or "let me show you how to correctly life that" line. She's probably heard them before and won't think too highly of your technique.
If you can approach her in a natural way and not get in the way of her workout, she'll be more receptive to your advances.
13. Local 5K Race
If you like to walk or run, then a local 5K race can provide an excellent opportunity to initiate conversations with a woman. If the race is large or low-key, you'll find a lot of women who like to do these events for fun and enjoy mingling once the race is completed.
To get the best results, you should approach women after the race is over. That way, pre-race nerves or time constraints won't prevent you from shamelessly flirting.
To get the best results, you should approach women after the race is over. That way, pre-race nerves or time constraints won't prevent you from shamelessly flirting.
14. Athletic Teams
Almost every community has a large selection of co-ed athletic teams. Whether it's softball, volleyball, flag football or kickball, in every town there are plenty of to get involved in.
What's great about joining an athletic team is you get to have fun while potentially meeting women. Even if you don't find an attractive girl on your team, you can approach the women who come to the games to support their friends.
What's great about joining an athletic team is you get to have fun while potentially meeting women. Even if you don't find an attractive girl on your team, you can approach the women who come to the games to support their friends.
15. Local Sporting Events
Well I guess WATCHING a local sporting event doesn't qualify as being athletic. But at these events there is always a large sampling of females who at least share your passion for sports.
While most sporting events are populated by guys you'll often discover a few girls who go there to cheer on their favorite team. What's great is these a lot of these women go to sporting events to meet guys. So they won't don't mind guys approaching them.
While most sporting events are populated by guys you'll often discover a few girls who go there to cheer on their favorite team. What's great is these a lot of these women go to sporting events to meet guys. So they won't don't mind guys approaching them.
16. Clothing Stores
Women LOVE going to their favorite clothing store! While most clothing stores cater to one gender, there are a few which have both men's and women's sections. All you have to do is try something on then approach a girl and ask her opinion.
Now if you're truly brave, you can try going to a store which only has women's clothing. Just walk up to a girl then say you're buying a gift for your sister/cousin/etc. and you want her opinion on what to get.
Now if you're truly brave, you can try going to a store which only has women's clothing. Just walk up to a girl then say you're buying a gift for your sister/cousin/etc. and you want her opinion on what to get.
17. Hobby and Craft Stores
If you're into hobbies or crafts, then these types of stores are great for meeting women. Typically you can find MANY women at your standard arts and craft stores, with very competition from other men. So finding a woman to approach is an easy thing to do.
You can start talking to a girl in this place by asking about her purchases and finding a common interest you share.
You can start talking to a girl in this place by asking about her purchases and finding a common interest you share.
18. Home furnishings store
Whenever I go to places like Bed, Bath and Beyond I'm amazed at the amount of attractive women who shop there. Usually these places are filled with women, and almost no men.
You can easily initiate a conversation in this type of store by approaching a woman and asking her opinion on a certain type of home decoration. Since females tend to have better taste in design and home décor, this question won't seem too "in your face" and you can then use this approach to transition into a quick conversation.
You can easily initiate a conversation in this type of store by approaching a woman and asking her opinion on a certain type of home decoration. Since females tend to have better taste in design and home décor, this question won't seem too "in your face" and you can then use this approach to transition into a quick conversation.
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One of my favorite places to meet women is at bookstores. Since I tend to gravitate towards the more intellectual type of girl, I find this type of venue to be the best place to find them.While there are a lot of women who go to these stores, I would recommend that you stick to your particular literary interests. Don't waste time thinking about "what type of books will get the most chicks". Instead just go to the sections you find most interesting and initiate conversation with the women you find there. Again, you can use the "opinion opener" to start talking to women.
20. Online Dating
This one is pretty obvious...
Online dating has become an incredibly acceptable way to meet women. In fact, it's been reported that over 70% of singles in America have tried online dating at one point in their lives.
Now the one thing to remember is online dating favors the proactive person. As a result, you have to make a little effort when meeting women on this site. Just remember there is a lot of competition from other guys, so you have to do stuff that'll make you stand out from the crowd.
Online dating has become an incredibly acceptable way to meet women. In fact, it's been reported that over 70% of singles in America have tried online dating at one point in their lives.
Now the one thing to remember is online dating favors the proactive person. As a result, you have to make a little effort when meeting women on this site. Just remember there is a lot of competition from other guys, so you have to do stuff that'll make you stand out from the crowd.
21. Speed Dating
Speed dating has become a really popular way for busy people to meet. It works like this...
You're meet in a public place or establishment, then systematically meet and talk with a woman for 7-8 minutes.
Then when your time is up, you go meet another girl. With speed dating, you have multiple conversations with all women in the room. Then afterwards you evaluate each woman. If you give one high marks and she does the same for you, you're given an opportunity to contact one another.
The important thing to remember with speed dating is you have to make a great first impression. So you have to do the standard things like be confident, funny and interesting.
