Introducing myself
I am a married 50-year old man, with two kids. My son is aged 13 and my daughter is aged 11. I became a Christian aged 14 and over the years have worked with young people in various roles. I currently assist our youth pastor with the youthwork to over 60 young people in the church and several others who have no commitment to the church.
Although I have lots of experience as a volunteer and was a nurse for over 16 years I still have lots to learn. Most of my working life has been spent working with people in 'abnormal' situations (sickness, homelessness, mental illness etc). The work I do now is with what I see as more 'normal' kids in 'normal' settings. Of course, all the aforementioned thngs make up part of life's expereinces for all of us to some degree. I realise that this may come across all wrong but I hope you can understand what I am saying.
This lens will hopefully attract some interest because I am genuinly interested in what others have to say. So, here goes!
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Basic principles
Where I am coming from.
With particular reference to Christian youthwork, I believe that every person needs to make a personal response to the Gospel imperative and that there are Kingdom principles which all of us to need to live by. I believe individuals are loved by God and that His desire is for each of us to know Him personally. I believe that God is on the side of the weak, the poor, the oppressed and against injustice of any kind. We are to stand up for righteousness and to resist evil in whatever form it takes. I realise that some of this language may seem 'old-fashioned' to some readers. I make no apologies for this and this lens is not going to be one for Christian Apologetics. There are far more capable folk than I who can do a better job. No. I am stating these things so you will know where am coming from. I am not out to convince you of certain beliefs or value systems. rather, my intention is for those who are engaged in Christian Youthwork to share their experience and any tips they may have or links to other resources. Its not just for those who would describe themselves as 'Evangelicals' but certainly anyone who would describe themselves engaged in 'Christian Youthwork', though I hope non-Christian youth-workers will still feel able to contribute.
Finally, its important to remember that we have a duty to protect the privacy of those we work with and so I will not be mentioning anyone by name or identifying them in any way that would break this principle. For that reason have not given my kids names and will be very circumspect in what information I include in my postings. I encourage others to do the same.
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- Basic principles
- The ups and downs of youthwork
- Governance and its implications for Christian youthwork
- Encouraging commitment....
- Importance of resourcing
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The ups and downs of youthwork
Voluntary youthwork has its blessings as well as its mundane...
As today is Father's Day, I decided to have adopt the theme of God as Father. Using Rob Bell's excellent short video entitled "The Rain" [part of the Nooma series - highly recommend it] as the opener, we then split the young people into four groups of about six. I gave each group two or three Bible passages on the theme of God's character and asked the young people to consider two questions:
1. What do the passages tell us about God's character?
2. What kind of relationship does God desire with us?
We then asked for feedback from the groups before ending in prayer.
How did it go? Well, I was a bit anxious as a previous session had led to one young person telling me later that it was 'boring'! This time got the thumbs up and though it sounds trite, a round of applause that cheered me up no end!
Hopefully, something of the whole point of the session got across to what is a widely varied group of age and spiritual maturity. Hopefully they will see God the Father not as some distant 'supreme being' who is barely interested in them but as a personal God who is intimately interested in them and loves them beyond measure.
Trying to communicate this 'Big Idea' is not as easy as it might seem, especially in today's culture where young people are bombarded by all sorts of ideas and such an idea is dismissed as 'old-fashioned' and a myth. Trying to avoid coming across as a 'preachy' adult whilst communicating the radical idea of God actually loving us and wanting us to know him intimately is not easy.
The hardest part of being a volunteer youth-worker is not having the time and opportunity to build relationships with a large group of young people. Hopefully, as I do this for longer I'll pick up the art of doing that. In the meantime any tips will be gratefully received.
Governance and its implications for Christian youthwork
How important is it to take a 'professional approach'?
So, as youthwork is regarded as an activity of the voluntary sector (rather than the State), should churches, youth workers and those involved in managing youth projects be aware of what constitutes 'good governance?' I believe so. In fact, I believe its imperative that not only are they aware but that they are proactive in ensuring good governance is their number one priority. From good governance flows are the other things that we know are important, such as financial health, good practice, community support and success we can evaluate and quantify.
