Winning Ex Back - Some Free Tips

So you just had a conversation and officially broke up. What now? Should you start immediately calling your ex, apologizing, messaging, e-mailing, whatever? It would seem logical to do so. But the correct answer is NO!

You should take a real break from the relationship. Don't see your ex, don't call your ex and don't think about your ex...for now. TAKE A BREAK!
If you try winning your ex back now while still having raw emotions your ex is more likely to behave like a stalker, lie, try to make your ex jealous and other stupid things. These things are NOT ATTRACTIVE...AT ALL!

This step is actually a lot more detailed, but I want to make this lens more like a synopsis. If you need information from A to Z, read on and I will tell you where to get it later.

1. Find Positives. Now after your mind has settled you need to find the positives and negatives of your relationship. You must analyse what your qualities kept your ex attracted to you. You need to find out what points of your relationship made it work! When you have found all the positives, write them down.

2. Find Negatives. Now do the same to negatives and search for things that were corrupting your relationship. Think about it, was it lack of physical attraction, didn't you share the same hobbies, different religions? Think about it REAL HARD and then proceed to write down the sticking points.

3. What Is Your Motivation? You must also analyze WHY you want to win your ex back? You need to analyze it logically without emotions - can you be happy without your ex (YES), will you die without your ex (NO). If you strongly believe that you can not make it alone, then you will have problems in this and all the other relationships, too.

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1. Break the pattern and transform yourself! Become a new person and begin with your body: start exercising, eat healthy food. When your body is at its best you have to match it with your mind and gather your thoughts - get rid of your fears, become confident, etc...

Once you have got your health and body together, you must make it into a routine so you don't start slacking.

2. Start dating other people! It might sound off, but trust me - if your ex will find out, it will show him/her that you are confident, are not desperate and only increase YOUR value. Your ex must think that you have decided to move on. Dating is also a great way to increase confidence and get a wider view on things.

3. First contact. Okay, so you haven't seen your ex for a month about now, you are ready and it's time to make the first contact. Arrange a small "get together", don't make it sound like a date or anything related to your relationship. Your main mission here is to be seen by your ex, have fun and ignite a little spark again. Your new image and persona will let him/her see you in a new light.

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Alright, that is enough for today...

I tried to summarize the method, but you must still have tons of questions and troubleshooting, and if I wanted to tell you everything I couldn't leave PC :) So if you are really committed to winning your ex back and want to get ALL of your questions answered, I strongly recommend you getting the best e-book on this subject that has helped thousands of people (me including) and will help you, too.

It is really a great book that will help you avoid mistakes countless people before you have commited and guide you through the whole process of rejoining with your loved one . Here is the Table of Contents of TW Jackson's "Magic Of Making Up":

- Chapter 1: Understanding Why Your Relationship Ended (And Why It's Not Over Just Yet)
- Chapter 2: Don't Panic - Your Key to Winning Back Their Love (Getting Your Head On Straight)
- Chapter 3: Removing the Splinter in Your Relationship (Where Do You Stand?)
- Chapter 4: Re-Igniting the Spark of Passion and Desire (The Plan)
- Chapter 5: Dates and Lovers - How Other People Can Actually Bring You Back Together With Your Ex
- Chapter 6: Easing Back Into Your Relationship to Solidify Your Love
- Chapter 7:Maintaining the Fun and Love Without Dredging Up Old Wounds and Arguments
- Chapter 8: When Your Relationship Can't Be Saved - Moving On With Grace