Yes Dear, You're Right!

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A unique approach to handling those inevitable bumps in relationships

Some of us have been there before. Others will be there in the future. Few escape it. You're in a relationship, having fun, things are smooth. And then you commit a relationship sin. Often they are simple sins that are easy to recover from. Then there are those grevious sins. Forgetting to take the garbage out. Lipstick on the collar. Putting the white silk blouse in the laundry with your red flannel shirt. The routine routes to absolution are tedious and worn out. You try gifts, denial, or admittance. You suffer through cold shoulder, berating, resentment, and even banishment.

A few of us have had enough sin and recover experience to spawn a little story, and offer a different method.

"...careful observation and comparing of notes" 

The idea for Hats for Husbands came to us over scotch in our local tavern, a version of Cheers. We have long term happy second marriages. We both learned from our first marriages. We had also observed a third husband with many years into his second marriage who seems to have acquired a Zen like peace. His wife is a force that is used to giving direction and expecting compliance. Many men would consider this a problem, but not Dick. When his wife makes a request, his response is "Yes Dear". He is locally renowned for this response.
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One might think that Dick is whipped, but it is not so, he is his own man. He is intelligent, financially successful, expresses his own opinions well and is generally good company. What he does is avoid unnecessary conflict by mostly acquiescing to his wife's requests and thereby maintaining peace primarily by saying "Yes Dear" and often doing what he thinks best. None the less his wife appreciates the diplomatic gesture and so does ours.

As a result of the marital harmony achieved by Dick, our wives thought we should get husband coaching by Dick. We, seeing the happy results achieved by Dick's methods agreed and named ourselves D. I. T. s or Dicks in Training. There was never a formal training program, merely careful observation and comparing notes.

It occurred to us during our scotch enhanced intellectual discussions that not only did Yes Dear encapsulate the acceptance of reality but also the gains made by that attitude exceeded the gains we made by early marriage truculence. Further enlightenment revealed the vision of a baseball hat that said "Yes Dear" on the front and "You're Right" on the back. We realized that with this hat we could be pre-forgiven, do penance and get absolution all without saying a thing. The hat said it all without our having to say a thing. We thought that more benefits may accrue to us within our capacity to enjoy them.

As a result of this we founded Hats for Husbands. We feature novelty hats and apparel that are more than just items to wear. Our products offer humor, expression, marital advice, comfort and more. These are great gifts for all men in relationships, husbands, brothers, brothers-in-law, uncles, nephews, lovers, grooms, groomsmen and friends. Besides just gifts that tickle the fancy, these items are good for birthdays, anniversaries, Father's Day, and Christmas. Anytime a present for a man is appropriate Hats for Husbands has the answer.

Harmonius Relationship Inspiring Hats and Shirts 

Hat-Shirt-HumorState of Grace!
Front: "I didn't do it"
Back: "And I'll never do it again!"
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Hat-Humor-AdviceFor Instant Absolution!
Front: "You're Right"
Back: "I'm Sorry"
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jjmartin854 wrote...

Geez that guy on the newspaper is certainly not lucky. I don't think any book on how to save my relationship will help him.

ReplyPosted December 02, 2008

Lisa_Jo wrote...

Well, that certainly is one approach, haha. To be honest I prefer it when my husband just talks to me about things and simply respects my reasons for requests on my "honey-do" list. This seems to work well for us.

ReplyPosted November 15, 2008

emmalarkins wrote...

Ha, nice! I like the "visual" humor. That sure was one unlucky guy!

ReplyPosted October 23, 2008

BFuniv.com wrote...

Speaking of stereotypes: If a married man states an opinion in a forest and no one hears him, is he still wrong?

ReplyPosted September 11, 2008

aj2008 wrote...

Hey Sancho - what a great idea. I must definitely check out the hats available a bit nearer to Christmas! In the meantime, you write so well, I would love to see more text/write modules with your own writing in them.

ReplyPosted August 22, 2008

 
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