Writing A Eulogy Speech

Writing a eulogy speech can be one of the most difficult undertakings that you ever have to do.

During a time filled with overwhelming emotions this task can seem impossible. Remember that this is a tribute to the life of your loved one and as hard as it seems you can find the strength to write a loving eulogy speech.

1. Gather material: This information gathering stage is when you write down some facts and stories about your loved one. Start with the basics like age, marital status, personality traits, children, siblings, marriage dates, places lived and so on. This helps you get started and focused. Think of stories that capture the personality and spirit of the deceased. Talk to other friends, family members, and colleagues in order to incorporate their ideas as well into your eulogy speech.

2. Develop a theme to your eulogy: The theme of the eulogy speech helps your listeners capture the different roles of the persons life. For example, if your writing about your brother, then write down the roles he played in life. Tom the father, Tom the husband, Tom the business man, Tom the practical joker, etc. Using this theme you can develop the character by discussing stories within these roles.

If you begin with Tom the father, then you can talk about what he was like as a father. His support for his children, playing catch after work, waking up on Saturdays to take the kids to the park, and so on.

3. Organize your materials: Write each idea on a separate 3 x 5 card. Then sort pile the cards into groups and sort them into a logical order.

4. Write a rough draft of your eulogy speech: This is the first version of your speech. Don't worry about it flowing perfectly or missing things. Use your notecards for direction and focus.

5. Polish and Practice: Now it's time to polish your rough draft. Write from a place of thankfulness. Be thankful for the person being in your life. This will keep your mind in the proper state and your words will flow smoothly. Practice the speech out loud in front of a mirror. Rehearse it until you feel like it is almost memorized.

You do not need to memorize it, but you should be very comfortable with it so that you can glance up from your notes during the eulogy.

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