You're meet in a public place or establishment, then systematically meet and talk with a woman for 7-8 minutes.
Then when your time is up, you go meet another girl. With speed dating, you have multiple conversations with all women in the room. Then afterwards you evaluate each woman. If you give one high marks and she does the same for you, you're given an opportunity to contact one another.
The important thing to remember with speed dating is you have to make a great first impression. So you have to do the standard things like be confident, funny and interesting.
22. Social Networks
Social networking is a trend which has gained a lot of popularity during the past few years. With these type of sites, you "make friends" with people and connect with individuals you already know.
These types of sites work well because you're able to connect to a woman without being too overt like you would with online dating. The important thing to remember is to contact women in an interesting manner. Since the most social networks are free, women on these sites are bombarded with messages from guys.
So you have to contact her in an interesting manner.
These types of sites work well because you're able to connect to a woman without being too overt like you would with online dating. The important thing to remember is to contact women in an interesting manner. Since the most social networks are free, women on these sites are bombarded with messages from guys.
So you have to contact her in an interesting manner.
23. Meet Women at Seminars
Seminars provide a great opportunity to learn and improve upon your knowledge, while offering a chance to meet interesting women. A seminar is basically anyplace where you can learn topics like self-improvement, home decoration, finances, nutrition and special interests.
What's great about meeting women at these places is they already share a common interest with you. So you already have something you can talk about.
All you have to do is research your area for seminars which are similar to your tastes. Then go there and start meeting women.
What's great about meeting women at these places is they already share a common interest with you. So you already have something you can talk about.
All you have to do is research your area for seminars which are similar to your tastes. Then go there and start meeting women.
24. Wine Tasting
A great place to find a refined woman is at a wine tasting event. Now if you enjoy tasting different wine and spending a pleasant afternoon in an outdoor environment, then this is a great place to meet women.
If you're not familiar with wine tasting gatherings, they are events organized by club or business as a way to get people to judge different wines while being able to meet different people.
What's great about wine-tasting events is you get to enjoy a fun hobby while mingling and engaging different people in conversation. Of course, the alcohol in your system makes it a lot easier to talk to women.
If you're not familiar with wine tasting gatherings, they are events organized by club or business as a way to get people to judge different wines while being able to meet different people.
What's great about wine-tasting events is you get to enjoy a fun hobby while mingling and engaging different people in conversation. Of course, the alcohol in your system makes it a lot easier to talk to women.
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25. Libraries
Another *intellectual* place to meet women is at your local public or academic library. While some people go here strictly for research or work, you can still find a good number of women who like browse the stacks and look at different books.
As long as you locate a woman who isn't too preoccupied, you can initiate her in conversations without being too forward. Typically I like to mention something about the book she's looking at and then let the conversation from her.
As long as you locate a woman who isn't too preoccupied, you can initiate her in conversations without being too forward. Typically I like to mention something about the book she's looking at and then let the conversation from her.
26. Dinner Clubs
All over the country there are special organizations called dinner clubs. The focus of these groups is to bring compatible people based on age, interests and background for dinner and conversations.
What I like about dinner clubs is you get to meet a number of people (not just women) and make instant connections in a laid back atmosphere. Furthermore, you can engage women in conversations without feeling the pressures of a date.
If you want to find a dinner club in your area, simply do a Google search and you should be able to find some interesting options.
What I like about dinner clubs is you get to meet a number of people (not just women) and make instant connections in a laid back atmosphere. Furthermore, you can engage women in conversations without feeling the pressures of a date.
If you want to find a dinner club in your area, simply do a Google search and you should be able to find some interesting options.
27. Charity and Civic Events
A great place to meet sophisticated women is at a charity or civic event in your area. At these occasions you'll find lots of folks banded together for a common cause. But while you're there to help do good you can also use this opportunity to meet women.What's great about charity vents is you can easily find women who are interested in making a difference in society. So obviously most of the women here have good hearts and would be great partners.
28. Museums and Art Galleries
If you like art and history, your local museum or art gallery provides a great opportunity to meet women in a cultured environment. Since most art galleries or museums have special events or displays, you'll have a constant supply of different women to approach.
The easiest technique to approach women is to find one who is looking at an art piece or display, then make a comment about it. From there you can quickly transition into a conversation about your interests and hobbies.
The easiest technique to approach women is to find one who is looking at an art piece or display, then make a comment about it. From there you can quickly transition into a conversation about your interests and hobbies.
29. Martini Bars
If you like meeting women in a relaxed, but adult-like atmosphere, you should check out your local martini bar. At these places, you'll find women who fit the 30+ years demographics. In other words, you probably won't encounter too many teenie-bopper girls.
What's great about martini bars is you can easily mingle and meet women who have a more *adult* like attitude, but still like to have fun and relax.
What's great about martini bars is you can easily mingle and meet women who have a more *adult* like attitude, but still like to have fun and relax.
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