#10 Tips to Win Your Ex Back
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Win Your Ex Back Tip #1 "Tell Them One Last Time"
Win Back Your Ex by Telling Them One Last Time
Your last talk with them MUST consist of:
Preparation: you wouldn't show up to a job interview with unironed clothes and mud-covered shoes (I hope) and you also wouldn't go in without at least some idea of what you're going to say.
Treat your last talk with your ex like a job interview. You've got one shot and one shot only at this. Make it impressionable and make it good.
(NO CRYING, BEGGING, PLEAING, DESPARATE ACTS OF LOVE)
Win Your Ex Back Tip #2 "When the Curtain Closes, The Shows Over"
Win Back Your Ex by Putting Distance Between You
Think of yourself like a magician. You're making yourself disappear but it's all within your control and you can reappear whenever you feel like it.
Make it at least a 30 day disappearing act. It will pay off trust me.
Win Your Ex Back Tip #3 "Reboot"
Win Back Your Ex by Working On Yourself
Find fulfilling activities to take up your day and remember your life goals again.
These are the things that should make you motivated and feeling good in the morning. Even if you feel like crap and miss your ex terribly, thinking of your personal-development goals and where you want to be in 10 years should be an uplifting and motivating thing!
If you find yourself lost at this point, head on over to Steve Pavlina's Blog and get inspired.
Win Your Ex Back Tip #4 "Do Something For Someone Else"
Win Back Your Ex by Helping Others
Give back to your community. Give a friend a gift or better yet MAKE them a gift. Send a card to your long distance relatives. Think of something that's outside of your own problems and yourself. You will feel better and you'll also make someone else feel good too.
Win Your Ex Back Tip #5 "Ignore The Ex"
Win Back Your Ex by Implementing No Contact
They don't want you back but they don't want you NOT to want them back either. Funny isn't it. In some cases your ex might be the more mature kind and actually respect your silence. Others are not so empathetic.
Be nice and polite, but keep your conversations brief and absent of relationship and emotion talk.
Fool proof method to get your ex back.
Win Your Ex Back Tip #6 "The Yo-Yo Ex"
Win Back Your Ex by Not Falling For The Yo-Yo
Acting warm and cold is the game of choice by immature and confused exes. Be strong and don't accept it unless they give you a definite answer they want to get back together.
Is Your Ex Leading You On?
Win Your Ex Back Tip #7 "The Silent Ex"
Win Back Your Ex by Being Wary of the Silent Ex
A silent ex means:
a). They've moved on and they want you to move on too.
b). They're still not over the break up and want to punish you.
Either way, it's time to re-appear back in their life and see how they react to the new and improved you.
Should You Keep In Contact With Your Ex?
Win Your Ex Back Tip #8 "Reappearing Magic Trick!"
Win Back Your Ex by Reappearing Into Their Life
The key is NOT to overwhelm them with this new you and rub it in their faces. It's time to play Mr or Mrs Mysterious Ex and see if they take the bait. Anyone with eyes and ears will not be able to resist when curiosity bites so make them curious about your new life and the new improved you.
Let them chase you and it doesn't hurt to suggest you might be out of their league now.
How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You.
Win Your Ex Back Tip #9 "Reunion?"
Win Back Your Ex With A Careful Reunion
Who knows you might end up dumping them if you make a haste decision at this point.
How to Get Back Together With Your Ex.
Win Your Ex Back Tip #10 "Congratulations You Have WON Your Ex Back!"
Win Back Your Ex by Understanding You Need to Change
Winning your ex back might seem like the best and only option for you at this moment but things change. People change and YOU change. Never-the-less winning them back might be a sign that perhaps you never really lost them after all.I wish you the best of luck in your quest to win your ex back. Relationships that fail often develop this habit of breaking up and making up. If you're smart though and really listen and learn from your mistakes, you can both come out stronger and happier individuals.
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mark wrote
the love of m life left me on valentines nite due to me working to much and always being tired,since then ive promised her marriage kids everything.shes been very hot and cold with me i was the one doing all the contacting so a week ago i stopped it and since then she has called a couple of times to talk.ive just seen her by off chance ,she drove by and pulled up to talk. i asked why she wont give us a final chance and all she says is that we were both miserable . it doesnt help that shes moved in a flat not very far away , she also said would it be best for me if we didnt see each other for a couple of months and set a date to recontact each other after .the trouble is we both work.live and play in the same town ,i just dont understand any of it any idears?
Posted March 28, 2009
david wrote
in reply to Chris hi chris to be honest mate i wish i was in your shoes as im quite sure you will suceed in getting her back im in a situation been wid mine for about 2 years would of been 3 years on august the 13th but sadly she let go because of arguements all the time and now im in your situation i try to leave her alone she starts talking to me lmao hope you ok bro if you want to reply to me then reply to my email addy bud david12396@hotmail.co.uk. im no exspert but my mate was in the same situation as you and he got her back dus to having a kid so i think you will be fine. me and my ex use to sort things out in 1 nite even if we split now its been a month on sat so think i got no chance david
Posted March 26, 2009
matthew wrote
the no contact thing, it sucks, ive screwed it up so much in the 1st month(my ex broke up with me 25th jan)
and since near end of feb, i hvant tlked or txtd or done anything to be in contact with her.
now i overheard a convo btwn her and a friend where she actually showed them her *mysterious bruise* on her neck =[=[=[=[ a love bite =[ from another guy, meaning she's been fooling around. i dnt no wat to do.. do i step in and now tell her that i miss her cos i dnt no if she saw me overhearing her or not.she has been adamantly resistant that we wont get back together and now being mucking about with other guys is like she has forgotten all about me or is this just her way of getting over me?im still an emotional wreck and her friend saw me crying at a party last nite and told her i was still upset.so me pretending to b ok has gone down the pan =[.any expert help please??im so still in love with her and miss her so much=[ after a 9 and half months relationship (im only 17) but it hurts
Posted March 15, 2009
joe wrote
i keep trying the ignoring thing but drama seems to follow with us and now some one that may or may not be under her influence has damaged my car and both me and my ex went to the police together because we both want this to stop the problem is she thinks it is one of my friends and i think it is one of her friends so how do i move to the next step if things keep getting out of control i ultimatly want her back and i think she may be testing me to see if i have what it takes to be the man i should have been for her over the past 3 years but with all the problems that keep coming up im not sure how to handle this please help
Posted March 13, 2009
Martin wrote
My X is in my opinion 'passive aggresive' and we' ve broken up twice already (7months together - 2 months breakup - 7 months together and now again two month into the second breakup). I'm still in love and dumbfounded that things went wrong a second time after I recaptured the love after the first breakup. I'm in a twist as to whether or not to fight for a third time. We're at a dangerous "just freindship" phase and I detest it. Breaking contact is harder this time around but I feel it neccessary as 'friendship just won't do it for me. Anger and confusion is more operative discriptions of what a friendship would mean at this point. Any advice on second breakups?
Posted March 04, 2009
liezel wrote
well my ex bf still talking to me like before but all i want to know if he wants to be back again. what must i do to fall him inlove with me again?
Posted February 23, 2009
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