If that is the case, how can we best ensure good governance? Well, its helpful to see what is happening in the wider voluntary sector (non-profit, not-for-profit or charitable sectors mean the same thing). There is now a wealth of resources available to any voluntary organisation, whether faith-based or not. Here in the UK we have numerous bodies and organisations whose sole job is to help the sector be successful. Increasingly, here and in the US and elsewhere, the State recognises the important role the sector plays in a healthy community.
Some websites to check out are:
Governance Hub
Charity Commission
Faithworks
Youthwork
Youthwork International
I hope to be writing more about this important subject and sharing with you how we aim to achieve good governance in our youthwork. Please feel free to share your thoughts, experiences and questions. Hopefully, we will be able to learn together and improve our effectiveness in our work.
Encouraging commitment....
How can we encourage our young people to become committed?
So, how do we succeed in that aim? Well, perhaps I have already answered my own question here... is it not through our personal commitment to the young person, our faith in them and our affirmation of their worth and value that underlines to them how important they are to us and to God.
Still, I think there must be other factors too. Otherwise if we are consistent in our relationships with all of the young people we work with then if it was as straightforward as this they all would become committed to the faith. Why then is it that not all do? Does the problem lie with them, with us or somewhere else?
Sometimes, once you start down this road you find your head starts to hurt and you utter an inward groan and try to think of something else! Sooner or later however you return to the question as its so important that we can't ignore it. At the end of the day its not the method that matters but the end result. In the context of ministry the way in which we minister to our young people will differ from how someone else ministers to their young people. Even within the same denomination or country each young person and therefore each group of young people are unique. So, in a way our approach must be unique. However, I do believe there are strands that will be similar and that we can all learn from one another. So, if anyone would care to share their experiences I would certainly be glad to hear from you. In the meantime, my head is starting to hurt so I must think of something else for a while! Perhaps my other lens on Good Governance!
Importance of resourcing
Only the committed should apply!
Another issue is that of resources. Why is that some churches think that youth work can be done with absolutely no resources, other than a church hall, the odd bits of equipment (usually broken) and just about anybody in the church roped in to be a youth worker? Well, I've got news for you if the hat fits, you can't!
Of course, I am painting with a broad brush here and making sweeping generalizations. So please, don't misunderstand me. I'm not out to condemn all church youth work. Rather, I am trying to get across the importance of what is a vital part of the ministry of the Church. If we really care about our young people, then we need to give the proper support and resources to the endeavor. This is such an important issue I will return to it soon.
Situation Vacant!
Youthwork needs more willing volunteers!
Although the news is not unexpected its still depressing. Depressing news is sadly not that exceptional as far as youth work goes (whether its of the 'ministry' type or the 'secular' variety). The really depressing thing, though it ought to be encouraging, is that we now have contact with over 160 young people ranging from 11 to early 20's. It should be something to rejoice about but in fact its depressing as there is no way we can cope with so many young people and effectively minister to each and every one of them.
The truth is though that many parents will expect us not only to cope but also to devote time and energy to their kids without ever lifting a finger to help! That sounds extreme to some but its true, nevertheless. Add to that those parents who don't come to church and frankly are probably not that interested in what happens at church and you can start to see what a mountain we have to climb.
Still, I am encouraged. Last Sunday I took the youth session all on my own as our full-time youth worker was away. The group was co-operative and whether out of pity or what they didn't give me any problems. I used one of the Nooma videos. We ended up with a short talk about passion for Christ and God's passion for us. The reception seemed positive and the mood was light and relaxed. What I feel about the session looking back is that the effort expended in getting to know the young people and in simply being around is at last paying off. All the more reason for more volunteers coming forward and being prepared to give their time and energy to youth work. At the end of the day the young people are worth it and lets face it, the old adage is still true that young people are the future.
Another departure!
This time its the minister!
The BIG question is... how will this effect the youth work of the church? I guess only time will tell. One concern is that the lack of a minister during any interregnum will impact upon our Youth Minister and be a source of stress. W are blessed to have an assistant minister, so at least we are not totally without a minister but it will undoubtedly have an impact.
On the positive side, there are more folk coming forward to help with the youth work, including a young couple who are close enough to most of the young people to be able to relate to them in ways we more mature folk can't!
Summer is almost upon us officially, so we will no doubt we missing some folk in the weeks ahead. At least exams for the young people are mostly at an end so they can relax a bit and for some, get a job!
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