The Great Christmas Card Debate

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HAND-ADDRESSED CHRISTMAS GREETINGS vs. GETTING THE DARN THINGS IN THE MAIL

Sure, if I had the time, I would sign each card and write a long, personalized letter, then address the envelope with my personal calligraphy in multi-colored inks. But I'm a homeschool mom of four and time like that just doesn't exist around here! So I settle for getting greetings out in any form, including electronic. And they are always sent at least by President's Day.

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MISS MANNER'S BASIC TRAINING

Communication: In which Miss Manners explains the proper form and choice of technology for messages private, professional, and public: when to phone, when to fax, when a handwritten note is obligatory, a form letter forbidden, and a chain letter out of th

I think that subtitle just about says it all, don't you?

Miss Manners' Basic Training: Communication

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From Publishers Weekly: In her latest resourceful etiquette manual, Martin, aka Miss Manners, brings shrewd insights and an amazing awareness of contingencies to her coverage of traditional terrain-the dos and don'ts of personal and business letters, telephone calls, get-well messages, rejection letters, condolences, invitations, Christmas cards, adoption and birth announcements. Recognizing that it has always been rude to press unwelcome intimacy, to misrepresent oneself, to bore people, to monopolize others' time, she extrapolates these principles to office e-mail, answering machines, conference calls via speakerphone, fax machines, beepers, cyberspace, computer bulletin boards. She has her pet peeves - printed greeting cards and "cute" writing papers - as well as her taboos (never fax a thank-you note to a human resources manager after a job interview). Readers will find a wealth of good advice delivered with wit, class and civility.

Copyright 1996 Reed Business Information, Inc.

YOUR TURN! IS MISS MANNERS' WAY THE ONLY WAY?

How old-fashioned are you? Do you sign each card by hand with a personalized note, and address each one with love and calligraphy? Or do you go for preprinted signatures and address stickers ... or bypass the whole thing with electronic greetings?

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Miss Manners believes hand-addressed missives are de rigueur for meaningful greetings.

Pinkchic18 says:

I get our signature printed on the card, but hand address the envelopes.

RealityTV says:

Well, when I send them, I do actually sign them by hand.......

PizmoBeach says:

Definitely signed by hand with a personal message.

Pastiche says:

I only send hand-signed and hand-addressed greeting cards. But I also only send cards to folks I don't see over the holiday season who I miss and with whom I want to stay in touch.

Ladymermaid says:

Yep. Everyone gets a little news as well as a lottery ticket. I hate to mail an empty card.

CoolFoto says:

I address cards, sign and usually write a personal message. But, I only do that for 10 people who live out of state.

kab says:

Send it in the mail! I guess I'm old-school on this one, but I will never send an electronic Christmas card, and I am really annoyed when I receive one, unless it is followed by a "real" card. I prefer you sign it yourself, too. Calligraphy not required.
If you can't take 30 seconds out of your life to address a card, is it really worth sending at all?

Miss Manners can kiss my ... I mean, I think printed or electronic greetings are just fine.

Lori Gribbin says:

We got snowed in and I can't get my Christmas newsletter published, so I'm emailing it to those whose email I have.

HorseAndPony says:

Miss Manner can kiss my.... Also, I am into the going green thing and saving money. There are so many great eCards that are FREE.

spirituality says:

Personally... I've sent my Christmas greetings by e-mail this year. Except those people who sent me a physical card, I sent them a physical card (and yes, handwritten and all) back.

But, you know, they did invent the PC for a reason.

TheGreenerMe says:

I think we also need to keep in mind that electronic cards are much better for the environment, not only do we save the trees that the cards are printed on, we also save the carbon footprint associated with the printing of the cards, shipping the cards to the store, driving to the store to buy the cards, and the delivering of the cards by the post office.

Cyrano_Smith says:

Next year, I'm asking Miss Manners to hand write all my Christmas cards, since she must have the time to do so. Cyrano at The Twelve Polls of Christmas

stargazer00 says:

I like to get news with the Christmas card whether hand written or mass produced. It's nice to get caught up with those we don't necessarily keep in close touch with.

 

HERE'S MY VOTE

Hand-written is awfully nice ...
but actually getting them sent
is even nicer!

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