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Womanizing, is a game. It has nothing whatsoever to do with true intimacy between two people. Sooooo ... how does learning how to manipulate and finesse a woman into a sexual coupling create true intimacy? Before answering to yourself, please, first follow me: One of the errors that most women make, a huge error, and a very common one, is that they think they are in control of themselves. While they are not. You don’t control attraction. But this age old observation is ignored, and if a woman is attracted to you she will think she is attracted to you regardless. Just because of who you are on the inside. Because you are fit for her. Never because of what you do, but always because of who you are. But who you are, who you have shown to be, is defined by your attitude, your action, your language… in short all things that you do, or you can change. How many men are there who have never had a girlfriend. Many. Have they just never met their other half? Naa, they met her, and sent her away. How many are single right now, and might not to be? Many, really a lot. How many are single or are in a relationship because they don’t want to risk to be alone, even more? The truth is that men are generally unsatisfied with relationships and sex and are often unable to relate to women. Now let us suppose that an un-sexually awakened man meets the girl of his dreams. Or just a girl he really likes. What is generally his reaction? Unless he had a lot of experiences under the belt, and probably had started having them when he was really young, he will be terrorized. Scared of messing up everything. This fear will mess it up for you. And she will go away thinking 'what a loser'. But of course there is another possibility. He might somehow manage, enough for her to realize that she might, after all, be somehow interested in him. Interested, not attracted. The two things are totally different. So they’ll start to date. And since he is attracted to her, and she is interested in him, he will push to get closer. She will pull away. The more he will try to get closer, the less attraction she will have for him. In the meantime she will date with guys that don’t give a rats behind about her, and are only half as interesting as HE could be. She is, in short, making out with the alpha males, while using him as a confessor. Terrible. And when he will finally make a move, (try to!) kiss her -- she will do the most horrible thing ever, and reject the advance. She had it all, she had the alpha male, and the confessor. She used him, while having fun with the guy she was attracted to. So when her confessor tries to kiss her, what does she do? She takes away his male status by "Let’s just be friends'ing" him. Again, terrible. This not only harms the guy, but also the woman, because the woman is unable to see him in a sexual way. He was too needy. And he was so needy, because he was sexually frustrated. The woman is unable to be attracted to him. She just can’t do it. Now, being a womanizer means that a man can walk away from a relationship at any time. He can have whatever relationship that he wants, and is not tied to that one woman. He is not in a weak position, while giving her the lead. He is in a strong position, which is also arousing for her. She respects him. And independently of the fact if he respects her or not (he might or might not) it is not possible to have attraction between two people if the female does not respect the male. It just cannot happen, because she would use him, or "Let's be friends" him, and move on. Learning how to deal with women, how to seduce them, how to attract them, how not to care, how to lightly manipulate them does seem paramount to be respected by a woman. Now the funny thing, and here is the female logic, is that once a women meets a guy who is both a womanizer, and an interesting guy, she will love him for his other qualities. His depth, his intelligence. And she will be in denial that all this womanizer stuff was of any importance. "I would have liked you before all that self-improvement" But she would not have met him, he would not have been able to look at her without freezing or feeling like jelly inside. He would not have known what to do or what to say. And although he had to avoid all the techniques which were unusable respect to her, he still had his security, and the clear map of the game, and what is supposed to happen, when and why. All this made their meeting possible. How? By making the man feel really worthy, and changing his belief system. By giving him a map of how a relationship starts. By sexually unfrustrating him, in a way that lets him play it cool near her, and lets her feel attracted because she feels she cannot manipulate him with her sexual power, as he already has all the attention that he needs. In short by opening him up to his full alpha status. And women are attracted to an alpha male, not to sexually frustrated beta males. They can’t help it, it’s just how they are wired. But most women do deny it. And they often, too, feel they are in charge of themselves. To learn more about this dating and mating philosophy, read more, now. "The great question that...I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is - 'What does a woman want?'" (Sigmund Freud) Getting Your Groove Back After A Breakup Click Here Learn The Secrets Of Women And Dating Click Here Approaching Women and Getting Physical Click Here   * We love and care for our lenses each day! Show us some love too? If you've found this lens interesting, useful, enjoyable, informative, or fun please lensroll us, leave a comment, vote for us or--even better--add us to your favorites! Online Dating Made Easy. 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